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Now it’s time for the recap!!!!!!! Harrison opened up the show by teasing something that’s going to happen on After The Final Rose. Yeah, yeah Harrison. We’ve heard this before. THE MOST DRAMATIC BLAH BLAH BLAH. But this time he threw in the word HISTORICAL. I have to admit, I was intrigued. IT BETTER BE GOOD, HARRISON. #bringit
So, one of the first things we see this week is Nick frolicking down the streets of Finland with a pack of merry “elves” behind him without a care in the world. And this my friends, this was the high point off the show. Seriously. This is it. This was the pinnacle. #downhillfromhere
Before either of the girls showed up, Nick had some alone time with his family. I want to take a minute to point out here that I know that not everybody is a fan of Nick. BUT I AM. I think he’s real, and kind, and there’s no doubt that he has a loving and wonderful family. And I think it’s both terrible and hysterical how obvious it is that Nick’s parents are SO OVER THIS whole Bachelor thing. LOOK AT THEIR FACES. #seriouslyoverit
And y’all! We got to see sweet Bella again! Don’t think for one second that they aren’t already prepping Miss Bella for Bachelor 2022. Because this girl is the real deal. And the producers know it. Poor Mama and Papa Vial. A 5th Bachelor season might just do them in.
RAVEN’S TIME WITH THE FAMILY
Raven arrived, hugged the family, made small talk, and then they headed into the dining room for dinner. Was it just me, or was this table freakishly short? They look like giants, right?
In summary, Raven was easy to love, and everybody in the family did seem to pretty much love her. Raven told Nick’s dad that she told him that she loved him, but he didn’t say it back (but that she was okay with that). And she said that she was hoping for a proposal. Dad said she was more mature than he was expecting. I guess that’s because she looks 12. Again, the whole family seemed to be absolutely smitten with Raven. Except one person. Who just happened to be Nick. DANGIT.
Nick’s mom, although cautious, did say she could never imagine Raven hurting anybody. Raven’s ex-boyfriend would like to go ahead and beg to differ. And he has the stiletto shaped scars to prove it.
VANESSA’S TURN WITH THE FAMILY
Vanessa had a hard act to follow after the love fest with Raven. They sat down as a family and asked her to tell them everything about her. She said she loves her family, her job, her friends..and her family….and her family…and her family. Oh, and let us not forget that her love for her Canadian homeland runs deep.
While with mom, she said “I love your son. I’ve never felt like this for anyone.” Mom was eating it up. BUT THEN she confided that even though she wants to end up with Nick and can’t imagine any other scenario, that she still wasn’t totally sure about ending up engaged. This was Nick’s mom after that bomb was dropped.
Nick spent some time with his dad and admitted to him that he had a type. You don’t say, Nick. I’d like to submit this as Exhibit A Your Honor.
Actually, he said his type was a strong woman. Nick’s dad was like “Yeah, and how well has that worked out for you so far?” Nick’s dad is so wise.
Vanessa had some time with dad and was asking him the hard questions. She asked dad if love was enough to make a relationship last. Dad answered “No.” It’s commitment and it’s selflessness.” And then he started tearing up bawling. And then Vanessa started crying and said “I never thought I was going to meet anybody like your son.” She then went on to say that she would be willing to move from Canada for him. And that my friends is what you call a 180. #ithinkihavewhiplash
Dad said that Vanessa convinced him that she loved Nick.
Speaking of Dad. Corinne needs to educate Nick’s dad about the power of a good nap. He looked totes tired the entire show.
FAMILY TIME AFTER BOTH GIRLS
Nick’s mom started crying. Again. MY GOODNESS The Bachelor scars run deep with the Vial family. And I feel like I would be remiss if I didn’t mention the following: This guy is the BAD BOY brother. Right? I want to know his back story.
LAST DATE WITH VANESSA
For their last date, they rode horseback through a Winter Wonderland….which was about 23 million times better than a zero gravity plane or doing the polar blear plunge. It really was gorgeous. And she didn’t puke or suffer from hypothermia, so I’d consider that a win.
