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Special Mamas Need Some LOVE!

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The first part of this post has a lot of words, but please stick with me!
This is IMPORTANT and I’M SO STINKING EXCITED!

Okay, if you’ve been reading the blog for awhile now, then you probably know
I’m a Speech-Language Pathologist.

I work part-time for McKinney ISD in the STC classrooms (specially designed for students with autism) and the FAC classrooms (specially designed for students with intellectual disabilities).
I have also seen children privately (in their home or my home) for the last 10 years.
It’s not always an easy job, but it’s an AWESOME job.
Helping children become more effective communicators is so incredibly rewarding.
The kids bless me in ways I never could have imagined, and my goodness do they keep me smiling.
Oh, the stories I could tell!
I really should write a book.  The stories would warm your hearts. 🙂
I have so many precious moments that are seared in my mind.
 Exact moments where I feel like I made a positive impact in a child’s life and their families lives.
And you know, getting to know the families is such a neat part of the experience,
a part that I never anticipated.
These families sacrifice so much for their children.
They would do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING for their kids, and they often do.
I have such respect for them.
Since my very first second as a speech therapist,
I of course have always had a heart for these sweet kids.
But after I became a mama myself, I developed such a heart for their families too.
Especially the moms.
Moms (and dads and siblings) of children with special needs all deserve a special place in Heaven.
I have seen first hand the love, the passion, and the INCREDIBLE dedication that these families have for these special kids that they love so much, so unconditionally.
  And you wouldn’t believe the sacrifices they make.
They turn their own lives upside down on a daily basis.
They often do without.
They shuttle kids between a countless number of therapies and doctors that they pay so much money for (often out of their own pockets).
They are constantly working with and loving on their kids.
They have little or no free time.
They go to bed tired, and they wake up tired (many children with special needs
 have a very hard time sleeping).
And they start it all over again the next day.
It’s truly something to witness.
They do it all to give their children the best they possibly can.
And what I’m most consistently impressed by is their patience.
Oh my word, the patience that is required is often more than moms and families of typically developing children can imagine.  
Watching these moms and these families love on their kids like they do is nothing short of inspiring.
But in addition to all of the sacrifices that are made for the children, in addition to all of the work…
it’s also of extreme importance to note that these precious kids bring their parents and their families SO MUCH JOY!!!
Yes, the kids are blessed by their families.
But in turn the families are also blessed by their kids.
It’s wonderful to see.
And so, a simple note written by one of my student’s moms at the beginning of the school year prompted me to come up with a way to celebrate these moms.
These VERY SPECIAL moms.
They deserve a little celebrating, that’s for sure. 🙂
Here’s the note that got the ball rolling.
Sheaffer Told Me To Special Mamas Need Some LOVE!
And just like that, the idea for a contest was born!
Thank you SO MUCH Candace for the push I needed to think of something like this!


Are you dying to know the specifics?
Well, I’m dying to tell you!
Here’s what’s happening.
This week I am partnering with one of my favorite brands (eek!) to  honor to all of these mamas and to celebrate 1 special mom!
Who is joining forces with me?
LOFT, that’s who!

Pinch me.
Seriously, somebody pinch me.

Hold tight, and I’ll tell you what’s up for grabs in just a bit.

 In order to enter, you must meet the following requirements:
You must be the mom of a child with special needs, and
you must enter your e-mail address in a blog comment for the rafflecopter below.
By doing this, you will be signing up to receive e-mails from LOFT.
(You will see that there are additional ways to gain entries, but they are not required.)
What’s the winner going to get?
Well.
Hold on to your hats ladies.

The LOFT absolutely loved the idea of celebrating these extra special mamas,
so they came on board in a BIG way.

Wait for it…..

Sheaffer Told Me To Special Mamas Need Some LOVE!
I know.
 Let’s just all take a minute to collect ourselves.

I’m BEYOND thrilled.

 I mean, I’ve always LOVED and ADORED LOFT, but now I’m completely smitten.  🙂  

So, how’s this all going to go down?
Well, on Wednesday I will be highlighting lots of my favorite FALL things from LOFT so we can help the special mama that wins get some ideas on how to spend her money!
If you haven’t see the fall line at LOFT, well then you’re missing out.
The winner is going to be totally set with pants, jeans, cords, sweaters, t-shirts, scarves, and jewelry all in gorgeous fall colors and patterns.

And that’s not all!
IN ADDITION TO THE $500 GIFT CARD FROM LOFT,
Pinterest Told Me To is also going to be gifting 3 items to the lucky mama!
WOOHOO!
The mama will also get:
*a pair of MUST HAVE jeans
*a pair of boots or shoes
*a necklace

YOU GUYS!  I’M SO EXCITED ABOUT THIS, AND I HOPE YOU ARE TOO!
I wanted to give everybody a chance to join in on the fun, so
YOU ARE ALL going to get a chance to vote on what specific items
the lucky lady is going to receive from PTMT.
You will decide which pair of jeans, which pair of shoes, and which necklace the mom should get!
FUN, RIGHT?
I want us all to have a part in blessing this mama!

So, here are your choices………


FIRST,

Sheaffer Told Me To Special Mamas Need Some LOVE!

Every lady needs a great pair of jeans that makes her feel great!
This year I found THE BEST and MOST AFFORDABLE jeans I’ve ever had on my body, and I’m now totally and completely obsessed with this Vigoss brand.
I’m giving you guys 3 jeans to choose from.  They all have the perfect amount of stretch in them.
(They have a little give, but they aren’t sagging by the end of the day.)
Any of them would be a great addition to any woman’s closet!
a.  clean cuffed jeans HERE   
You know these are my absolute favorite jeans right now.  
 The cuff makes them SO cute with booties and flats!  I probably wear these every other day.  Okay, not probably.  I wear these every other day.  🙂
   b.  boot cut jeans HERE   
 These boot cut jeans have great pockets in the back (so important in a jean) and fit just right.
 c.  black jeans HERE 
These black jeans from Vigoss are new, and I am so excited about them!  If you like the idea of a black legging, but are scared to death of an actual pair of leggings, these would be perfect.
They would look great paired with cognac boots!

*After you vote, hit “back” under the small graph to come right back to the blog!

Which jeans does our special mama need?

  
pollcode.com free polls 

NEXT,

Sheaffer Told Me To Special Mamas Need Some LOVE!

So, we all know that everybody needs a great shoe or boot that’s a GO TO in her closet.
You get 6 different choices for this one!
I LOVE every single one of these pictured above, and they are all under $110.
a)  tall brown riding boots HERE
A great cognac riding boot is such a great and versatile item to have in your closet, but it does come in black too.  And you know a cognac boot is on my FALL STYLE STAPLES checklist.
b)  taupe suede tall wedge boots HERE 
This boot is new to Nordstrom, and I think it’s great!  You know I love a wedge, and I really like the mushroom color of these (a really great neutral) and the cute buckle detail.
c)  taupe wedge TOMS booties HERE
If you read my blog, you know that these are the newest addition to my closet. If you don’t read, check out the fantastic reviews on these babies.   I’m going to be wearing them fall, winter, and spring with my Vigoss cuffed jeans as well as skirts and dresses!
 d)  cognac flats HERE 
I love the detailing on these, and you know how I feel about cognac.
 I tried these on and they are super comfortable.
e)  cognac suede booties HERE 

 Again with the cognac!  
This is a classic bootie that would pair with just about anything in your closet!
f)  leopard flats HERE
Swoon.  I love these leopard flats. And remember, leopard is a neutral.
Say it with me!
Leopard is a neutral.
Plus, these have near perfect reviews!

*After you vote, hit “back” under the small graph to come right back to the blog! 
What shoes does our special mama need?

  
pollcode.com free polls 

And FINALLY,

Sheaffer Told Me To Special Mamas Need Some LOVE!

             

 Kimberly Necklace HERE        

I’ve had this necklace for a little over a year now, and it is hands down the
most worn piece of jewelry I own.  It adds just the right amount of “oomph” to any outfit.
I seriously have no idea how I got dressed in the morning before I had it! 
Sanibel Pendant HERE
This is the newest Stella and Dot piece that I’ve added to my collection, and it is surprisingly getting as much wear as the Kimberly necklace!  It’s reversible (see above), and the length can be adjusted to be a single or a double strand making it super versatile. A good pendant necklace is a great addition to any jewelry collection because it looks great with just about everything.

(If you want to get one of these for yourself, remember to enter “Sheaffer Sims” as your hostess!  I love using my credits to buy gifts for future contests!)

