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J. CREW FRIENDS AND FAMILY SALE
I partnered with J. Crew today to make sure y’all knew about the Friends and Family Event going on right now!
You can shop 30% off until 4/27 with the code SHOPNOW!
If you’ve already got an account, you should be good to go. If not, simply sign in or sign up for J.Crew Passport Program benefits which include free shipping, birthday rewards & more!
I had fun shopping the site last week because I wanted to grab a handful of items to feature. And y’all. I found some really great stuff (some on sale, some not quite yet).
This top and these shorts are BOTH ON SALE!
This long sleeve tunic top is easy, breezy, and fabulous. It’s a lightweight linen blend and classic J. Crew. It is low cut and a tiny bit sheer, so don’t plan on wearing to work unless it’s with a cami. Now let’s talk sizing. I would say that you should definitely size down 1 size and maybe even consider sizing down 2 sizes. I’m in a small here, but I’m actually going to return it for an x-small (feeling confident that it will still be roomy). I think the black is so chic, but it also comes in a pale pink, ivory, and navy. You can see on the site how the lighter colors are quite sheer.
AND Y’ALL. These shorts!!! First, let’s talk about the color. I’m wearing the “crimson cinders” here and think the color is so vibrant and fun! They also come in white, a sandy neutral, and an olive green. Based on other reviews I sized up to a 28, and I’m glad I did. In fact, I feel like I might could even do a 29. They are on the shorter side, so I feel like another size up would give me a little extra room in the waist and a little extra length.
long sleeve tunic top / utility pocket shorts / multicolor hoop earrings / coin toggle necklace / multicolor bracelet set / raffia buckle sandals

And look how I’ve styled the outfit a bit differently here with the statement earrings and the bold turquoise necklace. I’m in love with this whole look.
It appears that this exact necklace is currently sold out :(, but you can find a similar turquoise necklace with better stock (from the same brand) HERE.
long sleeve tunic top / utility pocket shorts / raffia floral earrings / turquoise necklace / multicolor bracelet set / raffia buckle sandals

You might remember the above shorts when I made an outfit plan with them last month.
Everything in the below collage is NOW ON SALE.
peasant blouse / utility shorts / straw tote / grommet sandals / sunglasses / multicolor necklace / turquoise bracelet

Here’s another outfit plan I first shared last month…
Everything is on sale except the denim shorts…
crewneck tee / denim shorts / straw tote / raffia buckle sandals / bucket hat / beaded earrings / sunglasses / turquoise necklace

I have a couple of smocked maxi dresses in my closet already, but I didn’t have a solid black one UNTIL NOW.
This smocked maxi dress is ON SALE and such a great closet staple. It’s incredibly flattering and can easily be dressed up or down. It has spaghetti straps, but they are removable, and it looks great worn strapless as well.
I’m wearing a small here (I knew it would be forgiving because of the smocking), so I would suggest sizing down (I’m typically a medium).
Here I’m wearing it with gold jewelry and wedges….
smocked maxi dress / multicolor earrings / coin toggle necklace / multicolor bracelet set / raffia buckle sandals

… but I’ve styled it down here with a denim jacket and flat sandals.
This would be a great little vacation dress. Wear it on the plane and then head straight to lunch or the beach. (Remember this necklace is sold out, but you can find a similar necklace HERE.)
multicolor earrings / similar denim jacket / raffia floral earrings / turquoise necklace / multicolor bracelet set / raffia buckle sandals