They came upon a little shack in the middle of the wonderland, and out popped Santa Clause. And y’all, part of me thinks that Vanessa thought it was actually Santa. Because the girl was PUMPED. Santa asked them what they wanted for Christmas. Nick said he wanted a turtleneck sweater that was more turtlenecky than last week’s sweater and Vanessa said she wanted Nick to just shut up, move to Canada, and sign up for Sunday family lunch till death do they part. Just kidding, they both said “love”. Santa’s elves couldn’t whip up a happy ending, but they did craft a heart shaped piece of wood with Nick and Vanessa’s pictures burned into it. I would have asked for the gift receipt.
Vanessa and Nick had some time together. And let me tell you, it was a lot of 2nd verse, same as the 1st. Vanessa was feeling weird about the fact that she’s not the only girl left and was feeling unsure about where she stands. She really wasn’t sure how she was going to feel about the fact if she ended up with him only because their relationship was slightly better than the other relationship. I mean, do they not get the show in Canada? Her concern is literally the exact premise of the show.
She straight out asked him, are you ready to get engaged? And he was basically like “Well…maybe…hard to know..I still have another date with another chick…..”
OUCH.
She started bawling, but Nick confused it as a cue for I want to make out. I hate it when that happens.
So, at the end of this date, I was thinking CLASSIC BACHELOR. The producers were playing mind games with us making us think it WAS NOT Vanessa, when it in fact really was Vanessa. OR. And I’m not kidding. Maybe they were making it look like it’s not Vanessa, so we’ll think it IS Vanessa, even though it’s really not Vanessa. Yep. I had it all figured out.
LAST DATE WITH RAVEN
They went ice skating together (they piped in the song “Kiss Me” for our pleasure), and Nick and Raven were LEGIT precious together. I’m talking ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE. They were FUN and PLAYFUL, pretty much opposite day of what it was with I Can’t Believe There’s Still Another Girl Here Vanessa.
At the end of their couple’s skate, they laid down right on the ice and made out. At least the frozen lake couldn’t give them dysentery.
And just when you thought it couldn’t get any more adorable, Nick brought out some Husky puppies. PUPPIES! STOP IT!!!!!!!
And I hate to ruin the puppy moment, but we have something very important to discuss. I didn’t mention it last week because I was trying to give Nick the benefit of the doubt. But now we HAVE To talk about this because it’s quite clearly intentional. WHAT. THE. HECK. Tuck in your bangs, buddy.
#tuckinthetuft Let’s get this trending.
MEETING WITH NEIL LANE
Mr. Lane showed up at Nick’s cabin with about 7.3 mill worth of diamonds. And even Mr. Lane couldn’t let the opportunity pass to throw a little bit of shade Nick’s way with a coy “I hope this one works.”
FINAL ROSE CEREMONY
IT’S TIME! WE’VE MADE IT Y’ALL! IT’S TIME FOR THE FINAL ROSE CEREMONY
The fist girl out of the limo was Raven. Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIICK!
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! #hidethestilletos
I’m screaming, because if you’ve ever watched the show before, you know that being the first out of the limo on finale day isn’t a good thing. The second Raven walked up to him, he looked like he was going to puke. She said “I’m ready. I couldn’t be more sure. And I love you.” And in the next second, I think she knew that Nick wasn’t choosing her. And then he basically gave her the ol’ “It’s not you, it’s me.” speech. She said “I will never regret standing her and telling you how I feel.” He said, ‘I’ll miss you”. And she said, “I know.” And at that point, I felt like I wanted to stand up and slow clap. Because he IS going to miss her. Especially on Sunday’s around lunch time.
Vanessa was up next. She walked in to the proposal room, and the way he scooped her up and hugged her actually had me convinced that he really did love her. And don’t get me wrong here. I like Vanessa, I just don’t like them together. He said lots of lovely things. She said lots of lovely things, BUT NARY A TEAR. And I’m sorry, but I wasn’t really buying it.
