that I was a WALKING and TALKING MUST HAVE.
Well, you can’t say I’m not committed to my MUST HAVES.
😉
(Remember that this shirt runs big, so order 1 size down. For size reference, I’m wearing an x-small.)
(I LOVE these! Mine just came in the mail and they are perfection! However, the “clean” pair seems to run a bit smaller than the distressed pair. For size reference, I’m normally a “27”, but I ordered a “28” in these.)
*plus size HERE
(These do not come in 1/2 sizes. The reviews say to order a 1/2 size up, and I agree.)
similar, but in resin HERE (and 40% off!)
FREE RETURNS.
It doesn’t matter if your order is $5 or $500, the shipping is free AND the returns are free.
Some people don’t understand what I mean when I say “the returns are free”.
And I like stupid easy.
Two more things before you go…
1)
THESE lip glosses were being handed out at the happy hour.
They are Nordstrom lip glosses.
How in the world did I not know that Nordstrom had their own lip gloss?
Their own lip gloss that is FABULOUS by the way.
Super shiny, and not sticky at all.
And here’s the best part….it’s CHEAP.
And it comes in lots of beautiful colors.
Seriously, get 2. You’d be crazy not to.
the top color is raspberry / the bottom color is dandy
I love both of them, but I REALLY love the Dandy.
2)
On Friday, I headed to Nordstrom to exchange THESE boots for a different size.
I’d ordered a 6, but they were too small.
So, I planned on just taking them back to the store and exchanging for the 6 1/2.
Well, I tried on the 6 1/2, and they were just a tad too big (the heel moved up and down).
I was so sad.
Like really really sad.
I mean, aren’t they fab?
I loved them (still do), but my feet just seemed to be in between sizes.
I HAD JUST JUMPED ON THE BOOTIE TRAIN people and I LOVED THESE booties!
As I was lamenting my bad fortune due my stupid size 6 1/4 feet, THESE caught my eye.
And I heard a voice in my head saying how she had a pair last year and loved them so much that she was buying the 2 other colors this year. I’m looking at you Sarah Whitaker Krepps.
And y’all.
Holy cute AND comfortable Batman.
OH. MY. HEAVEN.
I’m not sure what I’m more excited about.
The cute level.
Or the comfort level.
Because both are off the charts.
I think it goes without saying that they came home with me.
I cannot wait to style these all year long!
Click HERE for these TOMS booties.
And if you doubt their comfort level. Just read a couple of the reviews and you too will be a believer.
(Just fyi: The signature TOMS logo is stitched on the back heel of these booties. I thought it would bother me, but it doesn’t at all.)
AND LOOK HOW CUTE THEY ARE WITH THE VIGOSS CUFFED JEANS!
And if for some reason you’re not a TOMS person, or if you want a different color (like a very pretty dark grey), you can also check out THIS pair from Clarks. Also with great reviews.
Distressed cuffed jeans HERE
Non-distressed cuffed jeans HERE
If you order from Stella and Dot, there are some September specials!
And today is the last day to enter the contest for the Stella and Dot Sutton necklace.
Make sure head to Friday’s post HERE for my checklist.
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Mix and Match Mama says
I own all 3 of those "must have" items :). What in the world would I do without you?!?! And your Tom wedges, flipping adorable!
Anonymous says
I havet the must have shirt in black and purple and I love it!!! I have worn it with white capris in the summer and can't wait to wear it with jeans and boots in the fall!
Mary says
Sheaffer, I really want these in the cheetah print, but am wondering about the sizing? I buy my regular Toms 1/2 size smaller than my regular shoe size, but how do these run for sizing? Thanks! 🙂
Sheaffer says
Hi Mary! Great question! I normally buy the canvas flats 1/2 or a full size smaller…but these ran true to size and a 6 1/2 was perfect on me!
xoxo,
Sheaffer 🙂
Mary says
As far as those cute boots that are a little big, could you try some insoles? Might be just enough to keep them from slipping….