*After you vote, hit “back” under the small graph to come right back to the blog! 
Which necklace does our special mama need?

  
pollcode.com free polls 

So, get to voting ladies!
And don’t forget, this is just the first part of her prize….
Stay tuned for Wednesday where I will highlight loads of my favorite things at LOFT right now!
(I went to LOFT on Friday and on Sunday.  That’s how much good stuff there is.
  Can’t wait to share the pictures with all of you soon!)

BUT WAIT!
Before you go, I would like to ask for your help.
 If you are one of those incredible moms with a precious child with special needs, please enter!
Or if you know a mom that this contest is perfect for, please let her know about this.
SPREAD THE WORD!
If you’re a special education teacher, maybe send a quick e-mail to all of your moms!
Blog about it, tweet about it, put it on facebook.
Do whatever you need to do to get the word out to your circles of friends!
I am praying that whomever wins this is going to be so blessed by it…
so let’s tell as many people as possible!
(It is also my hope that the mama who wins will feel comfortable sharing her story with us!)

The contest ends at midnight on Friday,
 and I will announce the winner on facebook Saturday morning. 
THANKS EVERYBODY!
AND THANK YOU LOFT!

p.s.
If you would like to share the contest on your blog, I would of course LOVE that!
Feel free to use the graphic above or this one below by just copying and pasting it into your post! 

Sheaffer Told Me To Special Mamas Need Some LOVE!

p.p.s.
Also, if you shop at LOFT and you’re a teacher, you need to know about the LOFT
Loves Teachers Program (if you don’t already).
Click HERE if you are a teacher and don’t know
about it.
 Lots of great perks, including 15% off of your full price purchase all day every day!

p.p.p.s.
LOFT is having $20 off of all full price jeans and cords HERE! 
 I LOVE the cords.  They are stretchy, flattering, and SO comfy! 
Here’s a preview of one of pics for Wednesday!

Sheaffer Told Me To Special Mamas Need Some LOVE!





AND THEIR SALE IS ON SALE!
Click HERE to shop a great selection of items at deeply discounted prices!

Sheaffer Told Me To Special Mamas Need Some LOVE!

Okay, now it’s time to enter!!!!!
Good luck mamas!!!!
AND REMEMBER, YOU MUST LEAVE YOUR E-MAIL ADDRESS IN THE COMMENTS TO ENTER!  In fact, even if you’re not entering, leave you e-mail address if you want to be put on the LOFT’s e-mail list.  I love getting my sale updates and you will too!

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Comments

  1. As a special needs momma my heart is over flowing with joy! Thank-you for putting the spot light on our children and how incredibly blessed we are to have them in our lives. I might never get any sleep, but the love of my boy is worth all the dark circles under my eyes (plus, they have creams for that!). –CourtneySamantha@aol.com (Mom to G-Aspegers, ADHD & Sensory Processing Disorder).

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  2. I had so much fun voting!! What a wonderful, wonderful idea! I know a really deserving mama is going to win this. Such a sweet giveaway!

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  4. As the mother of a child with special needs (mylomeningocele spina Bifida) AND a speech path, this makes my day!!! My sweet boy has made me a better therapist since before he was born…I can relate to parents in a way I never could before. Thank you!

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  6. This is such a super sweet idea. It brought tears to my eyes just reading it. The voting was so much fun!

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  7. Wow! Talk about overwhelming! I am a mommy to 4 children. My second has Angelman Syndrome. Ww are in the throws of learning to communicate effectively!
    Thank you!

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  8. Wow! How incredibly sweet abd awesome! I am a mommy to 4 children. My second child, Carmyn Marie has Angelman Syndrome. Rare genetic disorder. Often misdiagnosed as severe Autism.
    You are right, we come last.
    Thank you so much!

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  9. What a wonderful post this is! Only wonderful people that work with special needs children or are parents to these kiddos can appreciate how true your words are! My daughter is a beautiful 10 yr old who has caudal regression & spina bifida, she has changed our whole lives & outlook on life. Be thankful for everyday you have with your family & make everyday count! Thank you for this! windy.ostrom@comcast.net

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  12. This is the best post I've ever seen, Sheaffer! It's so awesome that you're able to help a special Mom this way! I'll start spreading the word!

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  18. Thanks so much. This is great! Having a lo with special needs and who is medically complex your priorities change. It is great of you to help out the moms too. Jakedawn@ gmail.com

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  22. What an amazing idea!!!! I just want to give you a big hug!!!! What a great way to give back for something that is near & dear to your heart. Will be praying that one extra special Mama will walk away winning these awesome gifts!!! Have a blessed day!!!

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  24. This is exactly why I love the blog world so much. Not just for all the fun style tips, but to be used to bless someone else. This is an awesome contest and I can't wait to see who wins!

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  25. What a very sweet thing you are doing! Thank you for working as a therapist with children with special needs! I am blessed to be the mother of an incredibly sweet and feisty six year old little girl who has cerebral palsy, hearing loss with auditory neuropathy, and some vision loss! Praying for blessings to come your way! Christy medwards48@Carolina.rr.com

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  26. Wow, what an awesome idea! My friend has 9 year old TRIPLETS. Two of the three are autistic and she pays thousands of dollars to get the therapy they need daily. She is an amazing mother whom I look up too. She is an advocate for her kids and they are so very lucky to call her mom. She is a preschool teacher and is exhausted all the time. I would just love for my friend Lee to win. My email is: nortonb27@gmail.com

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  30. I love this! My oldest son has autism and we LOVE AND DEPEND on therapists like you! Thank you for choosing such a selfless profession! He turns 7 on Wednesday and if I were lucky enough to win this gift card and / or prizes, I'd buy an item or two for myself and then spoil some of his wonderful therapists too! Thank you, Sheaffer, from the bottom of my heart!

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  31. I love this! My oldest son has autism and we LOVE AND DEPEND on therapists like you! Thank you for choosing such a selfless profession! He turns 7 on Wednesday and if I were lucky enough to win this gift card and / or prizes, I'd buy an item or two for myself and then spoil some of his wonderful therapists too! Thank you, Sheaffer, from the bottom of my heart! toddandcharla@yahoo.com

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  32. Aw, this is so sweet of you! I wish you were closer as my 5 year old with DS is non-verbal and needs so much speech therapy! I would love for you to share my website- I started a non-profit for kids with special needs and its 100% FREE!! I do petsitting and farm birthday parties with a petting zoo, train etc to help earn the money to keep the non-profit going for these special kiddos! The site is downsonthefarm.org and my email is shawnasuebug@yahoo.com

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  33. You are awesome sheaffer! What a wonderful thing to do for someone. I can't wait to see who wins and what they pick out!!

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  34. I am the mom of an awesome son with special needs. We adopted him as a baby and he is now 14. He is a challenge – but I wouldn't have it any other way. Thank you so much for this opportunity.

    Jill (snethen@yahoo.com)

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  35. Please excuse me if I added two comments but I don't see mine, so trying again- oops!! This is such an awesome giveaway and to choose a mom who has a child with a disability is even more special! Thanks for doing this (and all you do in your daily job too!!). Our youngest has DS and is non-verbal so people like you are such blessings in our life! My email is shawnasuebug@yahoo.com or downsonthefarmohio@gmail.com I would love for you to share our non-profit info as we do it a zero cost to those who come. I raise the money by doing pet-sitting and farm birthday parties etc. Thanks Sheaffer!

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  39. This is so sweet of you! I have a special place in my heart for Speech/Language Pathologists as so many have helped my daughter overcome so much. My daughter is 15 months old, has a tracheostomy and was born with various other problems. Thankyou for the awesome giveaway!

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  41. This is the sweetest giveaway ever! I currently teach dance classes to children and adults with special needs and it is my absolute favorite class to teach. These children, adults, and their families always hold a very special place in my heart.

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  42. What an amazing giveaway!! So happy we get to vote and make this so special for the lucky winner 🙂 Awesome job Sheaffer!

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  43. This is SO awesome!!! I can't wait to see who the winner is & what items win the most votes!! Thanks for sharing your heart with us Sheaffer, I know that your clients are blessed to have you as their therapist 🙂

    P.S. — I totally bought the CAMO pants from Gap yesterday— 35% off if you use your card…SCORE! (totally off subject, but I had to tell you, haha!)

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  46. So if I understand this correctly we aren't able to submit a name of someone we know that has a special needs child, they have to enter themselves? Just wanted to make sure because I have a co-worker who really deserves this.

