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Hello, HELLO!!! Ladies, I’m thrilled that it’s Friday and I’m super pumped about today’s post.
After -2 degree temperatures last week in Texas, we had a glimpse of Spring this week! It got up to almost 80 on Wednesday, and it was glorious. I even wore shorts when we took the dogs on a walk. Texas weather is WILD, y’all.
Today’s post is chock full of amazing pieces that will help all of us transition seamlessly into Spring. I’ve got two great pairs of denim, a military jacket, and two pairs of shoes that are all perfect to help us ease in to warmer temperatures and great spring style.
DENIM STYLE | GIRLFRIEND JEANS
We’re going to kick today’s post off with a great pair of girlfriend jeans.
If you’re a regular follower over here, you know I initially found these jeans several weeks ago, but there was limited stock and they sold out very quickly. I felt terrible that many of you missed out, but I’m delighted to tell you today that THEY ARE BACK BABY!
blush tee / military jacket / beaded hoop earrings / similar heart necklace / beaded stretch bracelets / girlfriend jeans / neutral mules (with chain) / pleated faux leather hobo bag / bandana
These girlfriend jeans are super stretchy, soft as can be, crazy comfy, and I love the new vibe for those of you that want to add a non-skinny jean option to your closet.
My closet is full of skinny jeans and boot cut jeans, so I went on a quest to add another style to my rotation. Over the last month I tried on several pairs of girlfriend, boyfriend, and mom jeans from several different brands.
OMG.
Y’all.
There is NO DOUBT that Wit and Wisdom is my brand. Let’s be honest, I’ve low key known this for awhile, BUT NOW IT’S BEEN OFFICIALLY CONFIRMED. To be honest, I feel like I looked ridiculous in the other brands and styles that I tried, and I was so happy to slip back into my jeans with all the stretch and the Ab Solution technology. I mean, life is too short to wear jeans without stretch in them.
Anyway, I’m happy to have these new now! I’m wearing a 4 here (which is my regular size), but I do wonder if I should size down. I think I could take the 2, but I know they are supposed to be a slouchy and relaxed look, so I’m just going to keep the 4. (If you size down often, definitely go ahead and size down.) Wit and Wisdom also carries a great selection of plus size denim, and you can find those options HERE.
blush tee / military jacket / girlfriend jeans / neutral mules (with chain) / pleated faux leather hobo bag / bandana
Now that we’ve given plenty of attention to the jeans, let’s move on to the jacket.
I think a military jacket is an essential piece to have in your closet, and I own several. Every year I try to find a great one for y’all, and this is definitely a great option. It’s soft and comfy with just a bit of stretch. It hits below the hips so it covers a bit of the booty, the olive green acts as a neutral, and you can cinch in the waist to give yourself some shape. Oh, and it has a stand up collar! For size reference, I’m wearing a small in the jacket.
The jacket also comes in plus size HERE! The tee does as well HERE!
blush tee / military jacket / beaded hoop earrings / similar heart necklace / beaded stretch bracelets / girlfriend jeans / neutral mules (with chain) / pleated faux leather hobo bag / bandana
How fun is this bag!
It’s a slouchy faux leather hobo, and I love the relaxed feel. The color is a really light cognac that is perfect for Spring and Summer, and I think it’s fun that its a different silhouette than any other bag I own.
beaded stretch bracelets / girlfriend jeans / neutral mules / pleated faux leather hobo bag / bandana
And the bandana tied to the handle adds a whole lot of style for just a little bit of money.
military jacket / bracelets / girlfriend jeans / pleated faux leather hobo bag / bandana
The beaded stretch bracelets come in 4 colors, they are one of the newer styles from Kendra Scott, and they are 20% OFF right now! Actually, there are a ton of awesome Kendra Scott pieces that are all on sale.
AND Y’ALL! I’m adding this to the post Friday morning at 9:20 because I just found a new bracelet set that is DARLING! I ordered both colorways (the gold/pink/multi and the gold/navy/multi), so I’ll show y’all next week, but I’m afraid they might be gone by then. Sets like this typically fly off the shelves, and I didn’t want to miss out!
blush tee / military jacket / beaded stretch bracelets / girlfriend jeans / pleated faux leather hobo bag / bandana
Let’s turn our attention to the shoes.