Jackie W. says
Yay! So happy you got the Tom's booties so I can take styling cues from you! Here's what I'm wondering….socks. Do you wear a low sock and cuffed jeans? Or a taller cute patterned sock with cuffed jeans, or skinny jeans scrunched above the bootie? I haven't had a chance to play with them yet as it's still in the 90's where I live and I'm sure you will have lots of cute ideas. Can't wait to see!
Danielle says
It's the must-have outfit! Love them all paired together. Such a great look. Those Tom's booties are so cute too. So many great options 🙂
Mod Commonplace says
LOVE this! I own one of the must-haves…can't wait to add the rest!
If you love Stella and Dot, stop by my new giveaway for the Gilded Arrow Bracelet!
http://www.moderncommonplacebook.com/stella-dot-fall-2013-sneak-peek/
Erin says
Love my crystal stretch bracelet, but I'm still waiting on the must have shirt in black. I ordered it during the anniversary sale and knew it would be on back order. I'm fine until today when you post this where you're wearing it!!!! I also just got the Vigoss distressed jeans with the black/white stitching down the side. They came in last week and should go well with the must-have shirt! The distressed has me a little stressed though . . . the one hole under the knee has the strings just hangin' there. Do I cut them off or let them hang!?!?! I've never had full on holes!
Sheaffer says
Hi Erin! I hadn't thought about trimming the strings (because they don't bother me), but I think that trimming them is a great idea if they are a little too distracting for you!
And I'm totally kicking myself for not getting the jeans with the stitching down the side before they sold out of my size. You're right, they would look awesome with the MUST HAVE shirts!
xoxo,
Sheaffer 🙂
Erin says
You can still get them . . .
http://www.6pm.com/vigoss-skinny-jagger-side-arrow-embriodered-in-dark-wash-dark-wash
🙂 Erin
Alison @ Get Your Pretty On says
Super cute outfit! I love every. single. thing. Those wedge booties are really great too. They look super comfy!
StacyHudson says
I have those Tom wedges and they ARE to die for. I also thought the Toms label would bug me…but who cares…it's behind me, right? HA!
maria maria says
I am normally a small, so want to order an x-small of the must have shirt, but am curious, how long is it on you? particularly on your backside? and for reference how tall are you? I have a long torso, and am 5'8", so am considering moving up to the small, but don't want it to be too baggy.
Jen Pogue says
Your "must have" outfit is too stylish!!! I just took back those Toms bootie wedges because I couldn't see myself actually wearing them over some of my other boots. But, seeing you in them makes me second-guess myself. Hummmm….
Sheaffer says
Hi Jen! Do you have the vigoss cuffed jeans? If you do, then I think you would wear these all the time!!!!
Erin says
I just purchased your "must-have" shirt – and you are right…I LOVE IT! But, I went ahead and ordered my regular size (instead of sizing down) and I don't think the smaller size would have worked! So, for me, it was true to size! Can't wait to wear it with some leggings and boots!
{Hi Sugarplum!} says
You look adorable in your happy hour outfit!!!
Lisa Sipka says
OK, fine, I don't normally comment BUT. I am wearing the Must Have cousin and the Must Have wedges in putty. I have the Must Have jeans in distressed cuffed, but they are too casual for work, so sadly I'm not 100% Must Have, but almost!
I doubted you on the Must Have shirt, I have to admit. I just didn't get it. I was at Nordy on Friday (very sad I didn't see you, and I was looking!) and I saw the cousin on sale $34 and bought 2. I love them! Super comfy, super cute! And I even think I like it better than the must-have shirt. The placket in front is perfect.
I will never doubt you again.
Sheaffer says
So sweet Lisa! I'm so glad you are loving everything!
xoxo,
Sheaffer 🙂
Funny in My Mind says
I have the jeans and bracelet and striped sweater and adore them all. I ordered the wedges a few months ago and was super excited! When they arrived, they were cheap looking, tight and felt like I was walking on rocks. Did I get a dud pair? Maybe. So I am the only hater but everything else has been positive and your blog still makes me happy!
Keep up the good work!
