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In honor of Breast Cancer Awareness month, I wanted to have my friend Tracy over to the blog today to tell you a little about her story.
  I took this picture of Tracy at her youngest daughters 6th birthday party a couple of years ago, which was 4 years into her battle. 
She is an incredible friend, a wonderful wife, and an amazing mom.
AND she is a BREAST CANCER WARRIOR.
I’m so proud to be her friend.
  
Tracy has a FEEL YOUR BOOBIES message for all of us!

“You’re way too young to have
breast cancer!” I hear it all the time from friends, strangers, and even
medical professionals.  Unfortunately, no
one told the mass that was taking up residence in my left arm pit (considered
the breast stem)!

I was trying to take the world’s fastest shower while
lamenting the fact that I was blessed with the only two year old that I had
ever seen that refused to nap. Ever. Prioritizing which parts to wash before
the inevitable interruption of my spit-shine, I came across a lump…and it hurt.
I called my primary care physician immediately, not thinking cancer, but
thinking a clogged milk duct (I had weaned a few months prior) or swollen lymph
node.  I had no time to be sick!

I hear stories all the time about women being brushed off by
their doctors. Fortunately for me, mine was very cautious (and amazing!).  He sent me to a breast surgeon that very day
that biopsied the lump. It turned out to be a very aggressive form of breast
cancer. I was 29 years old. 

Now I’m going to tell you a little bit about myself, lest
you’re thinking, “I wonder what she DID to get breast cancer so young”.  I don’t have a family history. I nursed both
of my daughters. I don’t smoke or drink more than a glass of wine on occasion.
I’m not overweight, don’t exist on coffee or fast food, and I’m not mainlining
BPA.  I’m a normal person…just like you!
None of the risk factors that you read about applied to me.

So feel your boobies! Really do it. Feel for changes, lumps,
bumps, thickening of the skin, changes in texture, nipple discharge…anything
that’s just not right.  If you feel
something wrong, get to a doctor, and don’t let them brush you off.  We have to be our own advocates!  Because everyone knows, “you’re way too young
to have breast cancer!”
  
 Thank you Tracy for sharing your proactive message with us!
I know that we all need this reminder.
 Early detection is so important, and early detection is up to us!
In addition to having Tracy share her message with us,
 I also wanted to let you ladies see the bracelets she makes.
Tracy started making bracelets a couple of years ago when she was battling a serious case of neuropathy (numbness, weakness, and tingling) in her fingers as a result of one of her chemo treatments.
She fought through the neuropathy (it is pretty much gone now), but she enjoyed making the bracelets so much that she now makes them as a small side business.
They are $30 each (that price includes shipping), and although she has been hit hard with orders this month for Breast Cancer Awareness,
 she has enough materials left to make 10 more of each bracelet.
E-mail her at ooosparklyinfo@gmail.com and please specify if you want the cross bracelet or the pink bead bracelet.  First come, first serve!
These make great birthday or Christmas presents if you have a neighbor, friend, mom, sister, aunt, neighbor, grandmother, etc. that is battling this disease right now.  They are so pretty AND they are meaningful! 
Get one for somebody to show your support, or wear it yourself to show your support! 
Remember it’s first come, first serve!

In addition to Tracy’s message, I also wanted to highlight some companies that are participating in raising awareness!  There are many companies out there that highlight particular products in October and then give a portion of their sales to research.  Today I’m going to highlight several companies that are doing just that: 
raising awareness AND raising money.


***NORDSTROM***

Click HERE for all of the products, but some of my favorites are below!
Click the number directly below if interested in a particular item in the collage.

1 / 2 / 3 / 4 / 5/ 6
She’s a Fighter hooded sweatshirt HERE (only SMALL left) 
I’m totally LOVING The North Face Jacket with the pink script.  SO FLIPPING CUTE.
I LOVE a pinky pink blush, and I love Bobbi Brown, so that one seems like a no brainer.
And I think I might just have to try that lip scrub. 
Ooh!
I just found something else!
Look at the fab Under Armor “Race Together” v-neck HERE.  And it’s under $30!

***THE LOFT***
LOFT is also getting in on the awareness and fundraising for what I think is the 
3rd year in a row.
 They have partnered with Guiliana Rancic again (a breast cancer survivor herself) and a famous jewelry designer to bring you some outstanding pieces.
 