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  47. As a mother of a severe non verbal Autistic son and 8 months pregnant with my 3rd boy, I am one crazy busy momma! This is very exciting to have an opportunity to treat myself!!!

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  48. Wow…this is beautiful and brought tears to my eyes. I have a three year old son who was recently diagnosed with autism. He is non-verbal and received speech and ABA therapy in our home. I am floored with the patience of the therapists that work with him. They have no biological claim or bond to my son yet they give him unconditional love and support. Today is his first day of special ed. pre-school….I am already crying as I type this! I'm going to be a mess when I drop my baby off!

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  50. This has to be the most awesome blog post EVER! What a fabulous idea! As a school psychologist, I see first-hand the patience and dedication of so many parents of special needs children and the self-sacrifice they willingly make for their kids. Passing this along to some deserving moms! Can't wait to hear who wins!

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  54. You are absolutely amazing!! What a wonderful gift it would be for any of the mothers out there with a special needs child. I have a four year old daughter with Autism. What a blessing she is in our family. Everyday brings on new adventures but we are so grateful there are people who are willing to help us teach her and give her the therapy that she deserves and needs. Thanks again!! tbooth81@gmail.com

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  55. This is so beautiful!! I am a mama to 2 boys with Joubert Syndrome. My 3 year old was diagnosed when he was seven months old and my 11 month old was diagnosed 3 weeks ago. We are still processing our youngest diagnosis and trying to manage school, therapies, apps, etc. it's so physically demanding since neither can walk, but I love my boys more than anything! You can read about our journey here http://www.nickandannadietzen.blogspot.com and my email is annaelyse@gmail.com

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  58. My son has apraxia and a developmental delay. On behalf of other speech parents, thank you for your job. You are a huge blessing to my family along with other therapists. Thank you for this contest & God Bless you & all the other parents of special needs children.
    Haley
    HaleyT84@gmail.com

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  59. I love, love, love this idea!!! I'm sending it to one of my dear friends whom I met when I was her sons SLP. She and her husband joke that b/c of her son, they gained a friend! You're so right, our job is so rewarding; not a day goes by that I don't regret my career path!

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  60. I love this so much! I am a pediatric occupational therapist and teach a ballet class for children with special needs, so I too see first hand the sacrifices these parents make and it is incredible. I shared the link on our facebook ballet page and sent an email with the link to all of my ballet moms. I know they will be thrilled! Here is the link to our ballet page if you want to see some precious ballerinas…

    https://www.facebook.com/pages/Steps-of-Grace-Ballet-for-Special-Needs/173718386063056?ref=hl

    Also- I think I'm going to have to start a blog called Pinterest Told Me To Told Me To 🙂 But I'm loving all of my new wardrobe pieces!

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  64. Wow! What a great giveaway! Out of my 4 kids, 3 have "special" needs. They have a speech delay, for which they work with wonderful therapists. The same 3 kids have severe, life-threatening food allergies, which are terrifying. The allergies are often over-looked by most people, because they are "invisible" to the eye. Invisible, but potentially fatal. I try to educate every chance I get. Thanks for the opportunity.

    Stephanie sajennings1@comcast.net

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  65. Thank you for this amazing post! You are so sweet. I am a mother of two boys. My youngest wasn't supposed to live past two and we just celebrated his fourth birthday! He is non verbal and wheelchair bound (he has spastic paraplegia cerebral palsy and mitochondrial disease). This little boy has blessed me and brought me more joy than words can express and I am so thankful for him. I don't know what I would do without his incredible therapists. They are like our family. Thank you for doing what you do and loving these special kiddos of ours!

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  66. Thank you for this amazing post! You are so sweet. I am a mother of two boys. My youngest wasn't supposed to live past two and we just celebrated his fourth birthday! He is non verbal and wheelchair bound (he has spastic paraplegia cerebral palsy and mitochondrial disease). This little boy has blessed me and brought me more joy than words can express and I am so thankful for him. I don't know what I would do without his incredible therapists. They are like our family. Thank you for doing what you do and loving these special kiddos of ours!

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  67. Thank you for this amazing post! You are so sweet. I am a mother of two boys. My youngest wasn't supposed to live past two and we just celebrated his fourth birthday! He is non verbal and wheelchair bound (he has spastic paraplegia cerebral palsy and mitochondrial disease). This little boy has blessed me and brought me more joy than words can express and I am so thankful for him. I don't know what I would do without his incredible therapists. They are like our family. Thank you for doing what you do and loving these special kiddos of ours!

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  68. What a great idea, thank you for your heart for special needs kiddos AND their families. I have one special needs son who gets speech therapy and I have another girl on the way (through adoption) with some special needs. nealcindy@gmail.com

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  72. melissamatthews22@gmail.com
    Sheaffer,
    I am crying…and lauging! My son is 5 and has a dual dx of Ds & autism. I completely didn't expect to read something so beautiful this morning! What a sweet tribute to the mamas (and the sweet babies!) that you know. I also laughed out loud when I wondered what my little man might think of my wardrobe-HA! Who knows! XO

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  73. How wonderful! I have a six year old son with spina bifida who has a trach, vent and g tube along with short bowel syndrome. (And two other typical little boys, 3 and seven months.) Your post is so kind and speaks the truth about this life. Thanks for the chance to enter! Thehensleys05@hotmail.com – Johnna Hensley

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  74. This is pretty incredible. I have two special needs children. Our oldest is on Transplant list awaiting a heart, and our youngest adopted from china has major heart defect requiring many surgeries. It is a hard road that requires many sleepless nights and Many Doctors, and specialist appointments. You are so right when you said what a blessing these little ones are and I wouldn't trade this hard road for anything. Thanks for al you are doing Shaeffer.

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  75. This contest makes me want to cry. I never enter things like this because I never feel like I'll be that lucky, but I'm making an exception this time. I'm a special needs mom – twice. I have a 10 yo daughter with cerebral palsy and a 3 yo son with Down syndrome. He is in twice weekly speech therapy and she is in once weekly physical therapy and I DESPERATELY need some new clothes but I just can't justify them with a 20% copay, max 30 visits, and a $300 deductible for each child. AND LOFT IS MY FAVE STORE!!!! I don't shop there much, but I do go in and touch things and smile and make a wish list often.

    I know my odds aren't good, but I'm so thrilled to see that someone will benefit and be recognized. All moms tend to put their children's needs first, but I do think that we SN moms take it to the extreme sometimes.

    I'm already on LOFT's email list, so no need to add me again. 🙂

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  79. I should probably have mentioned that I have a blog about my kiddos: Bringing the Sunshine (bringingthesunshine.com). There are almost no pics of me because I dress so abominably!

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  80. Such a brilliant, generous idea! I sent the link to my friend. I hope she enters. She is more deserving than anyone I know. She has twins with very special needs.

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  81. what a great contest! I voted! Can't wait to read about the winner….such a thoughtful contest…you are the best! I already get the LOFT emails….just bought those cords this weekend at the 40% off sale! can't wait to wear them.

    Jan Fisher
    jan.fisher@comcast.net

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  85. oh Sheaffer, this is the best and sweetest and I am so excited for the lucky mama that wins! Just reading through the comments off all the mamas of special needs children, well I just want to give them all a virtual hug because what they do on a daily basis is heart warming and inspiring. I have 2 beautiful girls and I have not had to experience anything like that but I have friends that have children with special needs and I believe they are angels here in earth to care for these beautiful children. Thanks for doing this…. love it!!

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  89. Wow – this is truly such a wonderful gift you're giving to one lucky lady! My daughter, Joy, is 8 months old and has Down Syndrome. A sweet friend referred me to this blog post and the gift you're giving to one lucky lady. While I ADORE the Loft and actually feel honored just to be among so many amazing moms (and teachers) of kids with special needs, I kindly ask that you don't pick me. Reading these comments there are other moms that deserve this make over WAY more.

    Just wanted to say thank you for loving on us so well, and for recognizing the hoops we jump through for these little ones.

    Sincere thanks to all of the therapists and teachers that come along side us – I really think they could use some special love and recognition as well!

    michele.wymer@gmail.com

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  90. I'm so excited about the lucky mama who's gonna win this!! This is such a sweet way to give some special mamas love. I love this!!!

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  91. I think it is so wonderful that you are doing this! I have an eight year old daughter with Apraxia of Speech. She started therapy when she was 22 months old, and they weren't sure she would be talking by kindergarten. Well, trust me – she talks! We are so thankful for the wonderful therapists that God has sent us, and happy that our little girl is doing so well.

