Cue the “awwwws”. 😉
I thought it was a good time to talk about CURRENT FALL ACCESSORIES
that are out there right now.
I figured our special mom would need some inspiration on how to top off all of her outfits made out of her NEW FREE CLOTHES! WooHoo!!!!!!
(And just in case you missed it, click HERE if you would like to see my LOFT picks.)
And if you didn’t already know it before, I think it’s now CLEAR that LOFT rocks.
CRYSTAL clear.
Before I get to the fall accessories, I have a housekeeping matter that I need to attend to very quickly.
First off,
I’ve received 3 separate e-mails on a particular pair of Sam Edelman boots that are relatively new to the Nordstrom site. All 3 of these
ladies don’t live near a Nordstrom, and they were wanting to know if I
had seen them in person (and liked them) before they ordered them.
And
I figure if 3 of you asked, there were probably more of you out there
wondering. And then this picture appeared in a Nordstrom e-mail that was sent to me, and I understand what all the interest in these boots was about. They were gorgeous. And well priced for a tall boot.
Click HERE for the boot.
Here they are on me:
Here is my review:
They
are a very pretty boot in a gorgeous cognac color with some black
rubbing (seen on the toe and heel mostly). I liked the height of them
and I liked how they had an asymmetrical rise at the knee. They had a
bit of a cowboy flare in person, which I wasn’t really expecting, but I
actually liked! I would highly recommend these boots to you girls that
were curious!
Click HERE for these boots!
However, if you have wider calves, these might be too snug.
(But don’t worry, I have an option for you!)
*Thanks to a comment early Friday morning from an anonymous reader, I found out that the Penny boots come in a wide calf version also! Find them HERE!*
Oooh. Another update.
Laura, another sweet reader left this comment:
I actually bought TWO pairs of the Sam Edleman boots last weekend and I
don’t live near a Nordstrom’s, either (but I’m not one of your 3
emails). I have to say that they are FAB and I love, love, love them!!!
I got the cognac and black. Great fit!
Thanks Laura for taking the time to comment. It really helps readers to see what other readers have to say about items!
Here’s another one!
I have the wide calf Sam Edelman boots and they fit perfectly! I have
SO much trouble finding boots to fit my calves so I ordered these as
soon as I found them. I wear a size 10 and think I measured my calf to
be 17.5 or 18 inches. The whiskey color is a bit lighter than I
expected but still very nice. I’ve not worn them yet so I’ll have to
get back to you on that!
Thanks Rebecca!
And these were the option I had before the sweet reader told me about the wide calf Pennys.
If you have a wide calf, THESE might be a better option for you.
Here is the 1 review so far:
I love these boots! The color is a perfect
caramel and exactly what I was looking for. I love the buckle around the
ankle; it adds character. The width of the boot fits slightly on the
wider side so I know I can wear socks comfortably. The calf is much
looser than I imagined! I have muscular calves and most boots don’t fit
but these do! The shaft comes all the way up to my knee and they are
very soft on my skin. I couldn’t be happier.
All right, enough housekeeping, let’s get back to the accessories.
I think our special mama is going to be very happy with these choices!
boot cut jeans HERE,
At last check, these jeans had received 46% of the vote! 1st runner up HERE.
cognac riding boots HERE,
At last check, these boots had received 43% of the vote. 1st runner up HERE.
Stella and Dot Sanibel pendant HERE
At last check, the Sanibel pendant had an overwhelming 70% of the vote!
It seems as if you ladies might like this versatile necklace just as much as I do. I actually wore it 3/5 days this week, but I only saw the same people 2/3 days, so I think that makes it okay.
I received lots of questions and comments this week about the jeans that were being voted on as well as the jeans that I was wearing in some of my LOFT pictures on Wednesday.
I know that many of you are new to the blog this week and hadn’t heard me scream and shout about my love for these Vigoss jeans before, so I only thought it was fair to catch you up to speed..
If you are new, trust me when I saw that I’m cuckoo for these jeans.
In fact, I had previously named these jeans a MUST HAVE!
Here’s a picture of me in them in the dressing room with 2 different styles. I bought both of them.
What can I say, it was love at first site. 😉
My love for these jeans is even stronger now than that first day.