AFTER THE FINAL ROSE
Raven handled herself beautifully! I mean, NOT A STILETTO IN SIGHT. What gives? She was sweet and well spoken. And Harrison invited her to Paradise! YIPEEEEE! My goodness I think she and Luke Pell need to hook up and go live on a farm somewhere. And have little country babies.
Here was my take away from the time with Nick and Vanessa. I GIVE IT 2 months. 3 months tops. (But I said the same thing for Kaitlyn and what’s his name, so what do I know.) These two crazy kids seemed to already be having some relationship difficulties. I’ll say it again: I like both of them as people individually, I just don’t love them together. If you need a little proof that there is already trouble in paradise, the below pic highlights words they kept spewing on Monday night.
OKAY. SO THIS IS IT. TIME FOR THE HISTORICAL ANNOUNCEMENT!!!!! Harrison let everybody know that Rachel was about to meet her first several guys. WHAT? THIS IS UNHEARD OF! It’s also a little LACKLUSTER. Some might say “HISTORICAL” was maybe a tad dramatic? The first guy on stage told her she needn’t look any further. He pulled out two tickets to Vegas (which was cute and funny), but then he pulled out a ring. Not cute anymore. Now it’s creepy. Slow your roll, Damario.
The second guy made me…..and the audience….and if I may be so bold to speak on behalf of my country…..the rest of America so uncomfortable. There was an almost hand shake, and then an almost hug, and then an almost kiss….and I pretty much wanted to die. My face looked like the emoji with all of the teeth showing, and my right shoulder rose up to cover my right ear. I don’t know why, it was instinctual. I think it helped.
These introductions were soooooooooooooo awkward. But I’m telling you, Harrison was POSITIVELY GIDDY.
The third guy came out and said “I’m ready to go black and I’m never going to go back.” Nobody knew how to react. I think his name was Dean.
Then the 4th guy came out. He was good looking, charming as all get out, and THE BOY HAD MOVES. They both broke out into a spontaneous dance routine and I was half waiting for Rachel to give him the first impression rose right then and there. #teameric
Can’t we just end it right now? I mean, I would seriously consider calling the season. JUST PICK ERIC!!!
Now I have to know. Who was happy that he picked Vanessa? Who thinks that it’s going to last? Who is still experiencing 2nd hand embarrassment from the on stage introductions with Rachel’s first 4 guys? Who wants to help me lovingly sweep Nick’s bangs into his hat? Leave a comment with your thoughts!
Erika Slaughter says
Me!!! I was glad he picked Vanessa! Judging by the After the Final Rose, I wouldn’t put any money on them staying together for the long haul. I kept waiting for one of them to say-it’s been hard BUT we’re committed to each other. Nope.
Shay Shull says
The Bachelor finale is kind of like mile 26 of a marathon. You’re completely worn out and glad it’s over ;). Can’t wait to read your recaps of next season!! They’re always my favorite posts!!!
Kristin S says
Preach, Shay.
Meredith says
I agree! It can be excruciating! Sometimes I don’t even watch the show… I just read Sheaffer’s recaps… they are THE BEST! I ALWAYS look forward to Wednesday mornings… I get my kids on the bus and sit down with a cup of coffee and Sheaffer’s recap. 🙂 There is a little empty space in my life when she’s not recapping.
Carolyn says
When the show first aired, the runner uo didnt always get out if the limo first. There were about 3 seasons that they would pick the winner then say, now I need to say goodbye to so and so.
chris says
Ture. There have been occasions where they have flipped the order. But as a pretty decent rule, it is first up/first out.
Shannon in PA says
Hey, Sheaffer! Always love your recaps. Don’t forget to add that Jen girl from Bachelor in Paradise to the list of girls that are Nick’s type. Remember her? Long brown hair? Definitely fits the bill – LOL!!