When I tell you I love everything I ordered, I LOVE EVERYTHING I ORDERED.
How darling is this outfit!
Sadly, this top isn’t on sale, but the shorts ARE ON SALE!
This linen boatneck top is light, it’s airy, and it’s perfect for spring and summer. I love the boatneck and the boxy fit, and you know I love the color. I’ll be wearing this top with regular denim, with white denim, with cream denim, and hopefully with an array of drawstring shorts (both solids and patterns).
These navy floral shorts are adorable and now on sale. They have a wide elastic waistband and are obviously incredible comfortable. I love the playful navy floral print, but you can click HERE to see all of the other colors and patterns available. I think they look great paired with this bright top, but I’ve also ordered this lightweight white crewneck beach sweater to style them with for a super casual vibe.
linen boatneck top / navy floral shorts / raffia shoulder bag / raffia floral earrings / turquoise necklace / multicolor bracelet set / raffia buckle sandals

I also wanted to style this blouse with the J. Crew famous linen pants. I’m wearing the “flax” and think they are a perfect neutral, but them come in 9 color options.
Now… I’m not sure if I’m supposed to say this…. but a little birdie told me that these pants are going to go on flash sale on Sunday and Monday… so if you are interested in these pants, you might want to wait just a bit.
I’m wearing the petite medium, but they are a little roomier than I’d like them to be. I actually think I’m going to exchange them for a regular small (I’m 5’4″ with long legs and no torso). I would like them to be a little slimmer and a little longer.
linen boatneck blouse / linen pant / multicolor hoop earrings / coin toggle necklace / multicolor bracelet set / raffia buckle sandals

I also wanted to show the pants styled with the black top from earlier.
I think you can see here that these two pieces paired together look a little too roomy (and maybe even a little sloppy)? I hope that by sizing down to an xs in the top and a regular small in the pants the entire outfit will look a bit more streamlined.
long sleeve tunic top / linen pant / multicolor necklace / coin toggle necklace / multicolor bracelet set / raffia buckle sandals

I also ordered this swimsuit. I think it looks super forgiving, and I can’t think of a better quality in a swimsuit. 🙂
Have y’all seen the review summaries that AI does not on some websites? I love them and find them super helpful. Here’s what people have to say about the swimsuit: Customers are raving about how flattering and versatile this swimsuit is, with its supportive yet comfortable scrunchie fabric and adjustable strap options that let you wear it both strapless or with straps. The design and quality of the fabric have been admired repeatedly, with many describing it as a chic and luxurious choice that effortlessly mimics more expensive brands. In addition, the suit’s true-to-size, comfortable fit and flattering coverage make it a perfect pick for summer outings and vacations. Overall, customers love its modern twist on a classic style at an accessible price.
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I ORDERED THIS SWIMSUIT TOO!
Welp. I ordered this swimsuit. I mean, how could I not. I feel confident that it’s going to be a favorite. IT IS SO FLIPPING CUTE and it’s NOW ON SALE!
The blue, the polka dots, the bandeau, and the little halter straps… I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT IT. The cover up and sunglasses are on sale too!
swimsuit ON SALE / cover up ON SALE / earrings / sunglasses ON SALE / beach tote / Unseen Sunscreen / bracelets / flip flops

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VINEYARD VINES SALE
Carter is in his Vineyard Vines era, so I was PUMPED when this sale came thru my e-mail.
If you spend over $200 (which let’s be honest, is super easy to do at Vineyard Vines), you get 30% OFF!!!! 🙂
Click HERE to shop and use the code BEST.

This tee was the first one to go in the cart. Their graphic tees are pricey, but they are excellent quality. I’m also grabbing him this long sleeve tee and this polo in the navy blue stripe. He doesn’t need any new quarter zips, but 30% OFF makes them so much more affordable.

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SOME SOCIAL THREADS RESTOCKS
This layered crew pullover is a perfect basic and it’s BACK IN STOCK. I wear it allllllll the time. It’s also now available in a new soft pink, but it’s going fast (only 1 size remaining). HURRY!
It’s incredibly comfy and soft. I’m wearing the “light moss” here, but it also comes in clay (a really pretty neutral), butter yellow, and navy. The sweatshirt is super soft and the little crewneck that is peeking out from the neck and the hem really elevate this sweatshirt and will instantly help you look pulled together. I’m in a medium, and it’s a perfectly relaxed fit and roomy fit. A small would definitely fit, but I like the oversized look of the medium. If you don’t want it quite so oversized, size down. It has 44 reviews, and almost every single one of them is 5 STARS,
There are 2 sizes currently available in the sneakers (that initially sold out a couple of weeks ago).
layered crew pullover / denim shorts / multicolor earrings / coin toggle necklace / bracelet stack / Gola sneakers

But although there are only 2 sizes available of the above sneakers, this navy pair has been restocked! I recommend sizing down a 1/2, so cross your fingers that your needed size is still available.