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  92. Let me hop off the emotional roller coaster real quick. 😉 Thankful for YOU! I always say that while grief comes to our house for an occasional visit, hope NEVER EVER leaves! Thanks for helping families keep hope alive…and for doing it with style! =)
    Candace R–Mom of two precious treasures (5YO son with autism and a NT 3 1/2YO) candace dot a dot russell at hotmail dot com.

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  93. I have a 10 year old son with Mosaic Trisomy 9 and speech apraxia. Being a special needs Mom is a blessing but also a lot of work. Winning this contest will be a special day in any Momma's life!

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  94. Thank you so much for the opportunity to possibly win a makeover. I am a mother of three, one of which has a genetic disorder. Carson is missing bones, fingers, cannot walk or talk, and is 12 years old, but mentally like a 1 year old. He is such a blessing to our family! I cannot imagine life without him. Thewiants@hotmail.com

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  97. Love Loft!! (I can never bring myself to spend money on ME, but love it nonetheless;) I have a sweet, funny, smart, compassionate little 5 year old lady that has Cerebral Palsy and is the light of our life. She is a big sister and the best daughter I could have ever asked God to bless us with. Love this giveaway, Mom's don't get the credit they deserve most of the time especially dealing with our special ones!!!
    Blessings!

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  101. stewards3@gmail.com I am a Mom to a sweet, compassionate, funny and vibrant 5 year old little lady with Cerebral Palsy. She has brought us more than then we could ever imagine, at times it's overwhelming but mostly she teaches us more about life than we could have learned on our own. It's amazing how they open our eyes and mostly our hearts. Thanks so much for your sweet heart and your desire to want to give something to the Mom's who are indeed SO special!
    Blessings to you as you continue to bless others!

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  102. Hello! I am the proud mama to a very special three year old little girl name Addie. Addie was diagnosed with a rare, complex, and devastating genetic disorder called Prader-Willi syndrome when she was just 7 weeks old. Everyday since the diagnosis has been an uphill battle, but in a war we are determined to win! I did not choose this for my daughter, but I choose her, over and over, a million times, the answer will never change, I choose Addie. We face the challenges together and accept every milestone as a huge victory. We find joy in the slightest progress and celebrate in the hope for tomorrow. Thank you for taking a moment to read this and thank you so much for this opportunity. Here's to all the special needs moms out there!
    addieangel1@yahoo.com

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  104. I am laughing and crying at the same time! My middle guy has a dual dx of Ds and autism. I wonder what he thinks of his mama's fashion sense 🙂 THANK YOU for using your platform to share unconditional love for all kids. When I checked your blog this afternoon, I didn't expect such a beautiful tribute to the families you've worked with! Hugs for being so sweet and for helping all of your moms and babies. XO

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  107. Thank you on behalf of my two little men, one of whom is deaf -blind with multiple other disabilities, for having a contest that honors special needs moms–even though only one will win, all of us are blessed by the "shout out" in this blog! Thanks again! 🙂 Please enter my email address into the contest. niftjaws@hotmail.com

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  109. This is so unbelievable! HOW NICE to know that someone understands the JOY and the exhaustion of having a child with special needs! I entered the contest, but I honestly don't even care if I don't win! WHAT A BLESSING to see (and hear the story) of the winner! You are so precious to do this! I have often thought that parents, and teachers of kids with special needs do deserve a little recognition. My middle daughter is my special needs one, and I am so humbled that her older sister is a senior in college studying to be a Special Ed teacher! 🙂 Cannot wait to see who wins and see all her cute clothes! SO MUCH FUN!! THANK YOU!!!!

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  110. I am the Mama of a 15 year old girl who became brain injured at 8 months old. She had a virus attack her heart, causing it to fail. She is the light of our lives!
    What a BLESSING this post was to me…I did enter the contest, but I don't even care if I am not the winner!! I am sooooo looking forward to hearing the stories of the other Mamas and feeling a part of a community!! Yipppeeee!! We are NOT ALONE!!
    You are so sweet to even THINK about Moms who have it just a bit harder than others! It's just so nice to know that someone "gets it"! You are always a bright spot in my day, but today~ you are my hero! Thank you!!

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  113. Hi Sheaffer, this is such a wonderful idea. Thank you for thinking of us moms with kids with special needs. Nobody can understand how hard it is unless you have experienced it yourself, so we are a special group of mamas! My 6 year old son has sensory processing disorder and most likely this is co-mingled with ADHD, we are working with a behavioral specialist and an occupational therapist – they are life savers as I'm sure you are to the families you work with. Anyways, thanks again for this opportunity! margie0927@yahoo.com

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  115. Ok I said a lot of really nice things about you doing this and my browser keeps deleting it. Maybe it's a sign I need to be more sassy? 🙂 Thank you so very much for this opportunity. I could totally use a make over! I'm a mom to 4 kiddos, one with nonverbal autism. Love all my kids, but he is my heart walking around outside my body. So excited to see who wins this fun giveaway…all are deserving. Thank you so much! chesnaellis@gmail.com

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  116. Sheaffer this is so wonderful! It really made me tear up reading all the thought and love you put into this. Moms of special needs kids are the unsung heros of their families. They do so much. I'm planning on starting my post today (better late than never right?) with this and I know a few moms of special needs children that read my blog so I hope they come over and enter!

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  117. So excited for this wonderful contest! And a big THANK YOU for working with our special children. I am the mother to 5 year old Sadie who was born with CP, hypotonia and left eye strabismus. I feel truly blessed to be her mommy and celebrate (along with her team of therapists, educators, and medical team) every milestone. Big hugs to all of the "special" moms out there!
    Gregandsarahjacobs@live.com

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  118. I would love to win this! And be so happy to share our story. In fact, I just shared a talk about it this morning for the moms group at our church. And I'm not a public speaker! God totally used me. And you are so definitely right about us moms not have the time or money to shop for new clothes. I keep thinking some day! ewing1218@att.net Btw, I also live in McKinney! And my friend who lives in Kansas told me about your blog today. – Tracie E

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  120. I am a mom to a sweet almost 3 year old girl named Huntleigh. She has hydrocephalus and cerebral palsy but they don't hold her back! She inspires me daily with her joy ans strength. Thank you for spotlighting special needs families! c.burnell@live.com

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  122. What a thoughtful giveaway! My little girl has Apraxia and other delays on top of that. This momma didn't hear the word mommy until my beautiful little girl was 3 1/2 and didn't hear "love you" until she was 4. She is 6 now (and is still so far behind but making slow and steady progress) and the light of our lives (along with her sister) but to see her struggle and have such a hard time "getting" things that come so easily to others (her 3yo sister included) easy breaks this momma's heart. Thank you for highlighting special needs families. So so great!

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  124. Well this post made my day. Thank you so much for recognizing the hard work all these parents do. My husband and myself have three kids 4 years old and under with special needs.
    Our oldest was our foster son for 2 years and now we call him our forever son. He came to us with a apnea monitor, oxygen tank, heart monitor, severe sensory processing disorder and detoxing from meth and cocaine.
    Our second little girl is also adopted and is delayed in speech. And our littlest and only biological child has severe life threatening food allergies. It is a challenge every day but the Lord gives me the strength to advocate and cheer on each of my children. Thank you again for doing something so nice. My email is: lil_libby04@yahoo.com

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  125. i'm the very lucky momma to the sweetest 5 year old autistic boy. he is an amazing little man that everyone falls in love with once they meet him. and even though he is non verbal he has so much to say in many other ways…we love him to pieces 🙂

    thank you for this awesome giveaway…i wish everyone the best of luck!!

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  126. what an amazing giveaway!! i wish all the mommas out there luck!!!

    i am the very lucky momma to the sweetest 5 year old autistic boy. he is the most amazing little man & everyone that meets him falls in love with him. and even though he is non verbal he shows us in other ways just what a smart little guy he is….we just love him to pieces!

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  129. Thank you Sheaffer for your thoughtful giveaway! I am the mom to three wonderful children. My youngest Jack, is autistic and his laugh and smile can light up a room. His behavior is very unpredictable at times and we are constantly on guard for things that can set off his sensitivities or make him bolt away. He has had speech, physical and occupational therapy for most of his life and must wear leg braces because he has severe sensory issues. He struggles with ideas and concepts that come easily for most people, but he also has an incredible memory, sense of direction and a knack for numbers. Having a child with a disability is very hard at times and as I like to say, "It isn't for sissies!". I never thought I was a patient person, but Jack has taught me that life doesn't need to be perfect to be wonderful and each step is a cause for celebration. And when I get a hug from him, it is all worth it!

    flynnt@twcny.rr.com

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  133. Love this idea! My son Stephen is 11 years old and has an autism spectrum disorder. Sheaffer was his first speech pathologist in McKinney ISD and was one of the first to hear him sing and speak! Please enter me in the contest! Karenmeyer63@gmail.com Thank you!