Thanks for always keeping me laughing… and also for the great sales! 🙂
Narci says
I’m a big fan of Eric, and I agree! Let’s just go ahead and pick him! How cute were they dancing together??? Made me super excited to watch her season!
Holly Allen says
I had a feeling he would pick her, but I gotta say, neither of them seem all that into it! I give it 3 months only because I think they’ll try to ride the press wagon a bit.
Lindsay says
I am happy he picked her! I think the show focused on the rough spots to throw us off and I think they chose to be real about the struggles on ATFR…..but that being said, I am not sure about their chances to stay together. But I did love them!
KS says
I agree! I think Vanessa doesn’t sugar coat anything(the whole season), and answered honestly, maybe more honestly then any other contestant. I don’t know if they’ll make it, but I wouldn’t take their answers as a direct sign it won’t. If you read other past bach blogs, they always talk about how hard the transition is. Just most of the time people put on a good face for ATFR
Becky says
I like Vanessa, but don’t see them lasting. I have been curious about Nick’s family everything they are on. The mom had 11 kids? She looks great!! What do the other siblings do? I like how you asked if the one brother was the bad brother.
Lori says
His poor family! I think his parents have aged ten years over the last few. True, I like them all… separately though. Bwahahah… #tuckinthetuft !!!! Does anyone agree with me that Raven needs to give some of her hair to locks of love? She has enough for two donations!! I am ready for next season, but only for your recaps. Thanks, Shaeffer
Emily Wright says
Yep- every time I see her I think “cut it off and donate it! You’ll still have super long hair!”
JoEllen says
Vanessa and Nick are never going to make it. This is the early part of the relationship. They are supposed to still be infatuated with each other, not struggling to make it work.
Harrison should just go ahead and name the 2nd bachelor introduction to Rachel “the most awkward introduction ever” . At least they gave us some hope with Erik (the 4th guy). There seemed to be some real chemistry there. I loved his smile.
PS- Love your recaps!
Michelle says
I was team Raven from the beginning! She always asked Nick how he was feeling, doing, etc. So caring, fun, and happy. I hope she finds love in Paradise! With Vanessa, it was always about her – my family, my job, my country. Having lunch with her family EVERY Sunday – not happening and I get along tremendously with my family and my in-laws. I don’t think I ever heard her ask Nick how he was doing. I only connected with her when I saw her with her students. I don’t think this will work out with Vanessa but I hope it does because I don’t think Nick’s family can survive another season. I like Nick but I’m kind of over him too. Introducing Rachel to the 4 guys was not historical – just AWKWARD!
Patsy says
Agree on All of your points!
Denise Swain says
Your recaps are always so spot on! I LOVE THEM and look forward to them every week!!????I give Nick and Vanessa 2 months tops. I like you, like
them both, but just not together.
Kristin says
Love Nick but the Buddy the Elf look needed to stop! It might go down as one of the most awkward after shows in history… will Nick make a cameo in Paradise? Things will surely be done for them by then.
Melissa says
Ha! Buddy the Elf ????
Mari says
I really like Vanessa and was surprised Nick picked her only because she had substance and a lot more going for her then the usual Bachelor-type girl who will say and do anything to win. She looked at the relationship more realistically then most of these people do and asked the questions that generally get swept under the rug. I think Vanessa is one of the classiest women they’ve had on the show. With that being said, like most of the couples that emerge from the show, I doubt they will make it outside of the Bachelor bubble.
JoAnn says
I give them until dancing with the stars is over. Then they’ll be over! Did you also notice that through Nick and Vanessa’s proposal time that at one point she didn’t have lipstick on, then the next scene, she automatically had a fresh shiny coat on?!
Kim Nations says
Yes I did. What’s up with that.. Any answers for that.. ?