These neutral mules are what I consider to be a perfect transition shoe. The back is open (but the toes are covered), and the suede materials works well for this time of year.
This loafer style mule has a pointy toe and beautiful chain detail and can easily be dressed up or down. I love them styled casually here with my girlfriend jeans, but they are definitely nice enough to wear with slacks to the office as well. True to size for me.
girlfriend jeans / neutral mules / pleated faux leather hobo bag / bandana
I’m wearing the tan suede, but they also come in a leopard pattern as well as a bone leather and a black leather. I love them and think they are very chic.
girlfriend jeans / neutral mules / pleated faux leather hobo bag / bandana
These girlfriend jeans also look great with these studded wedges. You can click HERE to see them on me with the wedges.
girlfriend jeans / neutral mules (with chain) / pleated faux leather hobo bag / bandana
This is an outfit that you can wear throughout the spring, and it’s made up of pieces that can all be mixed and matched several different ways.
Before we move on to some skinny jeans, let’s touch quickly on a couple of tips I have for how to style girlfriend jeans.
Since they are a bit more relaxed, I recommend creating a waist somehow. I created the waist in this outfit by doing a front tuck with a tee. You could also pair a fitted top with them to create a flattering look as well.
And since they aren’t tight around the ankles, I think it looks best to wear a slender shoe, sandal, or a wedge with them. A chunky sneaker wouldn’t be as flattering, but this pointy toe mule is perfect.
blush tee / military jacket / beaded hoop earrings / similar heart necklace / beaded stretch bracelets / girlfriend jeans / neutral mules (with chain) / pleated faux leather hobo bag / bandana
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DENIM STYLE | SKINNY JEANS
As much as I love and adore the girlfriend jeans above, I want you to know that this mama is still going to be rocking skinny jeans as well. I don’t care what the girls on Tik Tok are saying, I feel good in skinny jeans, so no little Tik Tokkers can convince me that they’re not cool. Ha!
I am definitely happy to have some different options, but I can’t quit the skinny jeans, and neither should you if you feel great in them.
striped sweater / military jacket / beaded hoop earrings / similar heart necklace / beaded stretch bracelets / frayed hem skinny jeans /camo sneakers / cross body tote / bandana
These skinny jeans are stretchy, soft, and crazy comfy. They are the perfect length, showing off just a little bit of ankle with sandals, sneakers, and wedges. The frayed him is just my style and there is a tiny bit of distressing and fading.
They suck you in while somehow still magically allowing you to breathe. I LOVE THEM. For size reference, I’m wearing my regular size 4. And remember, you can look for a similar style Wit and Wisdom pair in plus size HERE.
striped sweater / military jacket / beaded hoop earrings / similar heart necklace / beaded stretch bracelets / frayed hem skinny jeans /camo sneakers / cross body tote / bandana
The striped sweater is lightweight and perfect for Spring. I really like that it’s a looser fit, and it’s now ON SALE for just under $30! For size reference, I’m wearing a small and it’s still got some room, so I would recommend sizing down 1 from your regular size.
striped sweater / military jacket / beaded hoop earrings / similar heart necklace / beaded stretch bracelets / frayed hem skinny jeans /camo sneakers / cross body tote / bandana
The cross body tote is spacious, versatile, and a really great basic. I chose the classic cognac, but it also comes in solid black and a black with cognac straps. My favorite way to carry it is with the attached cross body straps, but it has handles as well. It’s an investment at around $180, but it’s very well made and a classic style that will last you years and years.
And you guessed it, I infused some color and fun into the outfit by tying a bandana on it.
striped sweater / military jacket / beaded hoop earrings / similar heart necklace / beaded stretch bracelets / frayed hem skinny jeans /camo sneakers / cross body tote / bandana
Fashion sneakers are all the rage right now, and Dolce Vita makes a great sneaker. There are several patterns to choose from on the same link, and you might remember that I already have a white leather pair with leopard and pink accents from the same maker.
frayed hem skinny jeans /camo sneakers / cross body tote / bandana
This camo design is a sassy neutral.
frayed hem skinny jeans /camo sneakers / cross body tote / bandana
And the glitter backs really kick things up a notch. Or 10.
frayed hem skinny jeans /camo sneakers / cross body tote / bandana
They give a little bit of height with the platform sole, and they are padded for comfort. True to size for me.