Here’s why I LOVE THEM SO: They have the PERFECT amount of stretch in them (enough stretch that they are super comfy, but not too much because they don’t sag) and they are just
so dang flattering.
Click HERE for the boot cut.
The pockets on the back are what sold me on these. They look just like designer Hudson’s and are a fraction of the price!
Click HERE for the clean cuffed version.
I love the boot cut above, but these cuffed jeans below are definitely my favorite.
They are PERFECT with flats, wedges, and booties…and to be honest,
the cuff at the bottom just makes me feel cool! 🙂
In case you’re interested:
striped cardigan HERE , MUST HAVE wedges HERE, Kimberly necklace HERE
Okay! On to the fall accessories!
The first thing I think about when I think about fall accessories is scarves!
They are a great way to add color and style to any outfit.
This scarf below is the bomb-diggity.
Whatever that means.
It is SOFT SOFT SOFT and oh so cozy.
all echo scarf choices HERE
It’s AWESOME, right?
I love it so much!
I think I like the middle one the best.
This scarf is fab.
Look how it jazzes up my black shirt and jeans!
Now we are going to move on from scarves to some really cool jewelry!
tory burch leather wrap bracelet in great fall colors HERE (top left picture)
black studded plate leather bracelet HERE (top left picture)
I love how edgy this is.
gold link hinge bracelet HERE (picture on right)
This bracelet is 70% off right now making it just under $10!!!! WOW!
silver pave link bracelet HERE (picture on right)
cognac leather wrap bracelet HERE (bottom left picture)
The round bezel set crystal bracelet in all the pics is sold out. Sorry!
If you have under a size 6 ring finger, I’m not sure this ring will work for you.
If you have under a size 6 ring finger, I’m not sure this ring will work for you.
You know how much I loved the brightly colored sequin bracelets for spring and summer, and I’m dying over the gold and silver versions for fall.
burgundy velvet and gold layered bracelet HERE
Love the layers, the color, and the texture.
Take a closer look at this bracelet, it is truly FABULOUS.
It comes in gold too and it would be a great bold statement piece to wear on it’s
own or layer with other bracelets.
The size of these is perfect, and I’m so into gold right now.
And you know LOFT has some great jewels to compliment their fall clothes,lots of it is on sale and an additional 40% off!
All sale jewelry HERE.
Stella and Dot is obviously at the top of my jewelry list.
My favorites follow:
Kimberly Necklace HERE
Sanibel pendant HERE
Cora Chanedeleir earrings HERE (and on sale right now!)
Infinity Charm necklace HERE (on sale and great for layering!)
(Remember to enter “Sheaffer Sims” as your hostess.
I like to use credits
to buy things for future giveaways!)
J Crew Factory also has some fabulous jewel on sale that are now an additional 40% off!
Click HERE to see all of the sale pieces.
My favorites can be found HERE and HERE.
Or if you are really interested in adding some arm candy to your collection, Bauble Bar is having a special right now. Click HERE and they will walk you through the process of choosing your 3 favorite bracelets for your own personal stack! SO FUN! 
Or you can click HERE to see sets that Bauble Bar has already put together for you!
They take out all the guess work and have put pieces together that look like they are made for layering!
I love both of these necklaces on their own just as much as I do layered!
Click HERE for this set.
And I’m totally loving THIS cool bracelet duo they put together! GORGEOUS for fall!
Okay ladies, that’s it for the jewelry!
I’d be interested to know what your favorite pieces are that I highlighted above!
These are my favs:
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Did we have any of the same favorites?
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I promise to post it on my facebook page HERE by 10:00 am Saturday morning as well as at the top of this post.
The kindness of strangers regarding this contest was overwhelming.
One sweet reader contacted me and said this:
Hi Sheaffer,
I’ve been reading your blog for almost a year now,
and I love it! …… I just looked at your blog and saw the Special Mamas
contest you’ve got going on. I love that you’re doing this! I am not a
Special Mama, but I know how hard it is to be a mom at all (I have 2 and
3 year old boys), so I can’t even imagine how much more challenging it
is when your child has special needs. So nice of the Loft to partner
with you! I was just thinking that if you wanted to make this a regular
thing, I would be happy to contribute a $50 gift card to whatever store
you choose. Just let me know if that would help, now or in the future.
