Yesterday was an extremely hard day for our family. We had to say goodbye to our precious Scout. Chris, Carter, and I are all broken-hearted. Still, we feel blessed to have had 12 amazing years with the absolute sweetest dog on the planet, and we are forever grateful that he was a part of our family. I won’t share all of the details, but we first took him to the vet on Friday morning, and after lots of iv’s and tests, we determined on Tuesday morning that it was time to let him go. We miss him terribly but find peace in knowing he’s no longer in pain. Scout was truly the perfect dog for our little family. This picture was taken about a year ago, and it will always be one of my favorites
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I went through hundreds of pictures yesterday, and the three of us took turns sharing lots of our favorite memories. I didn’t have the energy to go through the pics pre-Carter (Scout was our first born after all), but I hope to share some of those another time. I literally could have included over 200 pictures, but I decided to just show some of our real highlights together.
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And this was taken Thursday night, before we realized something was wrong on Friday morning. Things changed so quickly.
Looking back through these pictures, I have no doubt that Scout knows he was a treasure to us. And I certainly see how much he loved us too. We Love You, Scouty Bud. You will always be a member of our family.
Susan Jeffries says
Oh my gosh I am so heart broken for your family. I know you loved this precious dog so much. We also have an only child and we see our two labs as her brothers – very much family members. I will pray for peace for your family – especially your son who has lost his best buddy. Blessings, Susan
Mary Glenn says
Oh Schaefer I don’t know you but for your wonderful blog…but I am heartbroken for you and thinking of you and your family. My first dog was a beautiful Golden named Shannon and she was the treasure of my childhood. You are in my prayers!
Mary Glenn says
Sheaffer (dang autocorrect)!
Xoxoxo
Erika Slaughter says
What a sweet post dedicated to Scout! So many cute pictures. There’s no doubt in my mind that he knew he was treasured. I’ve been thinking and praying for you guys. You’ve been on my heart. XOXO
Shay Shull says
And now, I’m crying! Sheaffer! I thought I was all cried up on your behalf for Scout, but I’m doing it again. I’m so sorry friend. Love you.
Erika says
I’m so sorry to hear this! I know how you feel. We just lost our dog, Lucy, a black lab, in November, after 12 years too. I loved seeing the pictures of Scout. He looked so sweet. Sending you hugs.
Susan says
Oh Sheaffer, I’m so sorry! Pets truly are a part of the family! He will always be your first baby!!
Karen Nadherny says
I am so sorry for your loss! I know how hard it is to let them go.
Tamara says
I’m so sorry to hear about Scout. My heart hurt looking through the pictures. I hope Carter is doing okay.
Kellyann says
Oh my goodness, I am so heartbroken for you and your family. Things really can change in an instant, can’t they? Prayers for you and your family.
Sarah says
Oh, Sheaffer, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Scout. I know he was truly a member of your family. Prayers for all of you!
Narci says
Scout, we will miss you so much! You were the sweetest dog ever! We love you, Sims family! Xoxo
Alison says
Sheaffer, I am so very sorry for your loss. I know firsthand how hard it is to make that decision to let your pet go over the rainbow bridge. Thank you for sharing these pics with us. You can tell Scout was a well loved member of your sweet family- what a cutie pie. He is free from all distress and at peace. Prayers for you all.
Meredith says
I’m so sorry, I can imagine your heartbreak in losing precious Scout. He was obviously very loved!
Jane says
I’ve been reading your blog for some time now, but never posted. This post made me cry and I can tell that Scout was a very beloved member of your family. Keeping you all in my thoughts.
Tara C says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a furbaby is so difficult.
Rebecca Jo says
I am so sorry. I tear up every time I read about someone loosing their fur baby.
They hold a special part of our hearts – always.
kris says
This post made me cry 🙁 I’m so sorry for your loss.
Allison says
I am so sorry for your loss! It is heart wrenching! I will be praying for your family especially Carter. it is evident that Scout knew how much he was loved.
Jean says
After the passing of our 14.5 yr old yellow lab Topper, October 15 our boys age 17, 21 and 25 were devastated. He was their partner in crime. I read right after his passing that a dogs soul leaves the world as easily as it enters…there is no struggle like humans have. I hope that helps a little….give yourselves time to grieve.
Carrie says
Oh noooooo, I am so sorry- tears rolling down my cheeks as I comment. My 11 yr old golden is sitting next to me, head in my lap– a great reminder to never take him for granted. Sending you hugs…
Cynthia says
Sheaffer, my heart is broken for you and your family…our sweet fur babies just do not live long enough. Cherish those special memories of Scout. Thinking of you and sending virtual hugs from Washington, DC
Meg says
So sorry! Praying!
Therese says
I’m so sorry for your loss. I love in the last picture that Scout appears to be smiling! What a sweet dog.
KimW says
Such sweet pictures … I am so sorry for your loss.
Shelley @ Calypso in the Country says
My heart breaks for you. I am so sad to read your news. Dogs become true members of our families and it is so hard to say goodbye. I am sure Scout knew how much you loved him. We have a 4 year old golden and they truly are special dogs. I am so sorry for your loss.
Take care,
Shelley
Jenny says
I am crying for you guys! It is very clear from the pictures that Scout was loved dearly. I am so sorry for your loss.
Shaya Fitzgerald says
Oh Sheaffer! That is heartbreaking. I want you to know your pictures of Carter with Scout touched my heart. I have a 6 year old little girl and while we were dog people before her and knew we would be again your pictures helped to convince me it should be sooner rather than later. Our little English Bulldog puppy has been home 3 weeks ago and Mira Love is over the moon. I hope she has a buddy in him like Carter had in Scout. Praying for peace and comfort for you all. XO
Liz says
A lovely tribute to your sweet family member. Am so sorry for your family’s loss.
Casey says
Oh I’m so sorry! Praying for all of you! We have a twelve year old Labrador that was our first baby also. The picture with a pacifier in his mouth is so funny! Looks like a wonderful dog for your son.
Kristin says
Those are just some of the sweetest pictures! You can tell just how much he was loved and how much he loved you in return. We have two dogs of our own, and I honestly feel like all dogs are “therapy dogs!” God bless you as you walk through this time of grief.
Ani says
I am so sorry for your loss… He will forever be a treasured member of your family. Those are the sweetest pictures. Hugs to you all.
Diane says
Oh, I’m so sorry to hear this sad news. I always loved when you posted pictures of Scout as I’m a huge dog lover. I know how difficult it is to lose one, especially after so many years. Sending hugs and prayers of healing and for you and your family.