And seriously, how cute is the frayed hem on these jeans.
military jacket /beaded stretch bracelets / frayed hem skinny jeans /camo sneakers / cross body tote / bandana
I’ve found that skinny jeans are especially great when wearing blousy or boxy tops (to help balance out proportions). In the outfit with the girlfriend jeans, I tucked my shirt in to create a waist. However, with these skinny jeans, I prefer to have a blousier top without any tucking. If I would have worn this sweater with the girlfriend jeans, the overall look would have been too sloppy, but it’s perfect with the skinny jeans.
And the slim look of the jeans (with the tight ankle) can totally handle the chunkier sneaker. It creates a nice balance.
striped sweater / military jacket / beaded hoop earrings / similar heart necklace / beaded stretch bracelets / frayed hem skinny jeans /camo sneakers / cross body tote / bandana
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So I’m interested, are you doing away with your skinny jeans? Or are you like me…adding in a new style or two, but hanging on tight to the skinny jeans that you know and love. Sound off in the comments!
A huge THANK YOU to Nordstrom and ShopStyle for sponsoring this post!
Also, today marks 4 years since my precious friend Manda went to be with Jesus. She is one of the best people I have ever known, and I like to honor her on this day each year. She shaped me as a mom and a Christian, and she left a lasting impact on my life and my heart. I’ll be sharing more about her legacy over on instagram today, so please head over there at some point today to see what I have to say about my sweet friend. I’ll also be sharing a link where she shares her testimony, and I promise you that it will change you.
I hope everybody has a wonderful weekend with your people.
Marcia Compton says
You use to also show plus size , i was so excited that you did that, it made your blog more about all sizes.
Sheaffer says
Hi, Marcia! You’re absolutely right. I used to be better about that, and I’m going to make an effort to do that again. I went back in to today’s post and added plus size links where I could. I’m excited to say that the exact jacket and blush tee both come in plus sizes (I added those links above the close up of the jacket in the first outfit), and I also added a couple of links in the post reminding y’all that Wit and Wisdom has a great selection of plus size denim. I hope this helps, and I always appreciate and welcome this kind of feedback! xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
Rachel says
I snagged the girlfriend jeans when you first talked about them and you are 100% right about them. They’re awesome. Thanks for another great recommendation, and I’m totally with you on the whole Wit and Wisdom for life thing. All other jeans pale in comparison. I think I now have like 8-10 pairs that I’ve collected over the years. They’re the best!
Sheaffer says
RACHEL! I’m so happy to hear this!!! And yes, Wit and Wisdom for LIFE! It’s soooooooooo true. No other jeans compare for me! xoxo
Alison Althouse says
I was able to get a pair of the girlfriend jeans, but, unfortunately, that style just misses the mark for me and ends up looking sloppy. I’m definitely more comfortable wearing the skinny jeans I’ve come to adore… and it helps that I’ve lost weight through this stupid pandemic and can now wear a smaller size. ??♀️ Love seeing your styles and ideas… thanks for helping us all stay current, no matter what’s being “recommended” on TikTok! ?
Sheaffer says
Alison! You’ve LOST weight during the pandemic? Everybody is so jealous right now! 🙂 I wonder if you need to size down in the girlfriend jeans to give them a fair shot…and you might need to make sure you are following the tips I give in the post: 1) wear a fitted top or do a half tuck to give yourself a waist line, and 2) wear a slender shoe instead of anything chunky. I think you should give them another shot to make sure you reallllllllllly don’t like them. Haha! xoxo
Julie says
Hi Scheaffer- I always love your recommendations and even though there is NO WAY I’m giving up my skinny jeans, I tried the girlfriend jeans. And yes, they were very comfy in the waist, but I am slightly shorter than you and have gained a few pounds so they did not look good at all. I kept thinking that maybe it is a look I can get used to but I ultimately decided to take them back and am definitely sticking with the more flattering skinny jeans. My all time favorite jeans were the ones you called “pajama jeans” by Articles of Society. I have literally worn them out and it seems they have been discontinued. I have tried several other Article jeans but they are not as soft or the same fit. Have you found any jeans similar to the originals?