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  134. I am a new mom to a beautiful 2 and a half month old little girl. We spent 8 weeks in the NICU and are finally home. We have a long road ahead and it may not be the way I had planned, but I wouldn't change anything. Being a mom is the best!

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  135. I am a brand new mom to a 2 and a half month old little girl! We spent 8 weeks in the NICU and are finally home. Although we have a long road ahead, and it may not have been the way I planned, I wouldn't change it for anything. Being a mom is the best!

    abbytibbetts@gmail.com

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  141. You are such a sweetie! Such deserving moms, for sure! And now I'll know who to ask questions about speech when Im in need with my preschool students :))
    Whitney

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  142. Momma Bear here to an 18 year old son who has been through years and years of speech therapy ( private and through his school) and OT & " out of the box " therapies – potions and hoaxes. My son was first diagnosed with apraxia of speech at 3- did not speak until he was close to 6, later diagnosed with Tourette's syndrome @ 9 – thought to be PPD-NOS also at 9, but now that he has matured his " label" changed to Asperger's Syndrome after some recent testing. My son is a just a sweet soul, with a quick laugh – quick wit & just a touch of rebellion 😉 . He's been through a lot – accomplished a lot – still has a tall mountain in the horizon ahead of him to climb as he maneuvers and figures his way through young adulthood and beyond. I have always said " If I could have one wish ( besides wishing for his disabilities to go away) It would be to be in my son's head and world for just a day. That would be an incredible day that I could truly understand how he sees and understands the world we share and live in .
    sam0036@gmail.com

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  143. Thanks for thinking of us moms of kids with special needs. My daughter is 4 and is blind, has hydrocephalus, a rare chromosomal abnormality, and many delays. She is is funny, sweet, beautiful, and totally beloved by all who meet her. rsburgin@yahoo.com

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  144. My eyes were filled with tears reading this ever so lovely post and dreaming a little! Thank you for saying it so honestly. I am a mom to a beautiful 4 year old girl who has Cerebral Palsy and Autism. Honored and excited to enter this contest!! kmoormann@gmail.com

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  145. My eyes were filled with tears as I read your beautiful post and dreamed a little! Thanks for being so very honest and for "getting it", that life does have it's hard moments, but it's graced with these wonderful heaven-gazing, eternal moments as well! I am a Mom to a daughter with Cerebral Palsy and Autism and I am honored to enter your sweepstakes!! kmoormann@gmail.com

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  146. I'm not a special needs mom but I am a special needs teacher and this is wonderful! Thank you for doing this, Sheaffer. I too love Loft and now I love them even more. Bless you for making this happen!

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  148. Thank you for recognizing special moms! My daughter was born with a severe heart defect, has endured cath, open heart surgery, countless hours of it, pt, st, stroke, seizure!! Thank you for this opportunity!

    Aenglish519@gmail.com

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  149. Thank you for recognizing special moms! My daughter was born with a severe heart defect, has endured heart caths, open hear surgery, feeding tube, countless hours of OT, pt, st but she us doing well! Thank you for the opportunity!

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  150. I am mother to two special needs children my three year old son Ayden has been through Ties (Tennessee early intervention specialist) which was a God send for us he has a heart condition called wpw and was behind in his communication skills but has made awesome strides with the help of our language and communications specialist. My youngest son Micah has a cleft palate and at two can only say momma , but with signs he is able to let me know what he needs and after his surgery we are hoping for even more improvement. Being a single mom to three kids is a hard job as it is, thank you for acknowledging us!

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  151. I am so enjoying reading the comments from the other moms of special needs children. It reminds me that I am not alone, on a journey that can feel so lonely. I am a mom of a beautiful 7 year old son with autism.

    ekdoster@gmail.com

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  152. Be aware. I sure do love awareness! The more that the general public is aware and educated that there are children (and adults) with "extra needs" everywhere, the more it makes my heart smile.

    I'm a mom to a 13 year old legally blind, AD/HD, Aspergers boy. He will drive me batty and overwhelm me with pride and joy on the same day many times. Parents, caregivers, friends & educators that love special needs individuals are heroes to me. They all have a special place in their heart and it fills my heart!!

    marcyandrick@gmail.com

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  153. Be aware. Raising awareness for individuals with "extra needs" tickles me to no end!

    I am a mom to a 13 year old legally blind, AD/HD, Aspergers boy. He can drive me insane and make me the happiest mom on the very same day. Parents, caregivers, friends and educators that love our kiddos are Heroes to me. They are truly amazing and special people to have a place in their heart to care for them. Y'all ROCK!!

    marcyandrick@gmail.com

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  154. Sniff Sniff, so awesome that you're doing this! You are soo amazing for what you do and what you accomplish with Kids. You're my HERO from taking my babbling non verbal to signing thousands of words, even words I don't know and getting sounds out of him, nothing better than tears of joy from hard work done!!!! amykleis@yahoo.com

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  156. I'm mama to a sweet 3 year old boy recently diagnosed with Autism. He is my world, my oldest, he made me a mother. I look at his diagnosis not as a bad thing, but a blessing. I know it has and will continue to teach me to be a better mother. I'm more patient and much more understanding of others. My husband recently quit his full-time job to be able to take our son to his weekly therapies while I support the family on my income. Thank you so much for recognizing us mamas, but don't forget about the dads too! 🙂

    cqmiller18@gmail.com

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  157. I just had to return to your blog tonight to read all the wonderful comments from your readers!!! It's so heart warming to read all the comments especially from the moms of special needs children. Love what you are doing Sheaffer!!!!

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  158. Just reading your description is making me tear up. My son is on the autism spectrum. As the parent you feel bad complaining and thinking it's harder than typical kids. But at the same time, the unpredictability, the meltdowns, the inability to communicate, and the always having to be ready can be overwhelming. Plus the therapies, testings, and appointments. Thank you for at the very least helping to affirm all of us out there. 🙂 I'd love to win a makeover!

    Kelly
    strz@flash.net

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  159. I don't know why a contest to win new clothes made me cry, I feel kind of lame but what an amazing gift! I have a 10yo son with Autism. The daily (and nightly) struggles that come with a child with special needs can be exhausting and expensive. I know I walk into my IEP meetings looking like a total scrounge but the clothes I have are all I got. Thank you for seeing what parents of special needs kiddos go through it was nice to read that you truly recognize that insurance rarely covers the services we desperately need and for that we really don't have the extra money to go to ourselves. Bless you:)

    heather@dehoyos.net

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  160. Hi, wow. This is so neat that you are doing this. It's people like you who make the world a better place. I've had a few amazing gals in my life like you that have helped hold my hand in the beginning years of navigating life as a mother to a child with special needs. God bless you! Ntunewithu@hotmail.com

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  162. I am a momma to a special needs daughter, whom we adopted internationally. She had a cleft lip, cleft palate, and is deaf in one ear. She spends endless hours with her speech therapists, and still has a smile on her face and a jump in her step. She loves life, even though most around her have a hard time understanding her. I want to THANK YOU, speech therapist, for helping our kiddos express what is hiding in their sweet hearts!!

    cori@the-patricks.org

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  163. Thank you for this opportunity! I am the mom to a handsome 15 year old boy with Down Syndrome and Autism. He is non-verbal, but has made several strides in augmentative communication thanks to our wonderful therapists!

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  164. I am a momma to a 5 year old special needs daughter, whom we adopted internationally. She had a cleft lip, cleft palate and is deaf in one ear. After only 3 years home with us, she has endured many surgeries, procedures and appointments. She has spent countless hours with her speech therapists and yet she still has a smile on her face and a jump in her step- even though most of the people don't understand a word she says. I just want to say THANK YOU, speech therapists, who do their best to help our kiddos verbally (or with signs) express the words that are hiding in their hearts!!

    cori@the-patricks.org

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  165. Shaeffer!! This is so amazing. I'm a mom to a 9 year old daughter with Autism. I'm one of those go to bed tired, wake up tired kind of moms. This contest is so wonderful. I will pass on to my special needs mom's group. Every single one of them deserve it! 🙂
    Kim
    brunaugh@comcast.net

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  167. this just overwhelms my soul! as a single mom of a 7 yr old special needs son I often put aside my own needs. he is my world. what a blessing this contest is to all the special needs mommies! mspapier@Yahoo.com

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  168. What an amazing idea!! I'm mom to a fantastic 14 year old son with autism (and 2 other boys) who we were blessed to bring home from Russia 14 years ago. I love our time spent homeschooling and know our lives have been impacted in amazing ways because of him and he is a light to all who know him. Thank you for shining a light on all those amazing momma's to special needs kids!