 Together with Giuliana Rancic, our first
Global Ambassador of the Live in Pink
MOVEMENT, LOFT created an exclusive
jewelry collection by Suzanna Dai — Giuliana’s
favorite jewelry designer. Now through 10/31/13, LOFT will donate 60%
of the
purchase price of these items to The Breast Cancer
Research Foundation®. Shop their collection
and join them in making a difference. (Due to the charitable initiative
related to this item, it is excluded from any promotional offers.)


These pictures don’t do this jewelry justice.
This jewelry IS GORGEOUS.
It would all be great dressed up with a little black dress, but it would also be just as perfect with a sweater and some jeans!
earrings HERE / long necklace HERE / short necklace HERE
And do you see the earrings above?  I’m giving a pair away!
These would make a WONDERFUL gift.  Not only are the earrings totally gorgeous, but they come packaged in this really nice box (as do the necklaces in the collection also).
The box makes a very nice presentation.
Click HERE  for the earrings. 
(And because I know people will ask, click HERE for the sweater.  It’s awesome.  It has a shimmery studded sleeve, which would be GREAT with either black suit pants or pencil skirt, but also with jeans and booties.  AND it’s 30% off right now!!!)
To enter the drawing for the earrings, see the Rafflecopter on the bottom of the post after you are done reading.


***ANN TAYLOR***
LOFT’s mama, Ann Taylor, also decided to raise awareness and funds with 2 sparkly items!
 Brilliant Bow Bracelet HERE
Brilliant Bow Necklace HERE




***Ralph Lauren***
 
Ralph didn’t want to be left out, so he stepped up too!
 25% of the purchase price of all Pink Pony products benefits the Pink Pony Fund of the Polo Ralph Lauren Foundation, which supports initiatives for cancer care and prevention.
Polo pink pony cap HERE
Pink Pony hooded jacket HERE 
Long Sleeved Pink Pony Tee HERE 




***Stella and Dot***



Join Stella and Dot in promoting breast cancer awareness and research! Buy any piece from their Breast Cancer Awareness Boutique and all net proceeds will go to the Noreen Fraser Foundation, a non-profit dedicated to raising funds for women’s cancer research. October only.



 Hope Necklace HERE, Geneve Lace Cuff HERE, Union Square Scarf HERE,

Wanderlust Triple Wrap Bracelet HERE, Wanderlust Single Wrap Bracelet HERE,

Geneve Lace Earrings HERE

(Remember to enter in “Sheaffer Sims” as your hostess!)








Isn’t it SO FUN to see lots of great companies with LOTS of great products participating in Breast Cancer Awareness?!?!


Back to Nordstrom for a minute, there are a couple of other things that Nordstrom is doing right now to help us all THINK PINK.
BRAS FOR A CAUSE
From now through October 31, for every selected bra you purchase online
from a participating brand, Nordstrom and that brand will donate $2 to
the Young Survival Coalition, a nonprofit that supports young women with
breast cancer.
Click HERE to see the huge selection of bras that qualify for the donations!


Also, Nordstrom has had a service in place for years now that you might be interested in reading about if you or somebody close to you is battling or has battled breast cancer.
Click HERE to watch a video on their breast prosthesis program. 
And in closing, I want to leave you with a simple message.
I’ve told you to wear leopard as a neutral…and you have.
I’ve told you it’s okay to wear black, brown, and grey together…..and you listened.
NOW I’M TELLING YOU TO
FEEL YOUR BOOBIES! 
So do it!
Feel Your Boobies!
 I thought such an important message  deserved a graphic.
(No, Andrea didn’t do this one.  It would have been much cuter if she did it.)  😉
I would also like to encourage you to share this post with friends today.  E-mail them the post or go to my facebook page HERE and press share.  You never know, but a simple message like this one today could really help somebody out!




Here are some easy guides to help you FEEL YOUR BOOBIES correctly!
It’s not scary at all.
It’s simple, and it could save your life.
And here are some tips I found:
via





Now….
enter the rafflectopter for the beautiful earrings!
THANKS AGAIN TRACY
for sharing your message with us!
 LOVE YOU FRIEND!!!!
xoxo,
Sheaffer 🙂

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Comments

  1. Mix and Match Mama says

    Getting to know Tracy has been such a blessing! She is so positive and optimistic…and she is this AMAZING fighter! Thank you so much for sharing her story and for sharing products that truly give back. But most of all, thanks for showing how to correctly do a self breast check. Lives can be saved! I love, love, love the pink!