Sheaffer says
OMG, YES! The pajama jeans! I loved those so much, and I’ve never found anything similar since! 🙁 So sorry!
Shirley says
Thank you, Sheaffer, for sticking with skinny jeans!!! I LOVE my skinnies & will continue to rock them as well, no matter what the nay-sayers are claiming! I love your style & how you fully embrace it!
Sheaffer says
Awwww! Thanks, Shirley! That’s very nice of you to say! xoxo
Cindy Charleson says
Great to see a Nordstrom post again with familiar brands. Snagged both the military jacket and the girlfriend jeans. Love those suede mules with the chain so thinking about those also! I always order one size up from what you are wearing and that seems to work pretty well. Thanks, Sheaffer!
Sheaffer says
Happy to hear you say that, Cindy! I felt like I that I really hit the jackpot with Nordstrom this time and I’m SUPER happy with what I found! xoxo
Robin Harris says
I’m keeping the skinny jeans and the side part. (Hair). I need the skinny jeans bc I like to wear tops that are less fitted.
Sheaffer says
I agree, Robin! Skinny jeans and side part FOR LIFE! 🙂
Melissa says
Hi Sheaffer! How do you compare the fit of the Wit and Wisdom jeans over KUT from the Kloth? I am in need of new jeans, but definitely not a skinny jean gal prefer a looser fit and not low rise. – Melissa
Sheaffer says
Hey, Melissa! KUT are great jeans too, but I think Wit and Wisdom are much more comfortable. Most of them have quite a bit more stretch in them which I love. None of my Wit and Wisdom jeans are low rise. Hope this helps! xoxo
Karen says
I agree with you here. I’m jumping between a size 10 & 12 right now. (ugghhh) but I always know that with my W&W jeans I’ll be able to wear them. Other jeans I’m like, nope, not now. Lol. Was able to snatch the last pair (so they say) of the girlfriend jeans in a 10 and they fit very nice. They didn’t have a 12 available but those would have definitely given me that slouchy look. Maybe I should ck for a 12 now. Wink wink.
Pam Alis says
Hi
I am over skinny jeans. I would love to see some straight leg options. I love Kut from the Kloth and Democracy (thank you for telling me about them). I got the itty bitty boot cut and have been wanting to try the straight leg Democracy jeans but haven’t ordered them yet. Could you possibly try them and review them? I always totally trust your reviews and have ordered so many items from your blog. You make my shopping life so much easier and I love to shop!
Sheaffer says
Hi, Pam! Please e-mail me the exact link to the jeans at pinteresttoldmeto@yahoo.com. I’ll see what I can do! xoxo
Heidi says
PLEASE PLEASE let us know if you have any insight as to when Nordstrom will restock the W&W Girlfriend Jean. I have been keeping a close eye out for your posts so I’d be sure to snag a pair. Saw the post yesterday, immediately linked to the site to buy, completed my purchase with Nordstrom, got an email saying they were on the way and then wake up this morning to see they cancelled the order!!! Super frustrating. I wish they would “truly” stock these!!!!!! Love your posts and honesty about items you recommend…just not happy not being able to snag these jeans as I’m a true fan of W&W denim…
Sheaffer says
Hi, Heidi! I cannot believe they are gone again. I checked with my rep, and she thinks there is going to be 1 more release. I will definitely keep y’all posted. I’m so sorry! xoxo
Sue says
Hi,
Are the Steve Madden mules the same (other than the chain detail) as the
mules from the Nords Anniversary sale? Are they different enough to justify owning both?
Thanks
Sheaffer says
Hi, Sue! They aren’t exactly the same, but they are definitely not different enough to own both. I wanted to give people an option that are currently available bc they are a great transition shoe! Hope this helps! xoxo