It’s Friday, so y’all know what that means! It’s time to link up with Erika, Andrea, and Narci to let everybody know what some of my favorite things are right now!
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Let’s kick today off with this week’s 10 BACHELOR THOUGHTS!
Did you see last Friday’s post? At the very beginning of the post, I shared 10 thoughts from the 1st episode. Click HERE to see those. In addition to my 10 Bachelor thoughts, I also shared the reason why I’m not doing full blown recaps this year if you want to read about that too.
But let’s get started with WEEK #2. In the famous words of Jordan…
BACHELOR EPISODE 2 THOUGHTS
1. I felt personally victimized by Alabama Hannah. Her splashy return and then abrupt exit left my head spinning. She sauntered in, grabbed sweet Peter’s heart (who is OBVI still in love with her), made him question everything, gave him serious “I WANT TO MUG DOWN WITH YOU VIBES”, and left glitter all over him. Peter was clearly there for it. I MEAN, SHE SAID NO TO HIM, HE NEVER SAID NO TO HER.
But at the last moment he had a crisis of conscience and said he couldn’t do it. And then she left. HUH? I was all sorts of annoyed that she was leaving after all that. Sure, I wanted her and Peter to make out, but I also wanted to see the house implode upon her return.
Still, I shall be eternally grateful that her exit left Peter in such a state that he canceled the group date and we didn’t have to listen to all of the girls share their big wiggle stories. #smallblessings
2. At the cocktail party I thought it was hilarious that some of the girls were acting like they were soooooo happy for Kelsey that she brought a bottle of champagne to share with Peter and that they were going to get to have a special moment together. #theywerentfoolinganybody #liars #allofthem
3. I want to high five whatever Bachelor intern told Hannah Ann that the champagne had been set up for her and Peter. I think we all know that somebody was like “Psst. Hannah Ann. We put out some champagne for you. You should totally partake. Yep, that champagne RIGHT THERE.” That’s some good t.v., y’all. #promotethatintern
4. I understand why Kelsey was totally disappointed that her champagne moment had been hijacked. BUT. Kelsey annoys the fire out of me when she says things like “she took that moment from me” and “you know what you did, don’t talk to me.” And when she struggles to breathe while crying, I CAN’T. Maybe I’m crazy, but I believe Hannah Ann when she said she didn’t know! Because of this, I felt nothing buy pure joy when the champagne spewed in Kelsey’s face. It was strangely satisfying. Almost therapeutic. I laughed out loud. And maybe even snorted a teeny tiny bit.
5. The next group date was a Revolve Fashion show that was judged by Carson Kressley (#queereyeforever), Janice Dickinson, and one of the Revolve ladies. Here’s what I know:
a. I continue to love and adore Carson Kressley just as much as I did in the Queer Eye for The Straight Guy era.
b. Janice Dickinson is a cautionary tale. She makes me want to lather all sorts of creams and serums on my neck while saying no to drugs.
6. Victoria F: I’m timid, I’m incredibly shy, I can barely speak above a whisper, and I’m not comfortable in my own skin. I feel like I’m never seen.
Also Victoria F:
Peter: I see you.
America: We see you too. #insertwideeyedemoji
7. I’ve never identified with anybody IN MY LIFE more than I did with Carson in this moment.
8. The previews for the remainder of the season have me SHOOK.
9. Peter’s mom has me reeling. While bawling she begs and pleads with Peter, “Don’t let her go! Don’t let her go! Bring her home to us!” and I’m telling you right now that I NEED to know who she is talking about. Was one of the contestant going to study abroad? Did she get a transfer at work to Milwaukee? I didn’t understand her intensity and cannot imagine who the girl is, where the girl has gone, and why she went there.
10. Harrison apparently has a bombshell that he plans to drop on Peter approximately 2.3 seconds before it looks like he’s going to propose. Is Hannah back? Does Harrison inform him that Hannah Ann DID IN FACT KNOW that she was drinking Kelsey’s champagne? I’ve never been so close to reading Reality Steve in my life.
All right. That’s it for The Bachelor today! Hope you enjoyed my 10 quick thoughts!
