It’s Friday, so y’all know what that means! It’s time to link up with Erika, Andrea, and Narci and let everybody know what some of my favorite things are right now!
FAVORITE #1: I’m Still Rockin’ The Flare Jeans
On this particular day I decided to wear my flares and channel my inner hippie! I loved THIS TOP with my flares (light wash option HERE) and wedges, but it would be just as cute with MY ANKLE SKINNY JEANS and FLAT COGNAC SANDALS. I’m wearing a small in the top, so I think it’s true to size.


FAVORITE #2: My New Monogrammed Barrington Tote
So, I got a new Barrington tote, and I’m sooooooo pleased with it! I adore the navy geometric pattern, and I think the floating monogram with the pink and red stripe is absolutely darling! The bag totally kicked up the old tee and shorts formula SEVERAL notches!
MUST HAVE jacket / olive tank / pilcro shorts / similar cognac sandals / sunglasses / turquoise necklace / monogrammed St. Anne tote c.o. Barrington
I mean, COME ON. That’s a cute bag! It’s the Savannah tote that I’m carrying (I prefer the zipper, interior pockets, and the little bit smaller size). If you want a little bigger, specifically if you are thinking of using your bag as a carry on, then I would go for the St. Anne for plenty of room! However, even the Savannah can hold my wallet, make-up bag, sunglasses case, and a bottle of water (with tons of room to spare) on a normal day. I’ve even fit my denim jacket or my laptop inside of it on days when I’ve needed those things.
I get lots of questions about the straps on these totes and if they will hold up. And the answer is YES!!! These totes are incredibly well made, and Barrington stands behind their products. They are an AWESOME company and their customer service is top-notch! If you are interested in my exact totel, lick HERE for the Savannah, choose the navy geometric pattern, choose the “lipstick-rose” monogram color, and then choose the floating monogram.
And I know it’s still a little bit early, but a tote would make a FANTASTIC Mother’s Day gift (for yourself or your mom)! Below you will also see the cosmetic kit c/o Barrington on the left (which I use as a travel bag) and the accessories case c/o Barrington on the right (which I use for a make-up bag). The Savannah zippered tote is in the middle, and don’t forget that they have diaper bags as well! This would be a great gift to get your daughter if she’s pregnant!
FAVORITE #3: An Outfit Made up of Great Basics
There’s nothing to this outfit really, but I love that it’s made up of a lot of great basics (3 items that should have been a must have!). My top is from last year, but several different colors of this year’s version are available! I’m wearing an x-small in the top, but it’s a little snug across the back. If I had to buy it again, I would probably stay true to size and get a small. And my necklace is a great wear with pretty much everything necklace.
blouse (some are 40% OFF HERE)/ necklace / earrings (Should have been a MUST HAVE!) / AG skinny ankle jeans (Should have been a MUST HAVE!)/ nude flats (Should have been a MUST HAVE!)/ cross body
I think THIS top is great! And how awesome does it look with white jeans?!? This just screams summer to me!
FAVORITE #4: GREAT SPRING SWEATER (ON SALE!)
Here’ s my Savannah tote again, but this time I’m showing it with THIS darling sweater! Lucky y’all, even though it’s the first time I’m showing you this sweater (and I bought it full price a couple of weeks ago), it’s already 40% OFF! Which makes it ONLY $34.80! I sized up and am wearing a medium in the sweater. I would consider sizing up, especially if you sometimes need a little more room in the boob area. #sorrydad The sweater comes in two other colors, but I ADORE pink and orange together!
sweater / similar flare jeans / $18 necklace / cork wedges (order 1/2 a size up)/ earrings / tote c.o. Barrington
FAVORITE #5: WORK OUT GEAR POST
Lots of you liked Wednesday’s post about my preferred work out gear and my GET HEALTHY plan last year where I showed you what I ate and what I did for exercise! If you missed it, click HERE!
similar Nike sports bra / another sports bra option with incredible reviews / zella side tie top / zella live-in crop leggings / similar Nike Free shoes / Kate Spade mini studs
FAVORITE #6: CORK CLUTCH GIVEAWAY!