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  170. what a wonderful idea! I'm a single mommy of a 7 yr old with special needs. he his medically complicated with autism being one of his 7 diagnosis. life is a never a dull moment and I dedicate everything I have to my Lil guy. what a blessing this contest is to all special needs mommies! I'd love to be entered…mspapier@Yahoo.com

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  176. This is such a great idea! I have a friend that is totally deserving, but I doubt she has time to read blogs, even an amazing one like yours 🙂 If you ever have a round where readers can nominate a deserving woman, I'd definitely be putting her name in the hat!

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  178. What a sweet idea! We just began our journey having a child with special needs 18 months ago. It has changed me in ways that I never would've imagined and I am blessed beyond measure by my precious boy who has Down Syndrome. My email address is onlyfromscratch@gmail.com. For anyone who's interested, I also write tidbits about our life with him at onlyfromscratch.blogspot.com Thanks for offering this amazing gift!

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  179. Thanks so much for this! I have three kids, one with ADD, one with food allergies, and one with Down syndrome. They all bless my life incredibly!

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  187. What an amazing thing you are doing Sheaffer!!! Bless you. We have 3 gorgeous girls. Our oldest daughter, Grace, still has no diagnosis but has severe mental handicaps and is non-verbal (uses sign language). She is such a joy and blesses all who know her. I believe God equips those whom he calls, and I am so glad he called you to care for special children like my sweet Grace. I love your kind and caring heart 🙂 I also love your blog and am now an even BIGGER lover of Loft as well…Danielle Duhon duhonfive@gmail.com

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  188. Hi I am entering I am a mom of three sweet kids and one with autism. You have no idea how this would truly force me to do something for myself. I can not remember the last time I purchased something new for myself. I really enjoy your blog and all the pretty things, it makes me feel like I am still keeping up with fashion. I am always shuttling the kids to school and therapy in my same jeans and tops. lol Thank you for doing this.
    massey.v.07@gmail.com

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  189. Thank you so much for this incredible give-a-way! I'm the mom of a 5 yr old incredible boy with Cerebral Palsy. He's so amazing and we thank God for trusting us to raise and care for him! Many days are very hard, but we're so thankful to have a front row seat for all of the amazing things he will do in life! dbschafran@gmail.com

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  190. I am not entering, but I just wanted to comment and say that I LOVE this idea and am so grateful that you and LOFT are doing this for a very deserving mom. That is so sweet and she will be blessed by this!

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  191. I have 2 sweet boys who I adore. My oldest has autism. It has been hard to go down this road but I thank God for sending him to me I have learned so much from him. I couldn't imagine my life without either one of them 🙂
    andreagon18@yahoo.com

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  192. I am sending this link to my friend here in Round Rock, Her daughter has Downs Syndrome and is the sweetest, most genuine girl out there!! Thank you so much for doing this & proud of you too!!! CRAZY exciting!! xoxo

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  195. This is such an cool idea. It's not often that anyone stops and says "hey let's do a giveaway just for special needs moms!" I am the proud mom to our princess Meya who has a dx of quadriplegic cerebral palsy. Our family also currently cares for two littles one with autism and one with moderate mental retardation. I never dreamed this would be part of our life's journey as I was a special ed teacher and loving teaching and then…. we became a foster family and our plan was to keep sibling sets together and God's plan was that we take a little by the name of Meya and adopt her. Life is beyond grand at our house. Thank you for honoring special needs moms!
    dannetteteaches@yahoo.com

    Dannette

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  196. Sheaffer, you hit a home run with this idea! I've loved reading about these exceptional moms and their kiddos. You met my twins a few months back in banana republic. My Lainey has Down syndrome and is just the sweetest baby ever! Twin sister, Olivia, is the sassy one! Both are my pride and joy! I seriously have no time to shop and your blog has been a lifesaver in keeping me somewhat fashionable! Thanks again, Emily

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  197. Just seeing that someone cares enough about the parents of kids with special needs, has made my very difficult day a little brighter. Thank you!

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  198. Thank you so much for the opportunity to win! I have a son with autism and while he can be a challenge, he is such an awesome kid. Thank you for all that you do for families like mine. You make our lives so much better! My email is: dpvred@sbcglobal.net

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  199. I am in tears, but now happy tears! I have a son with special needs who is almost 7 with multiple diagnosis. He is in a class for those that need total communication (verbal, visual, signs, technology, etc) and a highly structured environment. I just read an email from friend who informed me of the awesome blog and contest being holding for mom's of special needs children after getting home from therapy with my son. I left therapy crying because of troubles with insurance (I am sure many of you know how it goes) and still feeling down. Not so much anymore! Such an uplifting gesture of winning a gift card to treat one self means so much to a mother like me and those in similar situations. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! To my friend that emailed me, to Loft, and especially to Sheaffer for writing the blog and holding the contest! Best wishes to all of those that enter and through your journey as a mother of an exceptional child!
    Courtney Halverson
    Courtney.r.halverson@gmail.com

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  200. Thank you for this opportunity! I am the mother of a special needs daughter who was born without her cerebellum and is visually impaired. I also teach a first grade class with special needs inclusion. It's great that you are doing this! A friend of mine told me about the giveaway.. It would be a blessing to win!

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  201. Without any prior knowledge and no family history, my sweet Molly was born with Down syndrome. I had a one in 891 chance of having a child with Down syndrome and I was the "one". I couldn't be more proud of my daughter – she's three now and just brightens up our lives. Being a special needs mama is tough work, but it's so incredibly rewarding too.

    This is a fantastic giveaway and I'm excited for whomever is deemed the winner. Special needs moms deserve some pampering too! xo

    Carrie@CarrieWithChildren.com

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  202. I have been following you for over a year and I already loved you (since I live in a very small town and have to do all my shopping online, I think of you as my own personal shopping buddy), but now I love you even more. Being the parent of a special needs childs can be very isolating and it means so much that you would think of those of us in the trenches of parenting these incredible kiddos. My four year old son was officially diagnosed with autism one month ago, but we have been looking for answers for him since he was 7 months old. In the yearly months our SLP and OT therapists were my lifeline. Thanks for what you do!

    Jill
    turner@wsu.edu

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  203. WOW! Seeing this post and all the comments sure makes a special needs mamma feel warm and fuzzy and not so alone! I am entering because I LOVE the opportunity to share my daughters story. There is so much educating that needs to be out there about her rare condition (only 100 documented cases in the world!) Addison is my rare gem and I know she is here to change the world. She can make the worse day so much better with just her smile! Thank you for this extremely thoughtful post (and thanks to all the companies for offering up the wonderful goodies!) A special needs mommy does deserve all this and what a wonderful way to bring her some joy. I also want to thank YOU Sheaffer for committing to give our special needs kiddos a chance to have what everyone wants, a way to communicate! 🙂 carrie@beyondbakesales.com

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  204. As a special needs mom to a fearfully and wonderfully made son with Cerebral Palsy and Speech Apraxia and special education teacher by day, my heart is full of joy and thankfulness for your encouragement…knowing that others "see you" and care is so incredibly powerful! May you continue to be blessed for ALL you do for our special kids!! commonthreads15.7@gmail.com

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  206. Wow! This is so awesome! As a mom of a profoundly deaf five year old, our problems and visits are just a drop in the bucket for some of these moms. I can't wait to see who wins!

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  207. i'm a child development specialist in early intervention so i go into the homes of these special moms. this totally melts my heart and inspires me to try to do something similar. i'll be emailing you soon.