Kristin says
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. Scout looks like an incredibly sweet and loving dog. Those pre-baby animals are truly more like children than pets, and I share your pain. Thank you for sharing the sweet photos.
Lori S H says
What a beautiful tribute to such an important part of your family. My heart goes out to you. This really got me. He sure looked so well loved. Hugs!!
cheryl says
Carter and Scout looked like best friends.
kimberlee nelson says
I loved seeing pics of Carter and Scout. Just a precious friendship!! Tears are streaming down my face as I read this beloved post. You did the most kindest thing you could do for your fur baby so he wouldn’t suffer. Praying for your family as you heal.
Evan says
I’m so sorry for the loss of Scout. He truly was a member of the family. We lost our sweet Liberty in November after 11 1/2 years (she was our first baby too) and it is so hard to lose such a big part of your life. Prayers for your family.
heidi says
Oh I am so sorry for your loss. When I read the first line I got a lump in my throat. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Xxxx
Karen says
People that have not had the gift of having a pet truly miss out and may not understand that they become a family member as much as any human could. I’m so sorry for your loss, he truly looked like he loved you as much as you all loved him. Thank you for sharing some of your sweet pictures, it looks like he loved to wiggle his way in wherever he could. :o) The one with the pacifier in his mouth made me laugh. Warm wishes.
Amanda says
Shaeffer, I’m so sorry to hear this!! I always loved seeing your Carter and Scout pics. What a special dog!!
Lisa says
What a beautiful post and what a special dog he was! The pictures made me cry. Our animals are truly our babies and so many of us share in your heartbreak. How lucky you were to have 12 years with him!
Charlene Frollo says
My heart is breaking for y’all. It’s obvious Scout was a beloved first child, and a best friend to Carter. May the Lord bless you and your family and give you peace during this difficult time. “Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” -Alfred Lord Tennyson
Lauren says
I am so sorry for your loss! I cried reading this and seeing all the sweet pictures of precious Scout!! My heart breaks for you! Losing a family pet is so difficult! Your family will be in my prayers! Lauren
Susan says
🙁 So sorry for your loss. We do only get them for such a short time!
Diane says
I’m so sorry to hear this. My heart hurts for your family (especially for your little guy). We have a 10 1/2 year old boxer and I’m already dreading this day. Dogs bring so much joy to our lives but so much sadness when they’re gone.
Jan Fisher says
Sheaffer, I am so sorry to hear this news! I love seeing all the pictures of your precious Scout and Carter. I just know how heartbroken Carter must be. Thinking of you all! Hugs….
Jenn says
It’s so amazing the impact these sweet animals have on our lives and scout clearly was treasured!!! Prayers to you and your family xoxo
Linda says
So very very sorry, Sheaffer. Sweet, precious goldens leave love in our hearts that will forever be there… It’s just so hard to let them go. Tears and prayers for your family.
Renee says
Aww, I am so sorry. It must be especially tough for little Carter since they grew up together. Wishing you peace and happy memories.
Courtney says
I am sooo sorry for your loss! I have a 10.5 year old goldie and 2 little boys-I totally understand the bond and how much they are truly a part of the family. Thinking of you and sending prayers and hugs.
Coleen says
Golden are the BEST. Highly recommend the children’s book Dog Heaven by Cynthia Rylant – it is the best for this hard time.
Nancy Myers says
I’m so sorry for your family. It’s nice that you have so many great pictures of him.
Beth says
So sorry for your loss Sheaffer ~ Scout seems like he was the perfect sweet boy and I know you will all miss him.
Reba says
So sorry for your family. I’ve always loved your pictures of Carter and Scout.
Genevieve Graham says
I am so sorry for your loss. Doggy heaven just received another angel 🙁
Rebekah says
Sheaffer, I am so, so sorry for your loss. I am crying as I look at these sweet pictures, because I know the love of a dog is so special and unlike anything else! I also know how much that precious dog meant to all of you, but especially Carter. Both of them were blessed to have each other. Take comfort in the fact that Scout had a life filled with joy and love – he certainly knew he was family. I know God is pleased with the care and respect that you gave to his creation, and he will hold your tears in a bottle and bear your burdens. Prayers for comfort and hope in Jesus – I am so, so sorry.
Abbie says
Sheaffer, I am so sorry your family had to say goodbye to Scout. He’s a handsome fella, and it’s obvious he is loved and treasured. I said goodbye to my sweet Tana Jane (shepherd mix) last April, and I know how difficult it is. I cried for you this morning, and I hope you are taking comfort in knowing that you provided a fun home filled with love for your buddy. Hugs to your whole family.
Heather says
Oh Sheaffer, now, I am over here crying at my desk. I had a golden growing up and they truly are the sweetest and best dogs. Carter loved Scout so much; their bond was truly precious. Praying for your family!!
nichole says
Oh Sheaffer – hugs to you and your family!
Lori says
Oh no….I am so so sorry. Tears here… I’ve always loved the pictures of your little guy and his buddy. My heart breaks for him….and you. Such beautiful pictures of your beloved Scout! You can tell that he was loved and that he certainly loved your little family.
Darcy says
Oh, I’m so sorry. Losing a dog is so hard – the special ones really do become a member of the family.
Sharon Scott says
When we lost our dog, Opie, quite quickly a few years ago this quote really got to me. Hope it helps you and your family as well.
“I have sometimes thought of the final cause of dogs having such short lives and I am quite satisfied it is in compassion to the human race; for if we suffer so much in losing a dog after an acquaintance of ten or twelve years, what would it be if they were to live double that time?” Walter Scott
Melanie says
Dogs really are our best friends. I have to admit, I laughed through some of these photos (Scout with the paci) and felt total sweetness and a nostalgia with Scout’s head lying anywhere near baby Carter. I know how hard it is to lose a pet- they’re another member of the family. Sweet thoughts coming to you guys.
Sarah says
I couldn’t get past the first sentence, because we put our cat down yesterday as well and I’m still working hard on not crying all the time. I feel your same pain and it’s awful. ❤️
Emmy says
Beautiful pictures. He for sure knew how loved he was.
Michelle says
Oh no! I am so sorry for your family’s loss! The pictures are priceless and will be precious reminders of your dear Scout in the future! Hugs!
Erin says
Bless your hearts! I’m so sorry to hear about Scout. Through tears, I laughed out loud at the picture of Scout with the paci. I can tell he was a wonderful companion.