Sheaffer says
What? Walking on rocks? I'm thinking you must have gotten a CRAZY pair!!!! The wedges are literally like walking on clouds! So sorry they didn't work for you.
xoxo,
Sheaffer 🙂
Sarah E @ theteacherswife.com says
i can see why your must have outfit is a must have- it looks great! I'm still working on building up my fall staples (since I've been in maternity clothes for the past couple of fall seasons), but I actually had a question statement necklace recommendations. Would you recommend going with a gold or something like that for more versatility? I saw some cute ones with more color, but want to start with 1 staple for fall (and will add more as the seasons goes on) and wasn't sure if I should stick with a metal. I'd love to know your thoughts on building the statement necklace staples for fall!! 🙂
smk053078 says
I wanna go to a blogger happy hour! 🙂 Yep, you are a walking & talking MUST HAVE kind of lady!! Those TOMS booties are ADORABLE!!!
kristinwithani says
I think the Nordy's employees just cheer when they see you coming. I mean, they do have the world's best customer service!
I had a dedicated fave in the intimates dept for years. She left to start a company of bras and swimsuits for women with prosthetics and/or reconstruction. I mean, you can't fault her for that! I'm so happy for her and her new customers. BUT they haven't replaced her well at all. It's been 3 years and I have yet to have a good fitting or good experience in that department.
Otherwise, I'm a Nordy girl too. I grew up with my grandmother taking me there for lunch on Saturdays.
Kathy Stevens says
I don't know if the Pleione Mixed Media Roll Sleeve Top is the same as the Pleione Mixed Media shirt, they look the same to me. The mixed media shirt is currently on sale with a ton of colors…
http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/pleione-mixed-media-shirt/3605748?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&contextualcategoryid=0&fashionColor=Purple+Chute&resultback=265&cm_sp=personalizedsort-_-searchresults-_-1_1_B
Sheaffer says
Hi Kathy!
It's not exactly the same. It's similar, but the cut is a bit more "billowy", and there is detail down the front of this one that is not down the front of the MUST HAVE. Still, it's a super cute shirt and at 40% off it's a great deal!
xoxo,
Sheaffer 🙂
Tiffany {A Touch of Grace} says
Cute as always lady!
For those unsure about the must haves: I have the wedges (in 2 colors) and the jeans (2 pairs of Vigoss) and I love them all. I'm about to go get the shirt as well. Love it! I also bought the crystal bracelet for my mom during the sale for Christmas (oh yes, for Christmas) and I am getting the Sanibel pendant for myself here shortly! Listen to Sheaffer, she knows what she's talking about ladies!
Anonymous says
So true about Nordstrom returns! Sadly we don't have one within 4 hours of us (sigh), but I order from them ALL the time, and returns could not be easier! Speaking of which, I am anxiously awaiting the must have shirt in grey rabbit. It's on back order (sigh again), and I want to start wearing it ASAP upon arrival. I have been trying to figure out jewelry to compliment the grey. I bow to your fashion expertise…..help, please!!!! 🙂
Sheaffer says
Hi there! I'm loving yellow and grey together right now, so I'm thinking yellow and anything gold. Also, any jewel tones really would look fab!
Hope this helps!
xoxo,
Sheaffer 🙂
Mana says
The Toms Label can be removed. All you need is a Seem Ripper and tiny tweezers, and your set.
Mana
Fashion and Happy Things
Staci DeGregori says
You should try those Foot Petals called Heavenly Heels–for those in between sizes!! Keeps your heel from slipping!!
http://www.zappos.com/foot-petals-tip-toes-2-pairs-heavenly-heels-2-pairs-and-pressure-points-3-pairs-pack-denim-floral-black-iris-silver-rose?ef_id=UYwQzgAAAc@HrJ3P:20130910000222:s&zfcTest=fcl%3A0
PS Love your blog!! XO
Laura says
My must have shirt arrived today and I absolutely love it!! It is sooo soft!! I have the Vigoss jeans in distressed. Two outta four ain't bad! Thanks and I love your blog!!
Morgan Weller says
I am not a wedge person. Ever. Like never. I hate them with a passion. Mainly because any time I've ever tried to wear them, I break at least one ankle. Fall every time. Now….given that I can't keep my ankle in a fused position when I'm wearing them, they are also extremely uncomfortable. But…….I am reformed as least with the must haves. Because I love them so much. So so much. They are so comfortable and are basically the cutest things ever. The putty color is absolutely divine. I seriously can't handle how much I love that color.