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  6. Meagan @ The Clanahan Fam says

    Great post! My mother-in-law is a 4 year survivor after (by her own admission) putting off routine obgyn visits and not "feeling her boobies". Then she came across a huge lump but still didn't do anything about it (again, by her own admission, she was scared to death). By the time she was diagnosed, it was a stage 3/4. Thank GOD it had not spread beyond her breast. And after aggressive chemo & radiation for a year, she is still here with us today to see her grandchildren grow up. Now she is a huge advocate for women taking control of their health care. Pretty sure she would tell you to stop what you are doing right now and FEEL YOUR BOOBIES 🙂

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  13. Tina says

    Great post. We just walked in the Making Strides walk this past weekend with our warrior friend Maria. These would look great on her.

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  17. Bri Bliss says

    Thanks for sharing Tracy's story & highlighting all of these amazing products. Breast cancer is a cause close to my heart…

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  28. Allison says

    My step mom was diagnosed last year and luckily caught it very early and has made a full recovery. Check yourselves ladies!

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  32. Kimberley says

    Thanks for sharing…it's important for women to know that you don't have to have ANY family history or "do" anything to get breast cancer. I also needed the reminder to do monthly checks myself.

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  33. clatk says

    My Grandmama survived her first round of breast cancer, but lost the battle with her second round almost 3 years ago. I miss her everyday. Thank you for raising awareness!!

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  38. aprilparrish says

    Awesome post! I just want to give Tracy a hug!!! So many great items for breast cancer awareness this month! Great job featuring them all!

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  42. Daily Express says

    I have so much admiration for Tracy and others who have battled breast cancer. Thanks for sharing her story!

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  45. Jen Pogue says

    Great post, Sheaffer! This is such a timely reminder for us ladies because early detection is so important. My Grandma was a breast cancer survivor before she passed away recently. Seeing her fight through chemo was such an amazing experience!

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  47. Julianne says

    Thanks for sharing this today. I'm walking through this with a friend right now. She only found her cancer because she noticed a tiny spot of blood in her white bra as she tossed it into the washer. It's a miracle they found it so early and she is still having a double mastectomy. Thanks to her, I had my mammogram this week. DO IT, LADIES!

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  53. smk053078 says

    Thank you for sharing her story, it's is so crazy scary to see so many young women developing breast cancer. A friend of mine that is our age just got done battling it as well. It's so important to check ourselves and be aware of any changes in our bodies. Again, thanks for sharing and reminding us all!!

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  56. Tracy says

    Thanks for letting me guest post Sheaffer…but an even bigger thank-you for taking the time to research companies that are really donating to end this disease. Too many companies slap on the pink ribbon this time of year and don't contribute anything at all. It's so disappointing. I'm sharing this with my support group of survivors under 40. Sadly there are hundreds of us…but they will love this piece! So well done! Thank you!

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  59. Liz/happymommy says

    Such a great post today, Thank You so much to Tracy for sharing her story and to you for highlighting this very important topic!

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  70. Annie Cox says

    What a great post! I have family history of breast cancer so have to get checked frequently. I did my self-exam this month and also a mammogram. Thanks for highlighting great products for a great cause.

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  71. Elaine~ Honey Pie Accessories says

    Thank you so much for the reminder and for featuring all the beautiful jewelry!!! I have two friends who have been diagnosed with breast cancer in the past year; all of our children are the same age, and I just think about how young we are! It's so important to be proactive!

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  78. Alison @ Get Your Pretty On says

    Aww, God bless her. I'm so happy to hear that she's doing well now. Thanks for this reminder about monthly exams.

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  79. Carissa says

    As a fellow SLP, I always enjoy reading your blog!! 😉 Thanks for the wonderful breast exam information and all of the links to breast cancer awareness products!!!

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  82. brittany ice says

    Thank you for sharing this story! I will definitely be paying closer attention rather than having the "too young" mindset!

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  84. Sheila says

    God Bless all the wonderful survivors – your hope and inspiration to others is incredible. Let's hope we can find a cure soon!!!