One of my girlfriends has this top. I loved it when I saw her in it and I tried to order it immediately, but it was sold out then. WELL, IT’S BACK BABY!!! (It looks like this might be cute with my red J Crew shorts from above!)

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AVARA SUMMER DROP
Avara had a HUGE SUMMER DROP earlier this week!
As an OU graduate, this red striped collared top was an absolute no brainer for me! It’s lightweight, has a relaxed fit, and the collar and sleeves are a little bit extra (which I love). It looks great worn out as well as with a 1/2 tuck. For size reference, I’m wearing a medium. If between sizes, definitely size down.
These denim shorts aren’t from Avara (they’re from Nordstrom), but they’re soooooooo good. I’m telling you, they are THE denim shorts many of you have been looking for. I’m guessing they will probably be sold out by the time summer rolls around, so you need to grab them now. They have a 6″ inseam, so they provide a good amount of length, but I don’t feel matronly in them at all! I feel covered, but cute. Basically I still feel like a cool and hip mom, while still managing to stay totally age appropriate. They are a slim cut (which makes them flattering), but I love the roominess of the leg opening. I’m wearing my regular size 4.
red striped collared top / red necklace / multicolor bracelet set / denim shorts / raffia buckle sandals

It looks great with cream denim too…
These wide leg cream jeans are adorable and so on trend. But although they’re called “cream”, they don’t lean yellow like many creams do, so I think of them more like an ecru. They’re just a perfect neutral. They’ve got a great amount of stretch, but they still manage to maintain their shape. And although they are definitely a wide leg, I think they are still quite flattering. For size reference, I’m wearing my regular size 4.
red striped collared top / raffia floral earrings / coin toggle necklace / cream wide leg jeans / clear wedges

This embroidered top combines Kelly green with pink, and I was immediately drawn to it. Just like the site says, it’s fresh and feminine! The sleeves have a little bit of volume, and I like that they go down almost to the elbow. For size reference, I’m wearing a small, but I need a medium. The small is too tight across the chest.
green embroidered puff sleeve top / multicolor earrings / coin toggle necklace / multicolor bracelet set / denim shorts / raffia buckle sandals

green embroidered puff sleeve top / raffia floral earrings / coin toggle necklace / cream wide leg jeans / clear wedges

Well, ladies. It’s my favorite green again! This top has an all over eyelet embroidery that is adorable. Be aware that the eyelet is open and the top isn’t lined, but I still don’t feel like I need to wear a cami under it. And the elastic banded hem with the little ruffle trim makes this top extra special. For size reference, I’m wearing a medium.
green eyelet embroidered top/ multicolor earrings / coin toggle necklace / multicolor bracelet set / denim shorts / raffia buckle sandals

green eyelet embroidered top / raffia floral earrings / coin toggle necklace / cream wide leg jeans / clear wedges

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NEW GLASS CONTAINERS
I told y’all last Friday that I had bought new glass storage containers (and shared my happiness about it with y’all), but I hadn’t yet thrown away all my plastic containers.
WELL. I threw them all out on Wednesday, and I’ve gotta tell ya I FEEL INCREDIBLY ACCOMPLISHED AND LIKE THE BEST MOM AND WIFE EVER.
My Tupperware was ROUGH, so it was time.
I know there’s still a lot of other plastics to get rid of, but I do feel really great that we are now storing our leftovers and heating them up in glass vs. plastic. I can’t believe alllll the years we were storing and heating things up in those old plastic things, but it feels really really good to have made the change!
I put this on Facebook, but it’s like that meme that you see that starts out with….
One day you’re running through a field with a bottle of Boone’s Farm…
This is apparently how it ends for me…
and the next thing you know you are absolutely GIDDY about the deal you scored on your new glass storage containers.
LIFE COMES AT YOU FAST Y’ALL. 😉
Here’s the BEFORE picture…
I know. It’s a nightmare.