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  208. How did I miss you were a speech therapist?!? Speech therapists have been so instrumental in my son's progress….I love you all! My son is almost 6 and has autism and ADHD. He has a typically developing twin and we adopted both of them at birth. Parenting him has been both so challenging and so rewarding….I am amazed at him all the time! I am also a teacher and my son has made me a better teacher….one who works even harder to reach all my students and celebrate more often the uniqueness in ALL my students. Thanks for a great contest! jpedersen73@hotmail.com

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  209. How did I miss you were a speech therapist?!? Speech therapists have been so instrumental in my son's progress….I love you all! My son is almost 6 and has autism and ADHD. He has a typically developing twin and we adopted both of them at birth. Parenting him has been both so challenging and so rewarding….I am amazed at him all the time! I am also a teacher and my son has made me a better teacher….one who works even harder to reach all my students and celebrate more often the uniqueness in ALL my students. Thanks for a great contest! jpedersen73@hotmail.com

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  212. I am the mama to a beautiful 5 year old boy with Down syndrome. He has come so far in his 5 years thanks to wonderful therapists, special education and other teachers that have encouraged him and believe, like us, that there is nothing that he can't do. This is a wonerful giveaway. Thank you. kebrooks@hotmail.com

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  213. My mom is a special needs mom of not one, but two special needs kids. I am entering the contest for her because I can't think of anyone who deserves this more and because my poor busy mother can barely use a computer. Autism has had a huge impact on my family. My mom will ALWAYS put the needs of my brothers before her own and really only gets to shop when I am treating. Email address is mlj9290@gmail.com.

    By the way, this is such a fun blog to follow! I'm a little bit addicted to it.

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  214. What a nice way to honor mothers who are especially challenged raising a child or children with special needs! As I read the blog entries, it reminds me that our wonderful children come in all packages, and each family is made up of its own unique circumstances. I almost didn't enter because I feel my story may not be as challenging as others. But a really great friend of mine encouraged me to enter as she reminded me that it isn't a contest of 'whose challenge' is harder, but a celebration of what we do every single day for our children. My daughter is now 28, she had a spontaneous brain hemorrhage at age 6 and was left with right sided weakness and some residual brain injury including speech and memory function. She still has the AVM, and we monitor it annually, always trying to staunch its growth (its a tenacious AVM!). I am now a step-mom to two teenage boys who are also challenged, one with ADHD and one with AD and a learning disability. It is all a challenge every day, but I have learned over the years that with the support of caring people, there is lots of joy to be had every single day. veadams@hotmail.com

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  215. This is awesome! I know so many momma who deserve this. My son has sensory issues and ADHD. I took us a special group of amazing teachers to figure out what works but now he is doing AMAZING. Its interesting to learn how to help him cope with the issues we are learning more about my husbands issues and he is becoming a better dad. amyloren@gmail.com

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  216. Thank you so much for your considerate recognition to the effort that we mama's make. I know first hand the dedication that a special child needs, I have two boys the oldest 9, the youngest 7. Everyday is different and we take it a little at a time. (Sometimes minutes at a time!) but I wouldn't change any part of my life for anything. These two little wonders have changed my life, they are the reason for every single thing I do and I don't act without them and their well being in mind. Thank you so much again for dedicating your life to helping children like mine! Email: littlespaceofmine13@gmail.com

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  217. Thank you so much for the recognition to our (special mamas) love, dedication and effort.. I have two beautiful sons, ages 9 and 7. I wouldn't trade them for anything. Both have been diagnosed on the spectrum level since the age of 3. E. These two little wonders have changed my life, and influence every part of my very being. I don't think a parent with a child with special needs acts on anything without their child in mind. Thank you also for dedicating yourself to your career. I hope you know that you make a world of difference!
    Email. littlespaceofmine13@gmail.com

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  218. What an amazing thing you are doing! My six year old was diagnosed with autism when my three year old twins were 5 months old. What a ride it has been the last three years. I am currently a SAHM so I can get my daughter to all her weekly therapies (speech, OT, ABA). My email: mkadera123@gmail.com

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  219. What a great idea! Thank you for all you do for kids with special needs. I am a momma of twin boys with severe autism and severe mental handicaps. To be honest, if I won this, I would love to divide this prize up and give it to the amazing, hard working and loving team that makes school and church possible for my boys. I am continually touched at the genuine love and interest they show in helping my kids succeed. Thank you Sheaffer!

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  220. My name is Ryan McLaughlin, and I am the proud momma to TWO special-needs little girls! Our oldest daughter, Ellie Kate, passed away December 23, 2012 and our youngest daughter, Lucy, will be TWO tomorrow! Both of our girls suffer from a rare genetic disease called NKH. We also have two typical and healthy boys.

    Through our girls, we've started OKC Hope Link – a Foundation and Support Group for mommas who also have children with rare, serious and undiagnosed disorders. My heart is for this group of people! My friend directed me to your cute blog, and asked me to apply:); I happily did so!

    Thank you so much for doing this, regardless of who wins! Special-needs mommas are too often overlooked in our society. Thank you for blessing one in this way!

    With Hope,
    Ryan McLaughlin
    tullyryan@hotmail.com
    ryan@okchopelink.org

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  223. Such a great idea for all of these deserving Moms. Yes, I am one of them, proud of my special needs son who has taught me to cherish all the little things life has to offer. Thanks to you and Loft and the other sponsors. Someone is going to super happy when they are blessed with this giveaway. Shucks, I would be tickled pink, but many of the others are more deserving! Kim (thornpatch @embarqmail.com)

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  224. What a beautiful gift to a special Mama … honestly, I was hesitant to leave a comment as our daughter's special need is really quite minor in comparison … in 2008, we lost a son to anencephaly, a neaural tube disorder incompatible with life, diagnosed at a "normal" 19 week ultrasound. I carried Owen to term and throughout the pregnancy, through the heartache, we did what we could to make memories as a family. At the time we had two healthy boys … I also had a heart for adoption, my husband wasn't in the same place … through Owen, that changed and our perspective on "Plan A" and "Plan B" also changed … fast forward, we have had one more (healthy) bio child and we brought home our daughter Nora from China last October. God really opened our eyes to special needs, Nora's had unrepaired cleft lip and palate (she has now had surgery here in the states), she will require more surgeries and likely years of speach therapy, BUT she is a blessing and is teaching us more about compassion, grace and mercy every day. Bless you for doing this in conjunction with Loft.

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  226. My daughter has two special needs children. Her two precious boys were both born deaf. What a wonderful opportunity for these special moms to win something like this. Thank you so much. My email is gwilson101@gmail.com

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  227. I am mom to 5 kiddos, with one son who has Down syndrome. What a blessing! He brings hugs and smiles everywhere he goes. His first year of life was tough and it has completely changed our perspective on life. I thank God every day for our sweet and precious gift. mommykt01@yahoo.com

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  228. What a treat! I am a wife and mom to 2 boys, and my older son, age 10, is on the autism spectrum. He is awesome and smart and creative and fun and hard, and a severe blessing. 🙂 He helps us to reprioritize and focus on what's important – faith and family. Maybe I could stand to focus on fashion a little more too! Thanks for doing this Shaffer – I love seeing all your posts and pins on Pinterest! Best, Kelly kellyvalenta@yahoo.com

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  229. What a treat! I am a wife and mom to 2 boys, and my older son, age 10, is on the autism spectrum. He is awesome and smart and creative and fun and hard, and a severe blessing. 🙂 He helps us to reprioritize and focus on what's important – faith and family. Maybe I could stand to focus on fashion a little more too! Thanks for doing this Shaffer – I love seeing all your posts and pins on Pinterest! Best, Kelly kellyvalenta@yahoo.com

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  233. I love this contest, thank you so much for making this for mamas who really deserve it. We're dealing with a speech and developmental delay and spend hours every week in therapy. Speech paths are awesome and have made a huge difference in my son's life! carolinemacnab at gmail dot com.

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  237. I don't know if I'm eligible. But my daughter battled cancer for nearly 5 years. It was the toughest time our lives. So glad, that it now seems to be behind us. And she is finally able to be somewhat "normal." Although, ever single appointment that we have, I panic. I try not to think of the worst. But that's what happens…. mamasheartloves (at) aol (dot) com.

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  238. What an amazing thing you are doing. I never really thought about kids with special needs before. Not until the end of my pregnancy. When tragedy struck. And I'm now a mom of a very special little girl. She has taught me so much. And isn't even 3 years old yet. When I thought I was all alone, going through a divorce, we were in a horrible car accident. And I was blessed with a beautiful daughter! I know that our lifetime, will be filled with years of learning, growing, and loving! Thank you for your kindness. happysurprises (at) aol (dot) com.