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FESTIVE BASEBALL TEE
Yesterday on Facebook I shared that I had ordered several graphic tees (perfect for February) that I plan on showing in next week’s Amazon Haul. I also shared that I’m afraid that some of the popular sizes might sell out between now and then, so I decided to go ahead and link them today. I haven’t styled all of them yet, but I am going to show 1 of them today (and you can get the rest of the links below this pic).
HOW CUTE IS THIS BASEBALL TEE! On the same link there are several different graphic hearts to choose from, and there’s a black and grey option as well. I’m wearing a medium and definitely needed the extra room. The tee is soft, comfy, and darling!
baseball tee /statement hoops / colorful stack bracelets / girlfriend jeans / shoreline converse
AND GREAT NEWS! You can use the code COLORSTACK40 for 40% OFF these colorful bracelets!
You better get used to these bracelets because they make just about every single outfit better. I wore them all Fall, all Winter, and I’ll be wearing them all Spring and Summer as well.
baseball tee / colorful stack bracelets / shoreline converse
OTHER VALENTINE’S OPTIONS FROM AMAZON:
*KIND IS COOL tee HERE
*BE KIND graphic tee (tons of colors) HERE
*LOVE graphic tee HERE
*heart sweater HERE (several colors)
*blush cardi HERE
*red cardi HERE
*white cardi HERE
Also, LOFT has a Valentine’s Day shop HERE.
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COLLEEN ROTHSCHILD LOVERS, LISTEN UP!
Colleen rolled out a new product this week! Glycolic Acid Peel Pads, y’all! Click HERE to read all about these power house pads. I expect mine to arrive today, and I’m excited to use them.
And check this out! Click HERE for the special introductory offer they have right now. WHAT A DEAL!
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STYLE IT AGAIN, SHEAFFER
On Monday I answered a question where a reader had asked for some top recommendations for the best black pants ever. I showed both of the below blouses with the pants, but I wanted to show that they both look great with jeans as well. (Click HERE to see the blouses with my favorite work pants.)
This blouse is a gorgeous red with a petite floral vine running all over it. It has a band collar, button cuffs, and the pleats allow it to flow and drape so nicely. It’s true to size, I’m wearing a small.
Also worth noting is that it’s Treasure and Bond, and when your purchase Treasure & Bond, Nordstrom will donate 2.5% of net sales to organizations that work to empower youth! Love that.
red floral blouse (plus size HERE)/ must have earrings / drusy heart necklace / itty bitty boot cut jeans (plus size jeans) /
I think the teal floral pattern here is so pretty, but it also comes in a small berry floral as well as a small leopard print. Y’all know I prefer a longer sleeve, and this blouse fits the bill! It actually hits just above my elbow and is just a tad bit puffy (but not too crazy). I like the style and interest it adds to the blouse.
I needed a medium in this one for it not to be too tight in the chest, but if you don’t typically need extra room in the chest, just stick with your regular size.
puffy sleeve blouse / must have earrings / drusy heart necklace / itty bitty boot cut jeans (plus size jeans) / similar leopard booties
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NEW NORDSTROM ITEMS
Bobeau reached out and was nice enough to send some items my way. I’ve been wearing these little jogger sets around the house non- stop and absolutely ADORE them. MY GOODNESS THEY ARE SOFT.
They are thin, so I’m not sure everybody will be comfortable wearing them out of the house, but I love that you can be comfy lounging at home and still look super cute! I’m wearing a medium in the top and a small in the joggers.
top / joggers / mesh sneakers
Seriously. They are stupid soft. Love this blush.
top / joggers / mesh sneakers
But if you have to wear some real clothes somewhere…..like pants that have an actual button….here’s a cute outfit for you!