Sabrina says
I am so sorry about the loss of your sweet dog, Scout. Your pictures of him always show how much he is loved and a part of your family. Praying for you and your family. XO
Meredith says
This makes me so sad and happy at the same time. What a precious dog! I love every one of these pictures, but my very favorite is the one with Carter in his cowboy hat and Scout’s tongue sticking out! LOVE! I’m so sorry!
Suzy says
I am very sorry for your heartfelt loss. These pictures captured how lucky your family was to have such an awesome dog (and Scout, of course, blessed to belong to a loving, caring family). A suggestion that down the road (when your heart aches a bit less) you check out Shutterfly. I had a blanket made for each of my 3 kids with our beloved dog’s picture on it. They always have him with them even away at college. Dogs are a gift from heaven that sadly don’t stay long enough with us. Thinking of you and your family.
MelanieL says
So sorry to hear this. What sweet pictures…hugs to you all.
Micah TJeerdsma says
Oh my word. My heart and prayers go out to y’all! That was definitely an unexpected morning cry for me. He was such a sweet pup. I’m so glad you have so many wonderful memories with him!
Sandy says
I am so sad for you all and I have to tell you this made me cry. We have an almost 12 year old golden, Bentley, who looks just like Scout. We thought we were losing him last week, but with some meds he is back, but we realize that it is day to day right now and we will be where you are any time now ? My heart breaks for you all because I was devastated last week. Sending lots of prayers your way for comfort and peace knowing he had a wonderful life with you all!
Holly says
Scout looks like he’s smiling in your last picture! Both your boys look happy! You gave him a great life.
Elizabeth says
So sorry for your loss- what sweet pictures of your first “baby”! Blessings.
Wendy says
I’m just heartbroken for you & your sweet little family. I so loved seeing the pics of Scout & Carter. Just know you’ll meet up over the Rainbow Bridge! Please take good care of yourselves! ?
Jennifer Ericksen says
I heart breaks for you and your family. I too know the pain of loving and losing a beloved pet family member. Scout was a beautiful dog who clearly lived a very full and happy doggie life. Wish our furry family stayed with us longer.
Jody says
So sorry! Precious pics! Goldens are the best!
Rebecca Stromquist says
Seriously the sweetest pictures ever. We’re cat people but those pictures make me want to get a dog!! I’m so sorry for your loss. He was obviously so incredibly loved!!
Ginger Butz says
I am so sorry for your loss. It was very apparent he was loved, and he certainly knew that. What a wonderful life you provided for him, he is a lucky pup!
Karen says
So sorry to hear of your loss. He looked like a wonderful dog. My sympathies.
Casey says
Oh Sheaffer, my heart is broken for you. It is clear that Scout knew he was very, very loved! Will keep you and your family in my prayers today.
Erin says
My heart is breaking for you. A year ago to almost the day we had to say goodbye to our yellow lab. As a mom of two little girls. My heart broke even more for their loss. My seven year old cried so hard and I couldn’t fix it with a kiss. I am so sorry that you and your family said goodbye to such a wonderful dog.
Rebecca S says
Oops would you please delete my earlier comment? I didn’t mean to put my last name on there. My heart goes out to you and your family!!
Sarah Goldsberry says
I’m so sorry for the loss of Scout. The pictures are adorable and hopefully will help you all be able to enjoy the memories you have together.
Angela says
So sad to hear this news! What great pictures you have of your 2 boys and their times shared together!! Praying for you and your family!
Rust says
You’ve deeply touched my heart. So sorry for your immense loss.
Jenny Null says
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Scout! I can tell from the pictures you posted that he was very loved and a huge part of your family!
We had to say goodbye to our Trixie on May 13 last year and our entire family has grieved that loss all year and especially coming up on the one year anniversary.
Your family will be in my thoughts & prayers!
Kim Stattner says
It’s so hard to lose a puppy …. the companionship and unconditional love they bring to our lives is immeasurable.
Not sure if you’re familiar with the poem The Rainbow Bridge but it’s one of my favorites and during a time of sadness, it may allow you to smile.
Laura Seifett says
Ugh! Broken-hearted for you guys. Scout had become part of STMT. Dogs are The perfect example of unconditional love. My dog is 17, and I sense this day is coming soon. Absolutely dreading it. Praying for you guys, especially your little guy?
Kim in RI says
I am so so sorry to hear about your sweet pup. All of these pix truly show what it means to be loved unconditionally. A boy and his dog. Hugs to all of you…
Lbee says
I am sorry you had to say goodbye. I have loved seeing pictures of Scout and Carter since I started reading your blog. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Karen says
Oh my….I am so very sorry. I know our furbabies are also part of our families……prayers and hugs to you and your family.
Stacey says
I’m so sorry, Sheaffer. This is one of the hardest things in life. It looks like Carter has lost his best friend. We’ll be thinking of you.
Amy says
Goldens are the sweetest dogs. I have two now and had one that passed away several years ago………..SO very hard to let them go. I love your adorable photos and love that your son was able to grow up with him. Prayers going out for your family.
Angie says
What precious pictures! I’m so sorry to hear about Scout, losing a pet is tough. They really do become members of our family and cement their place in our hearts!
Marcy Norman Cox says
So sorry for the loss of your precious family member. Such great photos / memories, thank you for sharing them. I especially loved the one with Scout and the pacifier … So cute .. And the two of Carter reading to Scout and them watching the iPad .. Prayers to your family during this difficult time .
Erica Baker says
I am very sorry for you loss. He looks like he was the best dog with your young man. What a great way to think that he is no longer in pain, he will always be in your hearts.
Katie says
My heart hurts for y’all!! What a sweet fellow. He was blessed to have y’all and y’all him. I sure will be praying for y’all!!!!
Debbie Dunbar says
I’m so sorry that you lost Scout. He was a beautiful dog and so much a part of your family. The pictures do indeed tell a story. You should do a photo book with pictures of Scout.
maureen t says
I am so sorry. You can just tell by the pictures that Scout had a heart of gold and was a gentle soul. Everyone of your pictures are just so beautiful. The one with Scout and the binky in his mouth must make you smile big!! May peace be with you at this difficult time.