And here’s the AFTER…
The happiness this picture brings me is completely over the top, but I don’t even care that I sound crazy. 😉 And here’s the deal, it only took me about 10 minutes to throw all of the old containers away, take the new containers out of the box, and place them in their new home. And that 10 minutes has brought me so much JOY.
Doing this has inspired me, and I told Chris that every week for the next two months I’m going to go through one or two kitchen cabinets, throw away (or donate things) we no longer use, wipe down the shelves, and then reorganize each cabinet with the items that remain. I’m going to do it every Tuesday since the trash comes on Wednesday. Tackling the kitchen like this is going to be super do-able… and I’m going to be THRILLED when the entire kitchen is done.

I know I heard from some of you that you bought two sets of the above, but my small family doesn’t need that many containers.
I did however realize that I wanted a handful of larger glass containers for when I’m storing things like chili, large amounts of taco meat, leftover roast, etc.
So I grabbed this set yesterday. I think it will complete the cabinet nicely. 🙂

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COLLEEN ROTSHCHILD NEW PRODUCT ALERT
There’s a new product that launched this week, so I wanted to remind y’all that the code STMT20 will get you 20% OFF of this new product as well as any other single product on the site.
Prep & Hydrate Milky Essence is more than a treatment step, it’s the moment that prepares your skin for everything that follows. This lightweight, milky formula is designed for use immediately after cleansing, when skin is most receptive and in need of balance. It conditions and softens the surface, helping restore suppleness and refine the look of texture.
Prep and Hydrate Milky Essence

Here’s how you use it…

So this is the order of your routine…
Cleanse as usual, then use the Prep and Hydrate Milky Essence to prep your skin for all of your other products!

Remember to use the code STMT20 if you want to give this new prep step a try!
I’ve been using it all week and really like it, but I haven’t had enough time with it yet to give a thorough review.
Oh, I almost forgot to tell you! You will get a free set of these jumbo creaseless hair clips with purchase of the new Prep and Hydrate Milky Essence (while supplies last)! I’ve used them every time I wash my face AND every time I put my makeup on. They don’t leave a crease at all!!! You can see thru the link that they are usually $15, but right now you’ll get them free with purchase with the Prep and Hydrate Milky Essence!

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WEEK IN REVIEW
Monday’s post was all about sales that are now no longer happening, so no need to review that post.
Wednesday’s post was all about dresses… click HERE if you want to see 30 dresses and read all my reviews!

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ONE MORE THING…
Because Mother’s Day is now just around the corner, I thought I would post this again.
Some of the recommendations are pricier than I normally recommend, but I had fun looking at some of the finer things. 🙂 I thought that Mother’s Day was the perfect opportunity to talk about some splurge-worthy pieces. Personally, I really have my eye on the David Yurman heart bracelet and the diamond solitaire stud earrings. Did you hear that Chris? Carter? 😉
LET’S CELEBRATE ALL THE MAMAS, y’all!
1) David Yurman turquoise bracelet / 2) David Yurman heart bracelet / 3) pave diamond coin pendant necklace / 4) Colleen Rothschild body bundle duo / 5) TOMS denim espadrilles / 6) David Yurman blue topaz ring / 7) 14k gold heart pendant necklace / 8) love token pendant / 9) neuLASH / 10) Dior lip gloss / 11) Barefoot Dreams star robe / 12) Kate Spade pajamas / 13) U Beauty Sculpt Neck and Décolleté cream / 14) Tory Burch pale pink tote / 15) Laneige lip mask / 16) jewelry box / 17) heart sunshine pendant necklace / 18) TOMS neutral slide sandals / 19) TOMS leopard sneakers / 20) weighted eye blanket / 21) raffia bag / 22) diamond solitaire stud earrings / 23) Colleen Rothschild hair mask / 24) L’Occitane hand cream