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  86. Tiffany {A Touch of Grace} says

    Thank you for sharing Tracy's story! Many young women never think it will happen to them until it does.
    And all the love for Think Pink is wonderful! There are some amazing companies out there helping out with such a worthy cause.

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  90. Kristen says

    This was a great post today. I have a good friend from church who was just diagnosed last week. She goes in for surgery next Tuesday. We are thankful it was caught early. Like you said, early detection is key!

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  94. Elvira Gratereaux says

    Awesome post! thanks for taking your time to raise awareness in such an important topic… this shows your a good-hearted gal 😉

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  96. Anonymous says

    This is such a great post! I have family members that are survivors of breast cancer, and I always love to support the cause! Thanks for featuring these items that donate to research!!

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  99. Danessa Riggs says

    Yay! I would love to win. Our pastor's wife has been battling breast cancer…..such a sweet, sweet lady.

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  102. Jana says

    I was recently dx. with breast cancer and am currently going through radiation. Thank you so much for helping women understand and know what they need to do be aware of breast cancer.

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  104. Sabrina says

    Great post! I have a very dear friend battling breast cancer now. It is very important that we be an advocate for our own health! Headed to check out that fun under armour shirt now! That would be so fun to wear in a local 5k 🙂

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  111. Carly Lee (C. Style Blog) says

    Is it weird that as I sit here reading this post I'm feeling my boobs, especially the armpit area?!?!?!? -hahahaha!!!!

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  112. Sarah says

    The radio announcer that I love to listen to in the mornings just announced her diagnosis of breast cancer today. I'm praying for all those that have been affected by this terrible thing.

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  113. Anonymous says

    We all know someone who has had to battle this awful disease! Thanks for bringing awareness! Sarah Chandler (sarahrchandler@gmail.com)

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  114. Anonymous says

    Thanks for sharing Tracy's story! It's an all familiar story that can happen to anyone! It's a great reminder! 🙂

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  115. Anonymous says

    All of the laides I've known with breast cancer were "too young!" It's not just for older women, and it's not even just for women!

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  118. Kellyann Rohr says

    I am going to add your friend Tracy to my church prayer list. I thank her for sharing her story so eloquently. God Bless!

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  123. Kelly Powell says

    I love reading your blog and getting fashion ideas! 🙂 Thanks for sharing the story about your friend its a reminder that anyone no matter what age could be affected by cancer and that early detection is so important.

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  125. Anna says

    I love that you are spreading awareness for breast cancer. I find cancer for a living and it is so scary how many women (and more and more young women) have breast cancer. So thanks again – we can't remind women enough! (And getting Pap smears/HPV testing as well!)
    Missy

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  143. Melissa Hill says

    Good job on sharing and inspiring for such a good cause (and doing it in your always cute & fantastic way!)

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  148. Jennie says

    Love this blog! I have almost everything you put on here. Bought lots of stuff from the loft today…love their sales.

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  153. Sheryl says

    Just discovered your blog today (have been reading it for the posts about Frye boots!). You've got a really fun blog & thanks for the important reminder here!

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  155. Andrea says

    Amazing post, extremely important topic so close to my heart, and what a faith-filled, strong friend you have! Thank you for taking the time to post this and for finding such cute pink items! 🙂

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  156. Maria says

    Thank you, Tracy, for sharing your story! A friend of mine was recently diagnosed with breast cancer and she is very young and healthy. It was a shock to everyone and a lesson that it can happen to anyone.

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  160. Cathy's World says

    Your friend Tracey is beautiful. Her story touched my heart. I have never had breast cancer. I do know first hand what cancer is. My son was diagnosed with brain cancer at 16. We spent 11 months at Children's Hospital here in California where we live. I watched him pass away and miss him so very much. I go every year for a mamo. I don't think you can be to young to get one. I think that insurance company's made that rule up. I strongly agree with "Checking your boobies" and mamo's every year. Praying for your friend Tracey.

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  161. DetroitDuchess says

    Thanks for posting Sheaffer! My grandmother and mother were and are breast cancer survivors. Watching my mom go through radiation was probably one of the scariest things in my entire life. Early detection saved her life and I hope if it ever happens to me that I will be able to catch it early on because of these precautionary measures.

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