Maureen
Long Island, NY
Jennifer says
I’m so sorry-no doubt he knew that he was loved and cherished. The paci picture made me laugh-so cute. Love and prayers to you all during this sad time. ❤️
Vicki @ lifeinmyemptynest says
The love just shines between your son and dog! I highly recommend the book Dog Heaven for both you and your son. I send it to all my friends who are grieving for their dog who was part of the family❤️
Sara says
I am so sorry for your loss. Dogs are the best part of our lives, offering so much companionship and unconditional love. I hope you all can remember all the amazing times and heal from your sadness. He sounded like an amazing dog!!
Lisa Richardson says
Oh Sheaffer, Bless your sweet hearts. I’m so sorry about Scout, not only for you and your husband, but especially Carter. I know it will be hard for y’all to watch him grieve. All of your pictures are so precious and it was obviously a two way love. ♥ Y’all are in my thoughts and prayers for comfort.
XOXO
Kara Beam says
So sorry to hear this 🙁 it’s terrible when you lose a member of your family like Scout.
Allison says
I am so sorry. What a handsome boy. He was lucky to have you all as a family for so long. Prayers for you.
Michelle N. says
Oh I am so sorry! He looks like he was a good best friend to Carter. Give that boy a hug from all of us.
Cindy Beck says
Sheaffer, I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful Golden. Our Golden, Lucy, is laying on my feet as I write this. She turned 10 today and we can’t imagine our life without her……I can only imagine how hard this is for your family. Thank you for sharing your pictures……such wonderful memories for all of you.
Cara says
I am so, so sorry. Losing a member of your family is absolutely heartbreaking, just know that we send our love and prayers.
Libby says
Hugs and prayers for all of you❤️?❤️
Kimberly says
I don’t even know your dog, but these pictures made me tear up. It’s so hard losing a pet, praying for peace.
Sallie says
I’m so very sorry. What a beautiful boy he was and I know what It’s like to lose a beloved fur baby. I love all your photos though and my favorite is the one with Carter wearing the cowboy hat and Scout with his tongue out. It’s so special that you have all these wonderful photos to keep his memory very alive (although I know he will always be a part of your memories, photos are extra nice). Many hugs to you and your sweet family.
Kim M says
Such cute pictures of your son with his beloved dog. So sorry on the loss of your family pet.
Missy@My Sh!tty Kitchen says
Aw I am so sorry to hear this. These pictures are precious, so many great memories for your family. Sending y’all hugs.
Jay Hendershot says
Oh no… so sorry. These pictures are incredibly sweet and made me tear up! Scout was a good faithful friend.
Julie says
I’m so sorry for your loss! We lost our golden Murphy last year to cancer . He was 10.
Happened very quickly! So I understand your pain. My daughter made a book with all our favorite Murphy pictures and we have it on a table. My husband looks at it every day.
It has taken a year to finally be able to have another dog…. In fact we got two… Mollie and Millie.. Goldens. Joy has returned to our home. It will take time but will come for you too!
Sanna says
I relate to this comment so much! It has been two years since I lost mine, and had it not been because my boyfriend moved in with his black lab, (whom I love to pieces) I would still not be ready to get another one. Dogs are such a huge part of a family, actually scratch that, they are family. I always tell people, don’t think about it as replacing your dog, because none of them can be replaced. They are all so very special. I love that you have two new goldens, and Murphy will always have a huge part of your heart. I also relate to your husband looking at the pics every day. I look at mine every day too. Bless your family.
Stephanie J. says
My heart is broken for you and that sweet little boy of yours! It’s been 7 years and 3 kids later since I had to do the same thing with my sweet dog and I still cry sometimes. Dogs are the best! I hope your family is doing okay.
Jennifer says
I’m so sorry for your loss! These photos are precious and hopefully will be a wonderful reminder of all the good times you had and help you through this time.
Kerry R says
What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful dog. It is hard to loose a furry family member. The pictures and memories will last forever. So sorry for your loss.
Elizabeth says
Sheaffer, I am so so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family, sending big hugs your way!!
Angie says
Another crying Golden mama here, sending you a virtual hug. What a blessing to have 12 wonderful years with Scout. I hope your memories help you through this difficult time. Your pictures sure made me smile!
Tina says
So sorry for your family. Scout always looked like he was smiling in all your pictures- he had a happy life. So sad. Thinking of your family.
Liz says
My heart breaks into a million pieces for your sweet family 🙁 We have a Golden and she is 8 right now and she was our first baby and our girls always say she is their best friend. I truly dread the day we have to go through this. So many hugs and prayers for all of you! Scout was a beautiful dog and he sure looks like he had the BEST life ever with your family.
Megan says
Oh my goodness, the pictures alone made me cry! Crying for a dog you don’t know — that means they are powerful pictures of love and happiness. What a blessing he was to your family, and all of your memories of him will turn more “sweet” than “bittersweet” with time, but I’m so sorry for these hardest moments you’re going through now. How incredibly brave and unselfish of you to recognize his needs above your own wants. What a lucky boy to be that loved.
Jodi says
I love how his face turned gray with age. Gray hair on dogs is my favorite. My black lab now has gray feet and a gray face. Dogs age so gracefully. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Jill B says
Sheaffer, I’m so sorry for your loss of your beloved Scout. These pictures are just precious. He is always smiling and just showing pure joy with Carter. Thinking of your family…
Amanda says
I know exactly how you feel. Our Golden died about 2 years ago this past Christmas and it just broke my heart (she was our first baby too). She was the best dog! We came home and found her “sleeping” on her bed and we buried her in the backyard. She was 12 too. So very sorry for your loss, and it truly is a big loss!
Jenell says
Looking through your series of pics and crying. We have so many similar ones with our Bernese Mountain dog, Radley, (yes, for Boo Radley), and our daughter. We lost him too early at 7 years old, but the memories are forever with us. My heart goes out to you and your family. Peace and hugs to you.
Julie Higginbotham says
I am so sorry! These photos are so sweet and special. He was like Carter’s brother! They seemed like two peas in a pod. Breaks my heart. So glad you documented all of these special moments. You should make a photo book of all of these for Carter to look back on. Hugs!
Susan says
So very sorry… He will be missed, but always loved. Such a sweet dog. ?
Erin says
Today’s post immediately brought tears to my eyes. Having to say goodbye like that is so hard… That special bond between Carter and Scout is undeniable – it practically jumps off the screen and grabs my heart, and I don’t even know you guys! That kind of love doesn’t go away… If ever there was a little boy who has a fur baby angel watching over him always, it’s Carter! Thinking of you all.