1) David Yurman turquoise bracelet / I don’t currently own any David Yurman pieces, but I’m thinking it’s time to change that. This turquoise bracelet is classic. It’s of course beautiful worn on its own, but it also looks great stacked with other pieces. Click HERE to see all of the colors that are available.
2) David Yurman heart bracelet / Another classic David Yurman piece. The twisted helix sterling silver bracelet is topped with a small 14k gold heart. It’s iconic. I really love this one. Click HERE to see the detail. I truly love this piece.
3) pave diamond coin pendant necklace / This necklace is gorgeous. It’s a bit of a splurge, but it’s special! The pave diamonds are so pretty, and I love the hammered finish. You need to click HERE to see the blingy detailing.
4) Colleen Rothschild body bundle duo / I’m not huge into body creams and lotions, but my mom and sister are both completely obsessed with these 2 products. I gave them both this duo for Christmas, and it seems I’ve now spoiled them. No other body products measure up anymore. It’s these that they have to have! The bundle pricing is $31 OFF, so it makes the duo a great deal.
5) TOMS denim espadrilles / I shared a pair of TOMS platform wedges last month, and so many of y’all loved them! So when TOMS reached out again to ask me to talk about some more of their new spring and summer styles, I jumped at the chance! I think these shoes are super cute (and would totally wear them myself), but I feel like they are absolutely made for my mom! They would be so cute with regular, white, cream, and colored denim. I think they would also be cute with maxi skirts, and my mom loves a maxi skirt moment. Click HERE to see the other colors and fabrics they come in. I love the leopard version too.

AND LADIES! THERE’S A NEW PROMOTION GOING ON, SO CHECK THIS OUT!
If you put $135 worth of items in your cart right now, this 20th anniversary TOMS tote will also appear in your cart at checkout!
It’s a natural canvas, it has an adorable blue striped lining, and it snaps close. It seems like the ultimate everyday bag to me! Take it to the beach, to the gym, to work, on a plane, wherever! It fits a ton, and again, it’s FREE if you have $135 worth of product in your cart.


6) David Yurman blue topaz ring / This ring is stunning. Is it expensive? Yes. But let’s focus on the STUNNING part. And to be honest, I thought it was going to be at least 3x more than it is.
7) 14k gold heart pendant necklace / This is by far the most expensive gift idea on today’s post, but I thought it was gorgeous, so I decided to include it just in case anybody is planning on getting really spoiled this year. 😉 It’s 14k gold and made in Italy. #oohlala
8) love token pendant / “A little token, a lot of love.” Such a sweet sentiment on this lovely gold pendant. I love the shape and the message. I think any mama would be excited to get this!
9) neuLASH / Years ago my sister started using neuLASH. Her lashes were INSANE (like she had to cut them!), so I was finally convinced I had to try it for myself. It wasn’t until this past fall (several months before my high school reunion) that I started using it consistently. AND WOWZA. Conner was right, it took a solid 3 months, but I definitely noticed a HUGE difference in my lash length. In fact, my lashes have recently started hitting my readers. Haha! 🙂 I HIGHLY RECOMMEND this product.
10) Dior lip gloss / Who doesn’t love a new lip gloss! This one has great reviews (I have it in a couple of colors and love it), and there are tons of color options to choose from.
11) Barefoot Dreams star robe / I’ve been screaming and shouting about Barefoot Dreams products since the second year of the blog. WELL. When I saw this adorable robe I knew it would make a perfect gift. AND THEN I SAW IT WAS ON SALE! WooHoo! It comes in blue too.
12) Kate Spade pajamas / Darling. The end.
13) U Beauty Sculpt Neck and Décolleté cream / First of all, I’m so excited to say I have an exclusive code with U Beauty! Use the code SHEAFFER20 for 20% OFF of anything on the site.
So if you’re algorithm is anything like mine, you’ve been seeing this brand all over your feed. The brand is on the expensive side, but all of the before and after pictures I see are absolutely incredible. They sent me some products, I’ve started using them, and this neck cream is what I’m the most excited about. We all know that our necks realllllllllllly show our age, so I’m going to start really paying attention to mine and doing everything I can to prevent and even reverse some aging signs. Now I will say, my neck isn’t really a problem area for me yet, but I want to keep it that way!!! (And I don’t know about your mom, but my mom would be thrilled to receive this on Mother’s Day.)
A targeted serum to visibly lift and smooth skin on the neck, chest, and jawline. The SCULPT Neck + Décolleté Concentrate helps contour and soften the look of fine lines while visibly improving the appearance of thin, crepey skin—for comprehensive, age-defying results.
U Beauty Sculpt Neck and Décolleté cream