Y’all know I love this green, so I grabbed it (it also comes in cream and black). Love the cable knit and the unfinished neckline too. It’s not cropped, but it’s not full length either. It’s the perfect length to wear it out without having to do a half tuck. I’m wearing a small.
sweater / must have earrings / drusy heart necklace / itty bitty boot cut jeans (plus size jeans) / similar leopard booties
This sweater is one that I have in 2 other colors already, but I had to see this blush color-blocking in person. It’s very sweet and very pretty. I have a small in the other 2 colors I own and like the fit, but this small is too big. I’m not sure if it’s marked wrong or if I should order an x-small in this one.
sweater / must have earrings / drusy heart necklace / itty bitty boot cut jeans (plus size jeans) / similar leopard booties
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TWO AMAZON SWEATERS
I have been having the best luck with Amazon sweaters lately. The quality is blowing my mind.
I already have this sweater in a dark camel, and I couldn’t resist this pretty blush.
I LOVE IT SO MUCH, and so do others because it has great reviews.
It has a slouchy fit, dropped shoulders, and a loose turtleneck. It’s not long enough for leggings on my 5’4″ frame, but it looks great with jeans! It’s quite over sized, but the ribbed and fitted cuffs help it not look sloppy. In my opinion, it’s just a perfectly loose and relaxed fit.
It is soft, well made, and looks much more expensive than it is. It definitely reminds me of the Free People slouchy sweaters that are 3x the price.
For size reference, I’m wearing a small.
cozy boucle turtleneck sweater in blush/ must have earrings / drusy heart necklace / itty bitty boot cut jeans (plus size jeans) / similar leopard booties
Last week I showed this sweater with cropped girlfriend jeans and leopard booties. This week, I’m wearing it with my favorite boot cut jeans!
This sweater is soooooooooooooooo incredibly soft. It’s a super relaxed fit, and even has a bit of a bat wing design. If you don’t like blousy and oversized, this sweater isn’t for you. But if you do like those things, grab this sweater! I’m wearing the small here and it’s still very roomy. I’m wearing the “light rust” (it appears super orange in this picture, but I do think it’s more of a rust in real life), and it comes in 12 total colors.
swingy turtleneck sweater / must have earrings / drusy heart necklace / itty bitty boot cut jeans (plus size jeans) / similar leopard booties
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A GREAT LEOPARD BLOUSE FROM THE PAST
This blouse is from last year, and I’m so excited that they brought it back! It’s perfect for Spring. I love the material, the fit, and the pattern. I’m wearing a medium.
You can style it several different ways, but here I’ve styled it with regular ol’ blue jeans and wedges.
leopard button up / this year’s version of the Treasure and Bond wedges
I also loved it with my black jeans.
leopard button up/ green mixed shape drop earrings / tortoise shell sunnies (black sunnies) / my favorite black jeans / reversible cognac tote / must have wedges
It’s a really great shirt. Plain and simple. I’ve featured silky leopard tops before, but this is the first time I’d featured a cotton voile. It’s 100% cotton and very lightweight. And get this….it doesn’t seem to wrinkle!
I of course love it here with black jeans, but it will also look great with regular denim and white denim as well! I’m wearing it pretty casually here, but it could be dressed up very easily too.
As I mentioned before, it’s lightweight, so I will wear this blouse all the way into summer. But here’s the deal, I actually consider it a year round shirt because it will be awesome under a blazer or leather jacket!
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READER QUESTIONS
Did you catch READER QUESTIONS on Monday? Click HERE if you didn’t see it!
And I’ve got some more questions from y’all today!
Hi Sheaffer! Does Nordstrom ever request/require that influencers feature a certain item? I remember a while back, every single blog I saw (I look at quite a few less now) featured a Leith bodycon dress. I even saw it here, which surprised me. (You featured it with a denim jacket and said bodycon isn’t your style because you’re always honest like you said.) I also glance around sometimes and see other bloggers featuring your exact amazon recommendations. (There’s one in my IG stories today.) Anyway, I’m just interested in how that works, especially with Nordstrom. Thanks! Ginger
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Hi, Meg! This isn’t a very intellectual answer, but I love watching t.v., going to see movies, and going to dinner with my girlfriends!
As a family, we love going to Top Golf and to the Moviehouse and Eatery. We have some favorite games to play as a family, like Rubik’s Race and Uno Attack, but our very favorite thing to do is go to the ranch together. (Click HERE to get to the post where I shared the history of the family ranch.)