Again,
love your blog. Don’t change a thing! I live in Dallas and shop at
Stonebriar’s Nordstroms a lot. I keep thinking I will eventually run in
to you there. 🙂
Thanks!
Emily
I MEAN, HOW NICE IS EMILY?!?
Love that I have such sweet readers!
Thank you Emily!
There is also an organization called Caring Coutoure that contacted me via facebook to tell me about their organization and let me know they wanted to give a beautiful scarf to the winner that is one-of a kind and hand-painted by a person with special needs. LOVE!
Click HERE to read what they are about and click HERE to see their selection of products.
Thank you Debra for volunteering to participate in the giveaway!
A sweet mama named Ryan told me about a Foundation and
Support Group she started for mommas who also have children with rare, serious and
undiagnosed disorders.
Their website is HERE.
Thanks for Sharing Ryan!
Ryan also has a blog that just launched on Wednesday that you can find HERE.
If you have a blog or a foundation or a facebook page dedicated to parenting a child or children with special needs, please leave it in the comments. I would LOVE for all of you special mamas out there to connect with each other. I know the only one who can truly understand a special needs mom is another special needs mom.
In closing,
I would like to share a poem that I heard when I first got into special education. If you are the parent to a special needs child, I’m quite sure you’ve heard it.
If you’re not a parent to a special needs child, you still need to read it.
It’s a MUST READ, and it’s beautiful.
Have a wonderful weekend Ladies!
And good luck to everybody in the contest!
Alison @ Get Your Pretty On says
Oh my gosh, I'm bawling over that poem. Wow! I'm pretty sure I need that knit scarf in my life (the middle one is my favorite too). And can I just say your hair is looking particularly fabulous lately? 🙂
Anonymous says
Just want to let you know that I did buy the Sam Edelman boots and they were too tight in the calf…I realized that they come in wide calf so I am waiting for them to be sent to me and hopefully that will work. I will let you know if the extra inch in the wide calf makes a difference.
Laura says
I actually bought TWO pairs of the Sam Edleman boots last weekend and I don't live near a Nordstrom's, either (but I'm not one of your 3 emails). I have to say that they are FAB and I love, love, love them!!! I got the cognac and black. Great fit!
Rebecca says
I have the wide calf Sam Edelman boots and they fit perfectly! I have SO much trouble finding boots to fit my calves so I ordered these as soon as I found them. I wear a size 10 and think I measured my calf to be 17.5 or 18 inches. The whiskey color is a bit lighter than I expected but still very nice. I've not worn them yet so I'll have to get back to you on that!
Danielle says
What a beautiful poem! I am just blown away by this contest. It amazes me what kind people are capable of when they come together. Thank you for setting such an amazing example for not just me but a world of bloggers 🙂 xo!
aprilparrish says
Well you've made me cry! Beautiful poem! So proud to be a reader of your blog. This contest truly shows what a wonderful person you are! Can't wait to hear about the deserving mother that wins!
I love the gold spike stretch bracelet & the Tory Burch bracelet. Those are my faves! Have a great weekend!
kteacher22 says
"Welcome to Holland" in the morning-now I'm crying:)! It is funny how my reaction to it has changed from my pregnancy, when I found out that my son would have T21 to now when he is a rising kindergartner. When I first read it, it was almost to painful to read. But now I find myself smiling and nodding, "Yes, Rembrandts!" Did you know that Emily Perl Kingsley joined the writing team of Sesame Street in 1970? I absolutely LOVE that children of all abilities are represented on the show, and I'm sure that Kingsley had a lot to do with that. Thank you so much for sending love and support to a lot of moms you may have never met. Hugs!!!
clatk says
I have the Sanibel Pendant and I LOVE it! I have had it about 3 weeks and have truly worn it every day that I have actually gotten dressed (ha! Glamourous life I lead ?). It is SO versatile and stinking cute!! It's more than I would normally spend on a necklace, but I have already gotten my money's worth.
This contest for Special Need's Mamas is amazing! My daughter has 2 rare disorders and I am excited about connecting with other Moms through the link you posted above! Thanks, Sheaffer!
Lori says
Such a beautiful poem! Thank you for sharing. Shaeffer, you have such a big heart. Thank you for making these moms feel a little special with your contest. I wish they all could win.