14) Tory Burch pale pink tote / A Tory Burch tote as a gift is always a good idea.
15) Laneige lip mask / Y’all know this is a must have (can’t live without) product for me. I put it on every single night before bed. I seriously can’t go to sleep without it.
16) jewelry box / This cute little jewelry box is a super affordable and super functional gift.
17) heart sunshine pendant necklace / This beautiful heart pendant necklace will give you a lot of bang for your buck! Just throw it on a chain you already have and be reminded of your loved ones all day long.
18) TOMS neutral slide sandals / I grabbed these for myself and think they’re awesome. I am however going to return them for a 1/2 size up, so keep that in mind if ordering for yourself! They also come in brown, black, leopard, and an almond crochet. You might remember that I just got these platform wedges recently, and I love the sporty vibe. They are incredibly comfy, and I love the height they give.
You might remember these buckle wedge sandals I first showed a couple of weeks ago. They are insanely comfortable, very easy to walk in, and I love the height they give me! I’m wearing my regular 6 1/2, but I’m actually thinking that sizing up a 1/2 size might be a good idea.

19) TOMS leopard sneakers / These are on sale and so sooooooo good. I happen to love the leopard, but if leopard isn’t your thing, there are plenty of other color options to choose from.
20) weighted eye blanket / This was given as a Favorite Thing at Shay’s annual Favorite Things party two years in a row! It was hysterical because this year Jeni gave it to everybody and was like “This is one of my very favorite things ever. I love it so much.”. And then Lori was like “I gave this to y’all last year.” Hahahahaha! Well, safe to say, Jeni really loved it. 🙂
21) raffia bag / This is what a perfect summer bag looks like to me. It only has 2 reviews so far, but they are both 5 stars.
22) diamond solitaire stud earrings / Bling is my love language. I think these blingy earrings might belong in my ears. They come in both gold and silver, they have 21 reviews, and all but 1 reviewer gave them 5 STARS!
23) Colleen Rothschild hair mask / I’m sad to see that the hair mask is currently sold out. But like I’ve said before, don’t sleep on Colleen Rothschild hair care products. THEY WILL CHANGE YOUR HAIR. And I’m telling you, you will notice a difference immediately. Give them a try right now during the BUY MORE SAVE MORE SALE. Use the code STMT20 to get 20% off all single products on the site.
24) L’Occitane hand cream / Again, I’m not really into hand cream, but my mom sure is. This one is thick, creamy, and luxurious.
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That’s all for today, y’all! Have a wonderful weekend with your people!



Kathy says
You always look stunning in black! Love the black top and the red shorts and the black dress.
Sheaffer says
You’re the sweetest, Kathy! Thank you so much!!! xoxo