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Hi, Candace! Great question! I received many questions similar to yours and lots of questions asking if I was still a speech therapist, so I’ll answer both questions right now!
When I started the blog, I had no idea that blogs could truly be a business. I just started it because Shay had just started her food blog and she thought it would be fun if we went on a blogging adventure together! After I’d been blogging for about a month or so (I blogged clothes right from the start), a sorority sister from college that was a blogger referred me for an affiliate network. At the time, I didn’t even know what that was, but they contacted me and told me that since I was a new blogger they would check back again in 3 months. 3 months later I had enough of y’all that had already become loyal followers that they were willing to give me a shot!
At first I was working as a speech therapist in the McKinney schools and running the blog at the same time, but it was way too much. I was staying up wayyyyyyyyyy too late and waking up wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too early. My 3 days a week at school were spent seeing kids all day long. And then I had to spend off days writing reports, writing goals, doing progress reports, etc. Managing both work and the blog became next to impossible, so I decided to give the blog a whirl as my full time gig! Doing so allowed me to be more present with my family, so even though I loved my job with the schools, it was the right decision for me.
I continue to pay my dues and keep up my continuing education hours, just in case I ever return to life as an SLP. It was an extremely rewarding job and I loved the kids, families, and teachers I worked with.
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So I totally understand the curiosity, but this is not information that we share. I decided to publish the question because it’s actually one that I receive almost every time that I ask for reader questions, so I thought it might be good to throw it out there that it’s something that we keep private – just as I’m sure your friends and family keep their incomes private as well.
But again, I totally get the curiosity! Blogging is such a crazy thing!
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I get lots of direct messages on instagram about my wedding rings when I do instatories (because I talk with my hands so people always notice my ring), and y’all might be surprised to learn that although my ring is custom, all of my stacking bands are from Nordstrom!
After I got a new ring a couple of years ago (it was for 15 years…just about a year late), we decided my old wedding band didn’t go with the new ring. Luckily, I had 2 Bony Levy stacking rings already at that point, and they looked beautiful stacked with the ring. My rings all had a very delicate and sort of vintage look to them, and I liked how none of the rings in the stack were matchy matchy. So, two stacking bands that I was originally wearing on my right hand were given a promotion to wedding bands!
I was pleased with the look, but I started stalking the Nordstrom site for ring sales because I wanted to either get a new right hand band, or I wanted to move the original bands back to my right hand and get a new stacking band for my wedding set.
Now, here’s the great thing about Bony Levy rings…….rings pop up on sale super frequently. But here’s the deal, when they do, you have to act SUPER FAST, because there is usually only 1 or 2 available.
And listen, I don’t use the word “stalking” lightly. As soon as I would get on the computer each day, I would type “Bony Levy ring sale” into the search bar. Some days there are none, but other days there are a small handful of rings that are anywhere from 40-60% OFF!
Two of my Bony Levy rings I have are no longer in stock, but I do have this simple band and this one from Monica Vinader in the gold/diamond combo. If you love the idea of a stack too, be patient, and stalk the site for sales! I was able to score 1 of my rings for 40% OFF and 2 for 60% OFF! Nordstrom Rack often has a great selection as well. Since I’ve scored several over the years, I now find myself playing around with my stack. I’ll be sure to hop on instastories either today or tomorrow to show you some of my favorite stack combos!
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I bought my first pair of black jeans, but I’m having trouble coming up with outfits. Do you have a post I should check out? – Lindsay
You can click HERE to see the black jeans with a white tee and camo jacket. You can click HERE to see black jeans with a striped tee and military jacket.
Below you will see a picture of what I often refer to as my black jeans uniform. It’s easy to throw on, and it’s made up of pieces that you might already have. This is an outfit that I’ve probably worn at least 20x over the years!
denim jacket / white tee /my favorite earrings / my favorite black jeans / pointy toe leopard flats / super similar reversible cognac tote
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SWEATERS ON SALE
Wednesday’s post was all about a couple of sweaters you need, and they are BOTH ON SALE! Click HERE to get to the post.