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  240. How fun! Thanks for thinking of us special needs mommas. I have four children, two of them have spina bifida. It's so true what you wrote in your blog. I was sent this link by a physical therapist that I work with. I've been debating whether or not to even enter because I think, "So many other mommas have it harder than I do." But, sometimes putting on a cute outfit is the best way to get through a hard day, so I'm gladly entering, Thank you! My email? milliekillpack@gmail.com

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  241. Thank you for thinking of special needs moms! My middle child was born at 26 weeks and has been diagnosed with PDD (she is 6 now and just started Kindergarten:). It has been a long road, but she is making progress thanks to her teachers and speech therapists like yourself. Susanne (susannefoxy@gmail.com).

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  242. Thank you for caring for special families! I so often don't care about my appearance as it's my sweetie girl who needs so much right now. I always make sure she's dressed to the nines as we run back and forth to therapy sessions (8 a week!), doctor's appointments and the like, but forget about me! I appreciate it when someone reminds me that I'm a still woman who can dress up and have some fun with clothes and shoes too! I would LOVE to win this, but know it will go to a wonderful mama no matter what. Thanks for all you do for special needs kiddos. We love our therapists!

    Caroline, mom to K (dx Muscle-Eye-Brain disease, infantile spasms, GDD and a wonderful smile!)
    caroline_harding822@yahoo.com

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  245. I'm a mommy to three and my youngest has a rare condition called Noonan Syndrome. He has been through so much but is a trooper and ALWAYS has a smile. Him coming into our lives has been very challenging but the JOY he brings is irreplaceable. You have a heart of gold to think about us Moms. God Bless You! -Cheryl
    cherylshoemake@sbcglobal.net

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  246. Thank you so much for firstly recognizing and highlighting our families.  I appreciate how you serve generously and support families like ours.  Yes, there are many tiresome days, but our lives are rich because of our love for our children and innate push to see them grow.  It drives us to keep pushing them to make steps no matter how big.  We celebrate every victory.  And yes often we put ourselves to the side and sacrifice daily.  So, thank you for giving this opportunity.  Our now 7yo princess Zoe Madison was born w/a congenital heart defect, had open heart surgery at 10mos, and was diagnosed on the autism spectrum with PDD-NOS and ADHD.  It's been some journey but worth it!  She's made so much progress and we are proud!  dsb103@gmail.com

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  251. Thank you so much for thinking about all the moms out there with special needs kiddos. As many moms can relate a moms needs fall by the waist side when your driving your child to daily therapy sessions, doctors appointments or school. My four year old son has Down Syndrome and has entered Pre-K through the school district this year and this gift card would be perfect to update my wardrobe for the countless school meetings instead of work out clothes! Thank You again! Brittanywelborn@yahoo.com

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  256. This is so uplifting! I am a mom to a 20 month old son who has a rare muscle disease. He still cannot crawl or walk but is just the sweetest brightest little guy! We do physical therapy daily and he has his own wheelchair too. I am so proud of my son and I long to be the best mom possible to him. We have come a long way but I am trusting daily in God's grace. My email is karencampbell05@gmail.com

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  257. emhawk8@gmail.com
    It takes a new perspective, lots of patience and an enormous amount of love to be the mother of a special needs child – you put your everything into it and sometimes loose sight of who you are as an individual. Any one of these mothers deserves a day to pamper themselves with a shopping spree. I am proud to be in the mix to win!! Thank You

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  259. I have 2.5 year old Identical Twin Boys that are both autistic. This is such a great thing to do . We all need a nice break from time to time to do something for ourselves. Whoever wins this is defeinitely deserving. I hope it's me ! 🙂 Thank you for creating this !
    My email is : jenhehl80@gmail.com
    Jennifer Laurin

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  261. I'm a little confused but I hope I entered. I have a brother who is autistic and developmentally delayed. I would love to win this for my mom who totally deserves it!

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  262. Thank you so, so much for this! My daughter is non-mobile, nonverbal, and is currently undiagnosed at age 4. Thank you again for this chance and for all you do for SN children (I am so thankful for my daughters therapists)! 🙂

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  263. teen years + Aspergers syndrome = a mama in need of pampering! thanks for the give away! email fiveswishers at sbcglobal dot net

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  265. What a wonderful idea. I often think that I am actually blessed to have my daughter with SN's in my life because she has taught me more about life in 18 months then I've learned from anyone else in the last 34 years.
    meganmchopper@gmail.com
    Megan

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  266. This is an AWESOME IDEA!!! My son has Tuberous Sclerosis and no one needs a little extra love than stressed out Special Needs Mommies! THANK YOU!!!! Running to tell all my friends!!

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  271. This brought tears to my eyes! How sweet of you to think of us special needs mamas!!! I have always LOVED LOFT! I love them even more now!!!

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  277. As a mom to a special needs child (Asperger's, ADHD, Sensory, and Anxiety) each day brings new layers of challenges to discover but also new layers of joy and incredible love. My son has a huge heart and I am blessed every single day to be his Mom. I think this post is inspiring and as a teacher (Reading Specialist) of children with reading needs, I am touched by what you are doing. Thank you. My email is: klein.sarah40@gmail.com

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  278. what a sweet idea. my daughter has Down Syndrome, and her big brothers are homeschooled. nothing is ready, but beauty is everywhere. my fashionista days seem so long ago, but I loved seeing your picks and dreaming a bit. Thanks for a chance at it!

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  279. Thank you for hosting such a thoughtful giveaway! I have two awesome little boys, and my oldest, Knox, has Autism. He is an amazing kid, things can be hard sometimes, but he is the happiest kid on the planet. He is also a loving big brother to our youngest, Brody. They make life so wonderful. My email is mycoffeeiscold(at)yahoo(dot)com.

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  280. This is so wonderful! My son has Langer-Giedion Syndrome which causes orthopedic issues, intellectual disability, and sensory issues. Ree (reeannclark@gmail.com)

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  281. My husband and I have three boys, one of whom has autism. I have to say, I am so thankful for SLP's like you–we've loved our Ms. Jenny since Evan was 18 months old–and he's almost 13! She's the only therapist (of MANY!) who has stuck with us through thick and thin. Thanks for the opportunity to win!

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  283. Wow!! What a great thing you're doing. This may be a double-up (didn't see my original post) but I love what you're doing for these special mamas!! My guy is non-verbal, almost 4 and has childhood apraxia of speech. He also has sensory processing disorder as well as a host of other diagnoses that affect his eating, growth and general development. We are always busy running to his various therapy appointments. He has a rock star big bro that we homeschool who accompanies us without complaint! These little people teach me something new everyday. I'm more tired than I ever thought possible and love deeper than I ever knew I could. Thank you for acknowledging the mamas of these precious kiddos!
    Wendyfriess@comcast.net

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  284. As a mother of a teenager with ADHD, Asperger's and Anxiety I am touched by your post and the generous offers to help a Mama with special needs child/children become more fashionable! I also am a reading specialist and work with children with reading difficulties. It is amazing what kind of spirit children have….of all levels of need. They all want to be loved and accepted and all children deserve that. Thank you for sponsoring this. My email is: klein.sarah40@gmail.com

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  289. I think I missed it :(. Thank you for thinking of us anyhow. We have five children, one of whom has Down syndrome. We are so blessed, although I will say these teenage years are harder than I ever expected!

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  291. Wow!! Both of my children have special needs. My first has a genetic disorder and its a miracle he's thriving at six years old. My new daughter, just 4 months, has had brain surgery twice already…once this past week as something happened that our Nuerosurgeon has only seen once in his career. Loft is my favorite store and this would definitely brighten my day. Oh and my 35th birthday is on Monday and because of the surgery my birthday trip was cancelled. This would be a very bright spot in a really rough time. Thanks for your sweet post. Kim.larrick@gmail.com

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  293. Thank you SO much for doing this AWESOME give away!!! I am the momma to an sweet 12 year old angel!! She had a stroke while I was pregnant with her. She has totally surpassed all her doctors expectations!! Even though she cant walk or talk, she communicates with her beautiful blue eyes!! Her life has been such a blessing to me!! So thankful for people like u in our lives…..hope you are truly blessed for your thoughtfulness!! My email is: garyandangie3@verizon.net

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  294. Thank you for this amazing giveaway. I am so excited! I know the lady that wins will feel blessed beyond measure. Thank you for having such a kind and giving heart. Thank you for the work you do with special needs kids. My son is autistic and you have NO idea how much we appreciate our therapists and teachers. My email is: froufroubritches@sbcglobal.net

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  295. I am so very sad that I missed this giveaway. As the mom to not one, but two, special needs kids I would have loved to win this! You hit the nail on the head when you say that us special needs mommas are pros at two things: Fighting for our kids and putting ourselves in last place. What a blessing for the wonderful SN momma that won this!

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