Lindsay D says
I’m so sorry for your loss!! I laughed out loud when I say the picture of Scout with the pacifier! Hugs!!
Suzanne says
I’m so sorry for you loss. Goldens are the most precious dogs ever. We had to say goodbye to our Desi at age 12 – she had hemangiosarcoma. We still have our sweet Lucy, who is 11 now. I dread the time when we have to let her go. Play hard at Rainbow Bridge, sweet Scout, and know that you were loved.
Ralinn says
I am so sorry to hear about Scout. Photos of a life well lived and loved.
Aimee says
So sorry for your loss Sheaffer. Your photos say so much about how you loved your dog. Our thoughts and prayers are with your sweet family.
Deborah says
I am so sorry for your loss! Wonderful pictures and wonderful memories – but still so, so hard… Hugs and prayers for you and your family!
Janet says
Oh Sheaffer, my heart hurts for you all. I know how incredibly hard this is from experience. Prayers for your family.
Frannie says
What a beautiful friend! I love his big feet. Nothing better than a golden.
Leann says
Goldens are the best! I’m sorry for your loss. We still miss our Henry ( golden) and teh book Dog Heaven really helped ( me!) and my kids very much.
Alli C. says
We have a 12 year old lab, and I am dreading the day we have to let him go. If you haven’t already heard of it, this book helps a lot and is for all ages.
Dog Heaven by Cynthia Rylant
http://www.amazon.com/Dog-Heaven-Cynthia-Rylant/dp/0590417010
Your post made me cry! Scout looks like such a sweetie-pie.
-Alli
Lynn Duncan says
Such sweet pictures and memories you have, but I know the pain of losing a beloved furbaby.. and feel especially for Carter’s loss.
I love the book suggestion above in comments, and the ideas of a picture book and Shutterfly quilt of sweet pictures.
I hope you feel surrounded in love and caring right here.
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Meg says
I’m so sorry for your loss. How wonderful that you have so many beautiful photos to remember the good times, Especially the photo you took the night before his passing.
Karen Ward says
Sheaffer…I’m so sorry. My heart aches looking at these photos. Your furbaby firstborn truly loved your boy. You can see it!! Hugs!!
Jen says
Oh, I am so sorry. I read this in my car and sat silently crying behind the wheel. My dog is 11 and I know this day will eventually come and it tears at my heart just thinking about it. I’m very sorry for your loss.
Robin says
Golden Retreivers are the best!!!❤️ I’m sorry for your loss!!?
Lynette says
Oh Sheaffer, I’m so sorry. What a huge loss for your family. Thank you for sharing your darling photos. Be gentle with yourselves as you take time to process everything and to grieve. Sending you so much love. XOXO
Sheri says
I’m so sorry you are going through this. It’s the absolute worst part of owning pets – telling them goodbye. Scout does indeed look like a really sweet dog. How wonderful to know that he will always be the one that taught your Carter to love and appreciate dogs. That’s a lasting legacy.
Tiffany says
Such a warm heartfelt tribute, I can feel the love emanating from the screen. Truly a blessed relationship you all shared. Thinking of you all.
Farryn Bussa says
Oh no. I’m so sorry to hear about Scout. Animals are such a huge part of the family and it’s so incredibly hard to lose them. Prayers for you guys.
Laura says
So very sorry for your loss, Sheaffer ❤️❤️ They take a piece of you when they leave and you’ll never be the same. Sending peaceful thoughts and virtual hugs.
Laurie S says
So very very sorry about the passing of Scout! As soon as I saw the title of your post in my email, I said “uh oh”. LOVE all the pictures of your family with Scout. Scout was Carter’s “big brother”. The love shines through the pictures… The Lord knew what He was doing when He put one of His dear creatures in your care. Praying for you all, and that, in time, the grief will be replaced with the sweetest memories of your Scout. I have a 12.5 year old Golden, and it frightens me that one day she will be gone. One of my friends tells me that when you feel a pang in your heart about Scout, it’s when his spirit is wagging his tail, saying “hi” to you! Take care of each other – love, grieve, cry to the Lord, for He understands all… Hugs from CA!
Galen says
While I don’t know you personally, I do know what a member of the family our pets can be. Having lost my Zoe two years ago it still pains me to think about her. What a beautiful tribute you posted to Scout. It is clear that he loved you all just as much as you loved him. May you all find comfort in your memories of him and in knowing he is at peace and no longer in pain. Wishing you time to heal.
Margaret says
A boy and his dog – nothing better. So sorry for your loss – our fury friends are just the best.
Julie says
So sorry for your loss. I recently lost my 20-year-old cat, and the main thing that got me through it was this: I decided that instead of being sad about her loss, I was going to be happy for all of the years that I did get to have her in my life. And with that came many years of love, laughter, and joy. Try to focus on that. The pictures you have are amazing and so sweet! You were all so lucky to have had him, and he was so lucky to have had you all.
Cherie says
So sorry about your precious Scout. We also have a Golden named Scout and her brother, Tucker. We’ve been where you are and it is so hard and heart breaking. They are such good dogs and so much a part of the family. Hugs to you and your family.
Tiffany says
I’m so sorry to hear your sad news. Our family lost our sweet Bella dog 3 weeks ago and we are all very slowly healing. They are our furry family members and the loss and grief are definitely real! Take comfort in the knowledge that you gave your Scout a wonderful life full of love. You can actually see it in the pictures! He looks so proud and happy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Casey says
I am so sorry for your loss! Those pictures are absolutely precious! It was so obvious how much he loved y’all and y’all loved him! Praying for your family!
Cynthia in IN says
So sorry to hear about the loss of Scout. You have lots of pictures that show the love your family and he had for each other and lots of great memories. He will be in your hearts forever.
Lindsey C says
I’m so sorry! They become such a part of your family. When I was little I was told our family dog was running in the clouds eating as many treats as she wanted! What a beautiful thought! 🙂 What a wonderful home you gave Scout! Treasure the memories! Hugs!
Lael says
I don’t know you, but after following your blog and instagram I’ve related to your son and dog’s relationship and how much it mirrors my son’s relationship with our dog and this post made me cry for the loss of Carter’s dog “brother.” I am so sorry for your loss.
Sue Jones says
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. The pictures you have posted most definitely are the cutest ever. My daughter and son-in-law have two goldens and they are the BEST dogs ever.
gail wilson says
My heart just aches for you and your family. Tears galore at work, but there was no stopping them, for I know how it feels. My first thought was to run home and hug my sweet yellow Lab, Buddy. Thinking of you…
Jenna says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Those two were such buddies. Beautiful pictures of a beautiful pup!