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A FRIEND’S MISSION TRIP
This is Lindsay, one of my college besties. Isn’t her family darling?
When I received her Christmas card this year, there was a letter in it letting all of her friends and family know about an exciting trip that her family is going on this summer. Here’s what the letter said:
Josh and I, together with our girls, have decided to go serve in Ethiopia this coming July of 2020. Our desire is to step out of our comfort zone and jump into the culture of Addis Ababa. We will be teaching English and serving lunch to the students attending the school there through the Adera foundation. We will have the opportunity to love on the children in the daycare and play soccer with the students after school is over. We are excited to see what the students teach us about ourselves. We hope to see and feel heart change in ourselves and in Maddie, Grace and Sarah Kate.
There are two things that will make this possible for our family. The first being financial support and the second and most important being prayer.
We can’t wait to see what God has in store for each one of us on this mission.
All our love this Christmas season,
Josh, Lindsay, Maddie (16), Grace (14) and Sarah Kate (10)
I am SO PROUD of Lindsay and her family for following God’s call! They are selling the below bracelets to help fund their trip, and I was hoping some of you might be interested in grabbing a bracelet or two for you and/or members of your family. If you would like a bracelet, please e-mail Lindsay directly at missionedwards5@gmail.com
I would love it if this little community of ours could help Lindsay’s family on their journey to share Jesus!
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That’s all for today! Have a wonderful weekend with your people!
Narci says
Your ring stack is always so pretty! I love it!
Susan Jeffries says
I basically live for your Bachelor commentaries. I hardly ever turn the tv on, but we love the Bachelor. Our daughter is away at college now, so we are taping it and plan to binge watch some weekend soon. Thanks for the intro to Coleen Rothschild. I just bought her eye serum and LOVE it! I am picking up these pads this weekend!!
Ahna @ Hammers N Hugs says
So I have never watched The Bachelor once in my life, and now I am convinced I never will because I cannot possibly imagine being more entertained than I am reading your 10 point recap. I die EVERY TIME. Wondering if the producers would consider overlaying each episode with your running commentary in the background? If so, I’m in. ?
Shay Shull says
Who knew I needed a heart tee this morning? You did!!!
Erika Slaughter says
ABC needs to personally thank you. I tune in every season because of YOUR recaps!!
Kate says
Love your recaps! Reality Steve is Sauk g even he doesn’t have it figured out this season!! Maybe it really is the most dramatic season ever ?
Chastity says
You are wearing some adorable cuffed jeans with the leopard blouse and Treasure and Bond wedges…can you share a link for those??
Sheaffer says
Hi, Chastity! They were KUT FROM THE KLOTH, but they are sold out and have been for about 6 months. So sorry! 🙁
Chastity says
Thank you anyway! I figured something must be up with those. You are always so good about noting everything you show. They look great on you. ?
Kathy says
I am so enjoying your Bachelor recaps and appreciate you taking the time to do it. It’s obvious your previous recaps were very time consuming and taking time away from other more important priorities. I’ve said it before, but you are a very talented writer and although you are not a reader, you need to write a rom-com book. I bet Shay will read and review it for you! Again, thanks Sheaffer, you’re awesome.
Sheaffer says
Such a kind comment, Kathy! Thank you! xoxo
Melissa Tepool says
Do you have a picture in the heart sweater? It comes from China…and I’ve not had good luck with that on amazon!
Sheaffer says
Hi, Melissa! I will have a picture in it on next Friday’s post! xoxo
Kim says
Hello! I am a loyal follower and I have a random question. Remember the bucket bags from Accessory Concierge that you featured in the fall with bag straps? I bought the brown one and I love it. I was just wondering…is it just a fall bag? I want to buy some spring straps but I am wondering if I need a new bag, or if that is a year-round material? If it is a fall bag, could you recommend a spring bag to go with the bag straps?
Sheaffer says
Hey, Kim! I do think it’s more of a Fall bag. I’ll have my eye on some Spring bags. In fact, I’ve already ordered one that I’m hoping to love! I’ll be sure to let y’all know as soon as I find one! xoxo
Lisa Richardson says
Yep, sheer elation was the emotion I had when that champagne washed up on her face like a giant wave. Bwahahahah!!!