On a side note…..I need some info on that fabulous handbag you are carrying in your pics. I love totes.
Susan says
I have those exact boots (bought with my wonderful Nordstrom gift card!) and LOVE them so far! I haven't worn them outside of the house yet (c'mon cooler weather!), but they seem SO comfy! They are a very nice, rich shade of cognac and go with everything. I agree with others that the shaft does seem to run a little smaller than some boots. I had to return two other pairs (different brands) due to the calves being too wide before finding these. I love that these fit snuggly enough to be worn with skirts and dresses without gaping too much, but also have enough room for jeans/leggings to be tucked in.
Loving all the scarves, but really NEED that knit one! I think I may have a bit of a scarf addiction! They are just so easy and fun! 🙂
Sabrina says
LOVE that leopard and green scarf. It's in my shopping cart. LOVE those Sam Edelman boots. LOVE LOVE LOVE them. They are in my shopping cart too. And if we're being honest, I really love it all. Everything looks so cute on you. Every.single.thing! 🙂
P.S. I always get so excited when I see a new post in my reader–I love to see your favorite finds…it makes my life so much easier! 😉
V @ X-tremely V says
Love that leopard and green scarf! I am going crazy over the bag you have in the photo too! What kind is it? Where is it from? Etc.! I absolutely love it!
http://xtremelyv.blogspot.com/
Tiffany Martha says
I have to tell you… I entered the contest and I don't have a child with special needs. I feel so silly. I totally read the blog… but came back and forth to my computer as I had time in between my three kids and remodeling. I am guessing I just entered it and didn't even realize what I was doing until read your blog again this am. PLEASE…. don't put my name in the mix of these deserving moms. I hope I didn't mess up the drawing!!! It will be one blessed mama who gets loved on this way!!
Amber says
You do have sweet readers! I am excited for the blessing that this fun contest has been. I am sure that even the mamas that don't win have been encouraged!
{Hi Sugarplum!} says
I quote that movie constantly! In fact, I have a series on the blog called, 'This Really Melts My Butter'
Almost every situation has an applicable SM quote! My fave, after, 'That looks like two pigs, fighting under a blanket' — is "My signature cullar is pink. My weddin is blush and bashful." "Her weddin is pink and pink. The church looks like it was sprayed down with Pepto Bismol!"
Elaine~ Honey Pie Accessories says
"Two pigs fighting under a blanket"….. best movie quote of all time ever.
Elaine~ Honey Pie Accessories says
The silver link bracelet matches your wedding ring perfectly! I mean, it's a fabulous pair! And, oh how I love the Welcome to Holland poem; it is so beautiful….. Also, do the cashiers/sales people give you funny looks at Nordstrom? I can only imagine the looks you get from shoppers flashing your big smile and snapping away at shoes, jewelry and clothing! It cracks me up every time thinking about all the stares you must be getting! Do you just look at them and say, "Pinterest Told Me To."
smk053078 says
I can't wait to find out who wins the contest! And that green & leopard scarf! Holy moly!!! LOVING it!!
Mallory says
Love the contest! I teach a special needs ballet class and am a pediatric occupational therapist…here are the most beautiful ballerinas you've ever seen!…
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Steps-of-Grace-Ballet-for-Special-Needs/173718386063056
Anonymous says
So, I am needing a fitted jean to tuck into boots- would those cuffed jeans work? Can you unroll them – I'm guessing if not it would be too bulky!
CWestlake says
What a wonderful contest! It is so incredible to know that special needs moms are being thought of because honestly shopping and fashion can be quite low on the priority list when we're just trying to make it through the day most of the time. I blog at http://www.blessedbybrenna.com about my daughter who was born in 2011 with a very rare and severe genetic skin condition. Of course I am DYING to win your contest (I can't remember the last time I went to the mall!!) but even more than that, I just want to say thank you for doing this. Sometimes raising a child with special needs can be so isolating and it's wonderful to know there are other moms who admit that they don't know all that we're doing through, but that they still care.
Sybil@PeaceitallTogether says
I am so glad I bought that crystal bracelet. I love it!! Steel Magnolia's is one of my favorite movies, too! 🙂
Maria says
I have those Sam Edelman boots and I love them! They are so comfy and the leather is so soft and lovey! They are also true to size, so ladies should feel pretty confident about ordering them online. I absolutely recommend them. I can't wait for it to get cooler so I can wear them more often.They are definitely my must have piece for this fall.