So if you are on the fence….take it from me….the girl that can wear 9 inch heels but not wedges…..I heart the snot out of those wedges!!! I even wore them when we went on a garden tour. Apparently this garden was a lot bigger than most and had all kinds of old time stuff, basically it was in Amish country so it had all kinds of different little homes and stuff you could go through. None of that explanation makes sense…but what I'm getting at is that it was a big freaking garden….with dirt roads and all these different houses you had to go in and out of and was like touring Abe Lincoln's cabin in Salem. Like going to a museum or hiking a mountain….and I wore the wedges when tennis shoes would have probably been a better choice. AND MY FEET WERE FINE ALL DAY. Didn't even hurt. No blisters. Nothing.
Go buy them. Now.
Sheaffer says
Morgan! I totally laughed out loud several times when reading your comment! (I would have responded directly to you, but your settings are set to "no reply".)
And yes. PUTTY FOR PRESIDENT!
xoxo,
Sheaffer 🙂
Linda says
I just received the "must have" shirt…. very wrinkled… tried to iron them out but kept finding wrinkles. How did you avoid that? I love the fit and feel of the shirt but am I going to be constantly dealing with rayon wrinkles?
Sheaffer says
Hi Linda! Your settings are set to "no reply", so I hope you check back here for your answer. I haven't had the wrinkle problems. I had them shipped to me, but they arrived in great shape. I've worn them both once, and both still looked good at the end of the day. Sorry I'm not more help here!
xoxo,
Sheaffer 🙂
The Every Day Extraordinary says
I own all the items (plus more) since I found you in August. Your voice is quite convincing. Your style way cute and I've been happy with every single item. Happy here:))))
Anonymous says
I have a question. I LOVE the jeans BUT I buy double zero's & still have to have them taken up, UGH! Won't go into why~medical prob & still trying to gain weight (female issues~TMI)!!! What could you suggest???? Think the smallest size would fit or fit taken up??? Also, I am in LOVE w/the Wedge Heels in the Putty color….I wear a 5~6, fat foot so it depends…..what size would you recommend me to order on both??!!! I REALLY want to get both!!!
I appreciate your help!!!
Have a Blessed Day!!!
Sheaffer says
Hi there! Hmmmmm. Okay, so here's what I would say. I would order the smallest size in the jeans and cross your fingers that they work. Since Nordstrom has the best return policy out there, it's worth the risk that you are going to have to send them back (for free!). Concerning the wedges, I would go with the 6. All reviewers suggest to order a 1/2 size up if in between sizes.
Hope this helps!
xoxo,
Sheaffer 😉
Bella says
I buy 00's and the 24's fit me okay, a little loose in the waist but oddly fit well every where else!
Traci Little says
I love that necklace in your first pic!
http://www.ordinaryinspirations.blogspot.com/2013/09/just-like-so.html
Natalie ODonnell says
1. You are awesome!
2. I have the putty wedges and have gotten compliments on them every time I wear them. I literally wore them for a week straight. They are like walking on clouds and I love them!
3. I'm buying the distressed jeans STAT!
4. Bought the army green jacket from Nordstom junior department today.
Anonymous says
Thank you for your help w/the jean size & also shoe size! I'm going to order the smallest size of jeans & get the 6 in the wedges!!!! Thank you very much for answering me!!!! Love your Blog~your a GOOD Fun Mess (that IS a compliment)!!! You make me laugh reading your Blog & love the info of sales/info on clothes!!!!! Glad you are
doing this Blog~Thank You!!! Have a Blessed Weekend!!!!
Krafty-K says
I just got my order in today! The must have distressed jeans, the vigoss boot cut with the flap pockets (love!), the kut from the kloth jeans & the puty wedges! Must have shirt hasn't arrived yet but loving my jeans! Thanks!
Kelly Rose says
As far as your fall style staples "several great basic shirts." Can you share some examples of your favorites and where you find them? Thanks so much!