Wendy says
I noticed it too…#themysteryofvanessasdisappearinglipstick. She had on a pretty shiny red lip stick/gloss and then it disappeared. This is also when the camera zoomed in on her shoulder twice. I think there was a lot of kissing and/or crying and after editing, what seemed like a second of “she’s wearing lipstick and now she’s not”, probably was a long period of time. Interesting to know what took place though.
GIna Z. says
I think that was an edit to make us THINK that Nick actually talked first. I think she talked… and then maybe they kissed .. and THEN he talked. So when they showed him talking at first and she didn’t have any on.. it’s cuz they had already kissed. Not sure why they did the edit that way, but that’s my guess as to why the lipstick was off and then on.
Susan says
You made me lol with the Raven and Luke comment! Yes! Perfect match! Schaffer predicted it here first!
chris says
My call was that he would pick Vanessa and it would end quickly. In the end I thought both girls were perfectly nice girls but neither was a match for him. And I’m also with you – I like Nick. I do think he is genuine and a good person. But he didn’t make for the most exciting Bachelor (I found him much more interesting on his previous seasons)
Rebecca says
Did anybody notice that when he walked Raven out she didn’t have her coat on. Then when Vanessa showed up Raven’s coat was still hanging on the hook ?!
I don’t think they will last either.
Rebecca Musser says
I noticed that as well. Shiver!
Toni :0) says
I saw that too!! What was up with that?
Gina says
I did too. Vanessa saw the coat hanging there and thought I’m it! But then again she never watch the show before so maybe she was clueless.
Randi says
I noticed that too! Thought poor girl didn’t get the guy or her coat.
Kori says
I noticed that too! Nick dumped her and sent her out in the cold! And Vanessa looked like she saw the coat when she walked in so she knew she was the one.
Nicole Ghea says
I am glad he picked Vanessa. I hope they stay together because I don’t think I can handle another bachelor show with Nick!!
On another note, what is the color of the block sandals you ordered and show in the picture? The link doesn’t show that color only darker ones. I think they would be perfect for a dress I just bought!!
Sheaffer says
That color is now sold out. ????
Kat says
Raven and Luke! Brilliant! I was so impressed with Raven. She had the most poise and grace than any other second place finisher and was equally kind during ATFR. What a good representative for the south! I hope she meets the nice guy on bachelor in paradise like Carly did.
NanC says
I agree that she was poised and displayed grace as she was rejected in the final and at the ATFR, BUT she embarrassed herself big time by TMI in explaining her breakup (or beating up) of her previous boyfriend and her lack of the big O in that relationship. There are things that shouldn’t be aired publicly and she needs to learn boundaries in that regard. I think she is young and immature and was encouraged to spill all the dirty details but it did not reflect positively on her. Or the south!
Michele says
My theory is that Raven will go on BIP, fall for someone and then Nick will be one of the late arrivals because he and Vanessa will have broken up by the time he’s done with DWTS!
Alexi says
Totally agree! Nick & Vanessa don’t have a chance. I noticed Harrison didn’t even ask them about wedding plans… and he always does! Go back and watch Vanessa’s proposal/final rose scene and just look at her lipstick the whole time. They totally spliced it together/filmed some parts later.
Kara says
Raven and Luke-PERFECT! I agree with the above comment “Sheaffer said it first”
I also read Ali Fedotowsky-Manno’s blog and she said the introductions are always awkward, the producer just do a good job of editing by the time we see the show.
Can’t wait until next season, your recaps are the best!
Erin Port says
I have to admit I stopped watching this season and read your recaps to keep me up to date but I did tune in for the proposal and ATFR and I just kept thinking it was so awkward. I am glad I wasn’t the only one!!! Love your recaps!
Meredith says
Ok so I get Raven ending up with Luke, but I was thinking she should go with James Taylor. Remember that sweet southern boy that played guitar?! They would be adorable!
Jill says
That’s such a great idea!!
Shawnee says
After Monday’s episode I said Raven needs to hook up with James Taylor!!!