Lisa says
First, THANK YOU for what you do~IT TAKES A VERY SPECIAL PERSON TO DO WHAT You DO!
THANK YOU!!! ~I get your sense of humor knowing what you do!~ YOU HAVE A ♥ THAT COMES FROM JESUS TO DO THIS & YES, YOU ARE BLESSED DOING WHAT YOU DO BUT YOU BLESS THE FAMILIES!! GOD HAS GIVEN YOU THIS GIFT & THANK YOU FOR WALKING IN IT!!!!! ~I'm do not have my Degree but was going to College back when it was only 6 weeks to Student Teach~yes, showing my age a bit, :0)! We had our 1st baby & I wouldn't leave him for the 6 short weeks to have my Early Childhood/Elementary Degree, Birth~3rd grade back then. We had decided when we first married before having children, I would be a stay @ home Mommy~my dream & my Hubby's dream for our children! I wouldn't work, well~staying home is work but no paycheck work! :0) I did start subbing when both our kiddos were in school b/c Education was/still is in my ♥! I had the HONOR to work w/the BAC Class~challenging but the rewards were GREATER!! I was asked to take the Aide job~wanted to but not full time, I did work over 8 weeks everyday w/these sweet children while they interviewed, (no bragging but asked when the new Aide would start, they had not interviewed b/c they wanted me to change my mind). I told them I wouldn't work full time~we had a very sick lil girl(almost lost her 2 tms by this time) ~going w/my babies to school & coming home w/them fulfilled a dream of mine to "teach" & I did teach, not just do the "sub thing only", loved going & coming w/our kiddoes when school was over, they never were home alone! Yes, we did sacrifice $$ wise w/this choice, one we do not regret @ all, for us~God's Rewards were more than enough & we saw His Blessings making $$ stretch!! I also was BLESSED to teach deaf children tap~amazing they can feel the beat to be able to tap!! Loved all of it! ~SORRY FOR the LENGTH of that!! ~~You work w/these Blessings from Jesus & the Angels that are their parents!!! MANY Jewels will be on your Crown~thank you for doing what you do! We have friends w/children w/extremely special needs~knowing how they handle it amazes us!!! You Bless MANY!!! Again, thank you!!!! ~Our kiddos are grown & married(had them asap to be young~LOL~when they were grown, both are married & have blessed us w/4 Blessings from the Lord~Sweet Grandbabies!! Empty Nesters~loving this time w/just the 2 of us & will be married 30 years this November, I am blessed w/the man the Lord showed me was "the one"! (We have friends that our age w/lil ones, ages 5~10 or preteen, we are thankful to have married young, had our kiddos young b/c we wanted to be young Empty Nesters to enjoy this time of our lives together, :0)!!!
~~~~Off the subject again! I did write you about sizing of the "must have wedge & jeans"….got them yesterday & I love them! My Hubby got the packages off the porch, Isaid, "thank you for getting me new shoes & jeans", he said "your welcome, glad I shopped for you", :0), he did love them both on me!! Your sizing was perfect for me! Thank you for taking the time to answer me & I eat whatever I want even wearing size 24 jeans Girl! ;0)))))
My main reason for writing today was to tell you THANK YOU FOR HOW YOU BLESS THE CHILDREN & THEIR FAMILIES!!!!! GOD BLESS YOU!! GOD BLESS YOU FOR BLESSING A MAMA OF ONE OF GOD'S ANGELS!!!
Anonymous says
I am finally going to order the must have jeans. I noticed on Nordstrom's comments for the non distressed version that a couple of people said they went up a size. Do you recommend that?
Sheaffer says
Hi there! I would definitely recommend that. I ordered a size up and they were perfect!
xoxo,
Sheaffer 🙂
p.s. You're gonna love them!
Amanda Brezgel says
The link for the striped open front cardigan doesn't work… 🙁
Sheaffer says
Hi Amanda! So sorry! It should work now!
You can also cut and past this into your browser: http://rstyle.me/n/bzmscpvje
xoxo,
Sheaffer 🙂