Katie @decoratemylife says
Oh Sheaffer- I’m so sorry. Dogs are our most constant friends. I’m such an animal lover- tears are rolling down my face from scrolling through these precious photos of Scout and your little guy. There is so much love and joy in those pictures. We lost our dog of 12 years, Meshach, this past October and sometimes I forget for a split second and think he’s going to greet me at the door. So many memories. This quote is on a Curly Girl Designs card: “Some soul mates have wet noses.” One thing you can do that is so sweet- get Scout’s paw print engraved on something for your son, maybe a picture frame or little keychain as a special memory. Hugs!
Allison says
So sorry. Our golden is 12.5, too. These pics are precious….and will be treasured by all of you.
Rebekah says
So, so sorry for your loss. We recently just went through the same with my 13.5 year old Aussie, and know the sadness of losing your first baby. Prayers for your family.
jennifer says
Oh Sheaffer! I’m so sorry! I can only imagine how your hearts must be hurting right now. Our dog is 8 and she was our first baby too. Scout looks like such a sweetheart. He seemed to always be smiling in every picture and you can tell he just adored Carter. Hugs!
Deanne C. says
I’m so sad to hear what your family is going through. Dogs are truly part of the family and it’s so hard to say good bye. Sending thoughts and prayers your way xoxox
Christina says
I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of Scout. He must know how treasured he was. Your blog post today was such a sweet way to honor him. Your family is in my prayers. ~Christina
Rebecca says
I am so glad your family and Scout were blessed to be together. You all clearly loves and supported each other. Thanks for sharing these wonderful pictures.
Margaret says
We put our sixteen year old collie to sleep a month ago yesterday. It does get easier. But it’s a gut punch of grief/ everyone in the family losing his or her best friend on the same day. We are still teary…. Praying for you!!!
Brandi Ledbetter says
Oh, Sheaffer, I’m so very sorry for your loss. I lost my fur baby in November at 15 1/2 yrs old, so I know how truly heartbreaking it is. If only they could live forever! Prayers for you & your family during this tough time.
Brooke says
I am so sorry for your loss. I’m thinking of you and your family during this hard time. He was such a cutie. My family had to put our dog to sleep last year very suddenly and the pain was unbearable for a while. They’re such a huge part of any family.
Jeanie says
Sheaffer, my heart absolutely aches for you and your family, and I write this with a big ol’ lump in my throat. You’ve written before about how close Scout and Carter were; Carter must be absolutely devastated. I am a huge dog lover (currently have three) and truly know what you’re going through. I know Scout’s last trip to the vet was the hardest thing ever. Unfortunately, I’ve had to do that more times than I like to think about. I have had so many dogs, and I think about them every single day. It helps to know we’ll all be together sometime in the future. God bless you and your family as well as Scout.
Michelle Cox says
Oh I am so sorry to hear this! Such an incredible loss but oh such beautiful memories! Sending hugs!
Kelly says
I am so very sorry!! Dogs are such a wonderful part of the family and leave a tremendous hole when they are gone. I remember crying over the loss of my childhood dog every single night for more than a month (and periodically for much longer) and I was 20 years at the time. One of my dogs now is almost 14 and I worry every single day about something happening to him. Even though my kids were all born before we got him, they were little and don’t remember life without him. I can’t imagine life without animals but it is so, so hard to lose them. I will be praying for your family.
Megan says
This post has me in tears… What a sweet pup! I’m so sorry for your loss
Katie says
So sorry to hear….We have a 12 year old yellow lab named Scout…so your story and loss has made me heart broken today as I know we will be going through this sometime soon as well….I came home from work today and got down on the ground next to our Scout and loved on her for about 20 minutes….Thank you for reminding me how precious our time is with our fur babies….Thinking about your sweet family today…
Katie
Nicole says
I’m so sorry for your loss and heartache. It’s very obvious how much he was loved and loved your family too!
Jill says
Hugs 🙁
CNB says
You can tell by his eyes and his closeness to your son that he was a sweet boy. It is hard when they leave us… hugs to you and your family on the loss of your beautiful dog.
Karen S. says
I’m so sorry. Hugs to you.
Elizabeth says
So, so sorry for your loss. There is no doubt after seeing these pictures that Scout knows that you all loved him deeply.
Samantha Wenger says
Sheaffer,
I’m so sorry for your heartache. It’s clear to see how much Scout was loved by you and your family. And, I have no doubt that he loved you just as much. The pictures are so sweet.
I have a 13 week old golden retriever puppy at home and reading your post and seeing your pictures has confirmed that I chose the sweetest breed.
Wishing you the sunshine of tomorrow!
Samantha
Gina says
My heart is breaking for you all. I know exactly what you are feeling. A couple of years ago we lost our 18 year old dachshund. Love the picture of Scout with the pacifier in his mouth! All the pictures are great…..what a treasure!
Stefanie says
Sheaffer, I am so very sorry to hear about Scout. Pets truly are a part of our families. Just over a year ago, we unexpectedly lost our dog when she became sick suddenly. During that difficult time, I found the Rainbow Bridge Poem, and it gave my family and I a great deal of comfort. Maybe it will help you as you deal with this heartbreak. Sending my love.
https://rainbowsbridge.com/Poem.htm
Paula says
I am so sorry for your loss. Saying goodbye to a furbaby is the most difficult part of loving them. I know exactly what you are all going through as just last week we said goodbye to our Tucker (15 years). He isn’t suffering anymore and we were so blessed to have him for as long as we did, but it still feels like a part of me died with him. ((Hugs)) to you all. Cherish the memories always.
Noreen Hrul says
Shaeffer,
I’m so heartbroken to hear the news about your beloved dog, Scout. We also have a golden retriever, Bear, who resembles Scout and he’ll be 10 this summer. As I am a regular reader of your blog, I’d often show my daughter pictures of Scout with Carter. She is an only child too and she calls Bear her brother. We were both so sad upon reading the news that he passed. He had a wonderful life thanks to you. May your memories provide comfort during this difficult time.
Thinking of you,
Noreen
Kaitlin says
Shaeffer,
My heart just breaks for you and your family. We have 2 goldens and cannot imagine our life without them. From all of your pictures, it looks like Scout was loved beyond words– I am sure that he felt it every day he was with y’all. I will be thinking of you during this tough time! **Hugs**
Sarah says
I am so sorry to hear that you lost your furry baby. You can tell that we was so loved by you all and loved you all right back. We have a 14 year Golden boy that we recently found out has Lymphoma. We are cherishing every minute we have left with him. I am broken hearted for you.??