Jana Duresky says
First of all I look forward to your recaps! I was so mad when Raven got out of the car I yelled and scared my 2 year old grandson and made him cry! Ooops! I can’t believe he chose Vanessa and don’t think they will last as she is too committed to her life and family in Canada and said so a “million” times! And I did notice the lipstick thing too Joanne! lol
Sarah Lewis says
LOVE YOUR RECAPS!! Did you also notice that when he ditched Raven, he sent her out into the wintery abyss with no fur coat?! Like did you see that fur coat?! This goes beyond the possibility of hypothermia and now into the category of ripping her off. That thing was amazing and they kept it for themselves! 😉
Erin says
#RavenAndLuke #Yesssssss #SheafferTheMatchmaker
Thanks for making me laugh all season. I think I enjoy your recaps more than the show at this point!!
Erin says
THANK YOU for pointing out the bangs… it has been driving me crazy for the past two weeks. I so wanted him to pick Raven… they just seemed so easy together. I was kind of hoping for a complete Mesnick where Nick changed his mind and called her limo back. Although, honestly, he should just go for try #5 and show up on Rachel’s season because she was really his true love. Poor Nick. I give this relationship +/- 5 mins from when he gets kicked off DWTS.
Janet says
What about the fact that they let Raven leave after getting dumped in the freezing cold WITHOUT her COAT. Then when Vanessa walks in, Chris hangs up her jacket on top of Raven’s. What about that? Who lets a dumped woman walk into the snow in a fancy dress and heels without giving her coat back? Why didn’t Raven get it? I don’t understand.
Abby says
I knew it was going to be Vanessa just from the editing. And I was so bummed. Raven is amazing. Can’t wait for the next season to start. I’m an addict. And love your recaps!!
Amanda @ Cupcake N Dreams says
This recap was everything. I just don’t feel like they are going to make it. I don’t like Nick and I wouldn’t have wanted Raven to end up with him either, even though she seemed to care for him more. (Luke Pell yes!) It’ll be interesting to see what reasoning is given for Nick and Vanessa’s future breakup. Rachel’s introductions were SO awkward!
Mary says
I’m with you! I like them but they don’t seem right for each other. I hope it lasts for their and their families’ sakes though.
Tiffany says
“He looked totes tired the whole show” OMG! LMAO!! You are just too much!I
Don’t think Nick and Vanessa are going to last either. Things between them seemed very strained after the show and it was all just so uncomfortable.
Off to teach 1st grade today but just had to read your recap before I left for work. Hysterical!! Thanks for the laughs. I’m still giggling!
Sara says
Am I the only one who is sick of Nick? I haven’t liked him since Andy’s season. He seems to have no substance, no sense of humor, nothing is interesting about him. I felt he came off as awkward and condescending to the women during this whole season and I don’t think he’s that cute either. I’m glad he didn’t choose Raven because she deserves a better man than a 4 time bachelor reject. I don’t think he’ll last with Vanessa bc neither of them want to compromise.
Melissa says
Exactly!!! ^ boring guy
KJM says
I think the reason Raven and Nick had such a fun easy date and why she was so poised and sweet is that there was no pressure. I don’t think she really loved Nick and probably knew it was going to be Vanessa, so she just played her part. In the rejection limo, she just talked about how sad she was that she hadn’t yet found the one and that she wasn’t sure she would ever find love. Nothing about Nick.
I would be surprised if Nick and Vanessa lasted, but I think it’s a little hard on them to be saying they should be happy and infatuated at this point. You should be having hard discussions before and while you’re engaged. Vanessa also said that she hadn’t actually watched a full season of the Bachelor, which makes her emotions and statements make a lot more sense. I thought Jordan and JoJo looked MISERABLE on ATFR and they’re somehow still together.
Cathy says
Your Bach recaps are the best and always have me laughing. Don’t ever quit! The line about Corrine showing Nick’s dad about napping was the best.
Nick and Vanessa are on the road to a break up.