XOXO
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Carol says
I’m not sure how it’s possible, but I love your “10 Bachelor Thoughts” almost as much as I loved the full recaps. Several new things are also now sitting in my Amazon cart while I decide if I really need them or not…
Carly says
I know your recaps were crazy time-consuming, but oh my word— you are the best and your Bachelor commentary is my very favorite. My heart is so sad for just the little snippet ?!
Now- Did you think Janice Dickinson looked like Caitlyn Jenner?! It’s all I could see!!
Also- YESSSS to wanting to read spoilers! What in the heavens could have happened?!?!
Sheaffer says
YES! Totally thought that about Caitlyn Jenner too. CRAZY!
Carol says
Yes, yes, yes!!!! Me too!!!!
Cheryl says
OMG Kelsey. How many times did she say, “I’m over it.” She clearly was not over it. And she had the standard response of a Bachelor contestant busted for being mean…she starts crying and bemoaning the questioning of her character. Mere moments ago she was swearing like a sailor. (not that that means you have bad character, I’m just saying)
Also, I was completely grossed out by his mother’s bawling. I already know I’m going to be mad about whatever that is. There is no need for her to be acting like that no matter what. In the immortal words of Elastigirl…”It’s not about YOU!”
Lauren @ The Pizza Monster Mama says
Ugh I know what you mean–I am SO SO SO close to reading Reality Steve!
Bana Janeway says
I feel like it’s important to note on your joke about Demi, when you say: “Is Demi there and declaring she likes boys again?” Demi has been very clear that she is bi-sexual, meaning that she likes both girls AND boys. I encourage you to rephrase and not use her sexuality has a punch line.
Sheaffer says
Good note! I’ll take it out! xoxo
Beth says
I’m here to make a confession. Monday evening I switched channels to the Bachelor from the College Football Championship game for a quick moment. I caught the last minute or so of the Bachelor. Two girls were talking to a lady and I immediately thought, “Oh, there’s Caityln Jenner.” Bahaha….it was Janice Dickinson! I just had a good laugh when I read your 10 Thoughts! I won’t be mean, but….bahaha! Whew, feel better admitting my mistake!
Kim says
your blush joggers and top reminded me to ask you a question. I bought an adorable velvet jogger outfit from Amazon recently and I love it!!! My question is: where do I wear it? It’s too nice to only wear around the house, I won’t feel comfortable wearing it to work or church…..so I assume it just a leisure outfit to wear shopping or a casual dinner out?
Sheaffer says
Hi, Kim! Yes, I totally think that’s where you would wear it. And it would be a perfect movie outfit! Oh, and for travel for sure! xoxo
Nicola says
What do you wear under the cashmere halogen sweater? I hate my t shirt showing through and just wondering if you had any advice. 🙂
Sheaffer says
Hi, Nicola! I don’t wear anything under it! What color do you have?
Nicola says
Royal blue. I like to wear something under my sweaters so I can go longer without needing to dry clean.
Sheaffer says
Hi, Nicola! Hmmmmm….they’re pretty thin, so I’m thinking anything besides a cami will show.
Jaime says
Love your blog and all your posts. You’re basically my go to whenever I am in a shopping mode. Any recommendations for a high impact sports bra? New year goals and all….thanks!
Sheaffer says
Hi, Jamie! Can anybody else comment on this? I’d like a great recommendation too!
Brinkley says
I think Peter’s mom is telling him not to let Hannah B go. In ATFR at the end of Hannah’s season, you could totally tell that she loved Hannah. Lot’s of people are suggesting it’s Madison since they clicked at the vow renewal, but I think it’s Hannah B. Love love love your recaps, and your ten thoughts! Best part of partaking in the trainwreck that is the bachelor/bachelorette franchise…with that being said, know I mean trainwreck in the best way possible, as I can’t stop watching…LOL
Terra Heck says
I’m no hottie but, DANG, Janice Dickerson is looking hella bad.