So on Monday I talked about THIS cork clutch. And y’all went crazy for it. Well, I’ve got two pieces of great news: 1) SHEAFFER20 has been extended for you to get 20% OFF your entire order! WooHoo! 2) I teamed up with Jenny today (the super sweet owner and creative mind behind Grateful Bags) and she is giving away 1 cork clutch with 2 monogrammed acrylic plates that can be switched in and out! There are lots of different ways you can enter: Follow Sheaffer Told Me To on instagram HERE. Follow Grateful Bags on instagram HERE. Visit Sheaffer Told Me To on facebook HERE (and if you “like” my page you often get heads up on sales and new content). Visit Grateful Bags on facebook HERE. You can also click HERE to get 5 entries for following by e-mail.
See y’all back here on Monday! I’ve got an outfit for you that I’m really excited about!
Erika Slaughter says
So many cute tops today! You’ve been finding some good ones! And if any of your readers haven’t tried those flares and are slightly interested, they should go for it! I was a skeptic and thought they just weren’t made for me UNTIL I tried them!!
Susan Jeffries says
I remember those field trip days so fondly. I would love to do that again but high school kids don’t take field trips:( Great picks today! I love all of the embroidery for summer!! Susan
Narci says
I’m loving those embroidered tops!! So cute!! 🙂
Alison says
Are these flares super tight in the thigh area? Can you suggest some that are a little more relaxed in the thigh? Am looking for a slightly darker color, maybe a retro blue. I typically wear a 6, but my thighs are not super skinny. Thoughts?? Thx!!!!
Sheaffer says
Hi Alison! On Monday’s post I have several flare options suggested for you to try! Check it out here: https://sheaffertoldmeto.com/case-flare-jeans/ Hope it helps! xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
Shay Shull says
The cork clutch and the Barrington bag are so cute! And I love the shorts with the denim too!
April says
Hi! I love your site but rarely comment. So I’ve bought a pair of white jeggings and I have a pair of white flare crops. The problem with the crops is I’m not sure what undergarment situation is best. I probably just need to go look around some of the big dept. stores but what I currently have is not going to work. Luckily most of my tops go past my bottom so it’s not a huge issue. I would love to know if you have any recommendations though.
Sheaffer says
Hi, April! I wear a Hanky Panky regular rise NUDE thong. You can find them at Nordstrom! Hope this helps. xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
Susan Maliff says
I purchased my first Grateful Bag last year and absolutely love it! I love the cork clutch, would be perfect for Spring/Summer!
Libby says
I LOVE Spanx Undietectable panty –the soft nude color is truly undetectable under white pants
Melanie says
Ive been dying for the black and white Barrington bag. One of these days I’ll bit the bullet and do it!
Lisa says
Cute new Barrington! Noticed your first initial is actually L! Curious what it stands for (if willing to share)?
Sheaffer says
Hi, Lisa!My first name is Laure! My middle name is Sheaffer, but my parents have always called me Sheaffer! Xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
Gina says
You look great in the flares! I don’t feel like I can pull them off anymore! In fact I had that in my Thursday confessions… ahh! Love the hippie look though 🙂
cassie {hi sugarplum} says
You look absurdly cute in those shorts and olive tee. Like, ridiculously cute. It’s a good thing I like you so much, and you’re funny, or I might have to give side eye. 😉 xo
Erin says
Boom. Couldn’t wait for the giveaway so I ordered the cork clutch TODAY! I cannot wait to get it! And I’m going to look at the Barrington totes over the weekend…I’ve eyed them on your site for soooooo long and I think I’m finally ready for the splurge…Mothers Day gift to myself???
Jill says
First thanks for turning me on to Barrington. It’s all I carry and just ordered FIVE graduation gifts. Love that they have both a collegiate and sorority line!
Wanted to follow up about their customer service. You weren’t stretching the truth. The straps on my St. Ann from early last year are unraveling and no questions asked they are replacing it with a brand new one. I should note this doesn’t happen often. They had a batch that was bad due to the material they used. It has been corrected now.
I especially love my new spring monogrammed tote. Thank you so much for the discounts too!
Jill