Marty says
This breaks my heart! It’s so hard to let a pet go. I’m so sorry. 🙁
Tracy says
Scout was a beautiful dog and all of the pictures you posted were adorable. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Linnane says
I once saw a cute thing that said to give your aging or ailing dog the last “best day” when you know their time is here. But, for Scout, you gave him the “best life” instead. Your post was so sad (I’m bawling) but yet so sweet today. Prayers for your sweet family.
Susan says
I am so sorry for your loss.
Debbie says
I am very sorry for your loss. We lost our fur baby, Ozzy, in November after having him as a part of our family for 11 1/2 years. We still miss him every day but have such great memories of the time we had with him. He left paw prints on our hearts! Prayers for you and your family as you deal with this loss.
Diana says
Losing a beloved pet is so painful. I have always said for all the pain we feel now at this moment I wouldn’t give up a second for all the love we had and will forever cherish in our hearts. So sorry.
Lori Montgomery says
Sheaffer, I am so sorry to hear about Scout. I know how sad it is to lose your family pet. In October 2012, my first baby Sweetie past away. She had been a member of our family for 15 years and was a sweetheart. She adored my son and the feeling was mutual. I still remember the day I brought my son home from the hospital and introduced him to Sweetie. It was love that only grew as my son grew. It was heartbreaking for all of us when she died. She is missed so much and even to this day it makes me want to cry. I’ll say a prayer for you and your family as you adjust to life without Scout. It’s wonderful you have such beautiful memories of Scout.
Sanna says
Oh my gosh, I instantly cried reading about your precious dog. I think it is one of the hardest things to go through. I lost mine almost 2 years ago, she was also 12, and to be honest, I don’t think I’ll ever get over it. And reading or hearing about any other people going through it, instantly makes me so incredibly sad for them. Your dog is precious. And I am so incredibly sorry that you and your family are going through it now. Dogs and animals in general are so amazing! Lots of hugs!!! And shared tears!!!
Ashley says
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your memories. Sending hugs and prayers for you and your family.
Julia says
Sheaffer, I am so sorry for your loss. Have been thinking of your family since yesterday.
Beatrice says
So sorry for your loss. Your photos are gorgeous- a real treasure.
Regine Karpel says
So sorry.
http://www.rsrue.blogspot.com
Dawn Engle says
My heart and prayers go out to you and your sweet family. I know how heartbroken you all are. You gave Scout a beautiful life. You all loved each other so deeply. Thank you for sharing him with us. Prayers for you all.
Maddy says
I am very sorry for your loss. Seeing random photos of Scout on your blog always made my day. Losing a fur baby is heart wrenching. I hope your family gets through this tough time together.
April Parrish says
Prayers for peace and comfort…especially for little Carter. So sorry!
Erin Bielby says
Oh Sheaffer. My heart is broken for your family. Especially Carter. I know he was such a big part of your family and you all miss him so much. Praying for you all to remember what a blessing he was and the good times you all had together. He knows how much he was loved. Hugs xoxo.
Abby says
My heart aches for your family. So so sorry for your loss.
Lindsay says
So sorry for your loss. I will be praying for your family. Losing a beloved pet is such a hard thing to go through.
DonnaS says
So very sorry for your loss. Scout was a beautiful dog and I’m sure he knew how much you loved him. My prayers are with you and your family.
Aja says
It’s obvious he was well loved and one happy boy who loved in return. So sorry for your loss.
Cheryl says
My heart goes out to you and your family. That was a beautiful tribute to Scout.
Hannah Long says
Sheaffer-so very sorry for your loss. We have a golden and an 11 month old little boy and our pictures look just like yours. I can’t imagine-my heart breaks for you. Prayers for your family.
Morgan says
It’s clear Scout was (is) a major part of your family. He was blessed to have people who loved and cared for him so much. My heart aches for your loss.
Julie Stewart says
Sincerest condolences….in their lives and in their deaths, dogs teach us and our children precious lessons too innumerable to list. In my 58 years, we have grieved the loss of seven dear canine family members and we have four living with us now. They deserve to be mourned as true, trusted and loyal loved ones. In time, it will be the wonderful funny and sweet and happy memories that come to mind when you think of Scout, but you will always miss him and you won’t ever forget him either…loved seeing your pictures.
Maureen says
Sorry for your loss. Two weeks ago I found my dog laying in the sun and she had passed. It was the absolute worst thing. Our whole family was devastated. It has been the most difficult time for our family. Thinking of you during this sad time.
Dana Vissage says
So very sorry for your loss. He was a beautiful dog and no doubt he knew he was loved. Praying for your family.
Tara says
Thank you so much for sharing this. My heart hurts for you and your family, but it is clear that Scout had a happy, loving family, and could not have asked for a better life than the one you gave him. You were clearly a FANTASTIC mother to your “first” baby.
Pam Karkow says
Tears. I am heartbroken for you. We have a golden too, she’s 15 and definitely slowing down. My youngest thinks she’s a person and I have tons of pics just like yours. My absolute favorite of yours is the paci pic! That’s a keeper for sure. Scout was lucky to have such a loving, sweet family, and special place in your hearts. XOXO
Sanna says
Perfect comment “my youngest thinks she’s a person.” She has life figured out young :-). Since that is exactly what they are, humans, with fur coating, and a better friend than anyone could possibly ask for. I actually even think they are better humans than actual humans are. Loved your comment 🙂
Pam Karkow says
Yes, Sanna! Unconditional love from our furry friends. I agree with you totally. 🙂
Monica says
Precious pictures and memories. Sorry for your loss.
ella says
So sorry for your loss!
The pictures tell such a beautiful story of your Scout.
He was a lucky dog and had the best life!
RIP Scout.
Amy says
My heart is absolutely broken for you and your family! I too have a precious 12 year old fur guy in my house and he is my first baby too. Scout was obviously loved so much and had such a wonderful life. You and your family gave that to him and that’s all any dog can ask for.
Sanna says
Oh God, Shaeffer, this is day 2, and I am in tears again for you. My aussie mix passed on memorial day two years ago, and two days later my 15yr old cat. And so every year when it is close to that day, I am so so emotional. I so know how you feel. It is the hardest thing. I am so so glad that there are so many people commenting. It shows how much everyone cares and shares the love for animals. I hated coming home every day after it happened, without the wagging tail meeting you at the door. My cat slept in my bed with me and so at night it was no better, missing him too. They do take such a huge part of your heart with them. Your pics with Scout are amazing and show exactly the love of a dog. I am just so so so sorry for your loss and your hurting. And also for anyone else going through this with their furbaby!! We now have a 5yr old black lab and a 15 year old cat that I have had since kitten, and the thought alone of having to go through it again, makes my heart sink.
Laura says
So very sorry for your loss.
Marissa says
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I loved seeing Scout in your pictures and could truly tell what an important part of your family he was. I have no doubt he knew this too. He lived a wonderful life and I hope the good memories of him and his importance will help you through this difficult time. I know he is watching down on you all from doggie heaven!
Carrie says
I’m so sorry…. These pictures radiate love. Xoxo
Allison H. says
I have read and loved your blog for a few years. Your love for Scout is shown in many of your posts. I am so sorry for your loss. I do hope that you find comfort in your memories of good times with Scout. I hope that you find peace in knowing that you provided a loving home and a wonderful life for him. My heart goes out to you and to your family.
Kelly says
Oh my goodness . I am so sorry . He is beautiful , and the love he gave and felt are both so evident in his precious face . I’m sorry for your family’s loss, and pray especially for your son . I k ow how hard it is on our kids . Hugs .
Heather Cooper says
So sorry to hear of your loss. We have a 7 year old Golden named Hank. I can hardly imagine how tough this must be. Take care.
Tiffany says
My heart is broken for your family. It’s amazing how pets can just absolutely steal our hearts and it’s just not fair how short they are with us. Carter must be so broken. They were quite the pair. I cried reading this sweet tribute to your FURst baby. Sending prayers from NJ for Scout and your sweet family
Caroline says
I have been a follower of your blog for a while now, and I feel like we are friends. 🙂 I always loved when you posted pictures of Scout because he always looked like he was smiling. I was a mess reading your post about him! Those were some of the sweetest pictures in the world with him and your son as a baby. What a sweet big brother! I’m pregnant with my first right now, and I hope our dog will be just like Scout was to your baby.
I hope your week has improved. Cherish your sweet memories.
Heather says
It is without a doubt that Scout knew how loved and treasured he really was. He is on the other side of the rainbow bridge telling his doggie friends about his family and how he can’t wait for y’all to get there eventually so they can meet you.
Carter is really lucky to share that special relationship with his dog…and I’m sure you’ve heard this before, but it’s the first special dog that is the reason for the second dog, third dog, etc. 🙂
You’re in my family’s thoughts and prayers.
Katherine @ Grass Stains says
Sheaffer, I am so, so sorry to hear about Scout. Pets are such an important part of our families, and I’m glad you felt comfortable sharing both the news of his passing and your sweet memories of him with us here on the blog. I know we are all thinking of you! Blessings.
Lauren says
I’m not crying… I’m not crying…
So much love for your family right now!!
Amy says
So heartbroken for your family and you’re precious little boy Carter. Those pictures are priceless…they make me smile and they make me cry. Nothing more special than a boy and his dog. Praying for you all!
The Southern Stylista says
This absolutely breaks my heart for you and your family-I know the loss of a pet and how painful it truly is. Two years ago, I lost my horse of 14 years that was my very best friend and it was the hardest day of my life. I’ll be thinking of and praying for y’all!
xoxo, SS
The Southern Stylista
Crystal says
I just had to leave a comment for you & yours after seeing this post. We lost our 2 fur babies in a 10-month window last year & the pain is still so very present & raw. We are at a point where we can sometimes talk about them & laugh…the AMAZING memories are truly ENDLESS! BUT, the pain is also so intense b/c we also know & are reminded of EXACTLY what we have lost. We went from a family of 4 to a family of 2 & it has been so SO HARD~
We lost our Chocolate Lab, our amazing, Kya Mae, on March 18th of last year- just 8 days after her 12th birthday 🙁 & her rescued “brother”, our 13 yr old Golden, our sweet boy, Aiden, on December 18th.
Both to frontal lobe brain rumors- both after many seizures & both after being forced to decide when the time to let go had arrived…& it sometimes feels like it all happened just yesterday. Although his time w/ is from discovery to the end was days compared to almost 3 months w/our baby girl~
I see so much of the same mannerism and sweet love in your Scout as we had in our Aiden & KNOW how loving & just incredible that Golden love can be! Your pictures show so very clearly, EXACTLY how loving & loyal he was & therefore, the deeply painful loss that you are have to be goin through right now.
My best advice, is to cry whenever you feel like it & to be prepared for what reminds you of him that you didn’t expect it to…(& the flood of emotions that will surely follow)…
I have lost pets before, but, those 2 were such an integral part of our family & EVERY ASPECT of our lives~ & you seem to have had a similar relationship w/your boy.
Keep Kleenex near & know that it does get a little easier over time. (I’ve yet to go a day w/out tears, so I have no idea how much “time” it takes before it actually becomes bearable, but I know that time is somewhere on the horizon for all of us as we work through our grief…)
We will be sure to send lots of prayers your way as your working to cope w/your loss as well & wish you all the comfort & fond memories possible!
Much love & many prayers from fellow retriever (& blog) lovers!
Sheaffer says
Oh my goodness, Crystal. I am so sorry for your loss. The pain is so real, and even though we knew we would of course be incredibly sad, we had no idea how difficult this would be. We just miss him so much. Thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment. xoxo, Sheaffer
Cheryl says
I read your blog pretty frequently, but I don’t ofter comment on blogs. This one really touched my heart. Like you 2 years ago we lost our beloved Daisy. She was a mutt we rescued from the shelter. My kids 6 and 7 at the time were crushed. We were all devastated. There was no warning she was happy and playing with us one day and gone the next. This is the 3rd dog my husband and I have lost in our 23 years together. This was the first for my kids.
We have learned through our last 3 beloved dogs that finding a new pup to love is the best healing for us. We will never forget the dogs that came before. Our home is adorned with beautiful pen and ink renderings of our old friends, but nothing heals us like saving another dog.
I know you are hurthing. Find your path to healing. You may not recognize it at fiirst. At first we felt like we were dsihonoring the past dog by finding a new dog to love so fast, but I think God opened a door that we chose to walk through and Marigold our new dog needed saving. Let God lead you.