#teameric for Rachel
Jenny says
“He’s going to miss her… especially on Sundays around lunch time”… Bahahaha! So funny!!! I rooted for Vanessa since day one, but finally on the last 2 episodes, I switched to team Raven. I think his life would have been a lot more laid back if he would have. Thanks for the recaps, they always crack me up!
Stacy says
So I agree with it all. Three hours was a little much but we are used to that. I knew it was gonna be Vanessa but I can already see the Us Weekly cover talking about the split. Right when Nick was ice skating with Raven, I saw the bangs and I said to my husband “Sheaffer is gonna have a field day with this”. He said “What??” but dang, I was right. I thought it looked weird and I am so glad you mentioned it in your post!!!!!!
Janna says
Thanks again for recapping another “most dramatic season ever” of the Bachelor! Your recaps are something I ALWAYS look forward to. 🙂 Soooooooo funny! 🙂 As for Nick & Vanessa, there is no way they’re going to stick it out… for the same obvious reasons why Chris & Whitney didn’t (and 95% of the other Bachelor/Bachelorette couples). Once the fairy tale adventures are over and the “real world” becomes reality, one person having to uproot their entire life for the other becomes too much of a nightmare. Hence, Whitney not leaving her great job and life in Chicago for the corn fields of Iowa, and why I guarantee that Vanessa is not going to leave the job she loves, the family she loves and the country she loves, just for Nick. Nick needs to finally quit the Bachelor franchise and try, for once, to find someone in real life circumstances, like everyone else in the world. The Bachelor/Bachelorette shows are super fun to watch, but the chances of a couple actually lasting after having connected on the show is a rarity. There are a few exceptions, of course, but the general rule is this is more of a “get famous” gimmick than a “finding love” opportunity. That doesn’t stop me from watching though! LOL
Sue K. says
I love this blog and EVERYTHING about it and your recaps rock so hard!!! But help a girl out with a little confusion over your monogram. LSS? I won’t be able to sleep until I figure it out. 🙂 (LOVE that bag!)
Sheaffer says
Hi, Sue! My first name is actually Lauren and my middle name is Sheaffer……but my parents always called me Sheaffer! 🙂
Allison says
I’m thinking Raven needs to go on Paradise, but finds out she is pregs with Nick’s baby (remember post coitus skipping scene) and he shows up to console her, but then sleeps with Corinne and they’re both pregs. THAT would be historical. Except, I couldn’t see that happen to his parents:( #ishouldworkforabc
Beth says
Okay….so I did it. I finally took the plunge. I ordered the strapless bra. I know…intense! I’ve looked at them several times, but never clicked “purchase”. With summer tops and dresses just around the corner I knew I couldn’t put it off any longer. Can’t wait for it to arrive!
Kate C says
Love your recaps so much! Am I the only one that thinks sweet Bella looks just like a young Jennifer Garner? 🙂
Kelly says
I thought the exact same thing!
LeAnn says
Sheaffer, is there anyway to go back and read your old Bachelor recaps from previous seasons? You said that you said the same thing about Kaitlyn and Shawn so I’d love to re-read that and other seasons too! Thanks!
Sheaffer says
Hi, LeAnn! YES! If you go to my blog on a pc, there will be a line of tabs under my header. One of the tabs say “The Bachelor”. It will start with the most recent recap, but you can scroll down through other seasons! Thanks for reading! xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
Gina says
Love your recaps! Sad to say but I don’t think Nick and Vanessa will last. I think he and Raven would have had more of a chance. I like the suggestion of Raven and Luke together or even James Taylor as someone else suggested! Nick as a late arrival on BIP would be good too if Raven is still there! I also noticed Raven being put in the car without her coat and then when Vanessa got there it was still hanging on the peg! If Vanessa had ever watched The Batchelor she would have realized she was going to be proposed to. I do wish it was mixed up more often so you don’t know the outcome by who steps out of the car first. I didnt notice Vanessa’s lipstick but when I went back I sure noticed it. Believe her declaration of love (with fresh lipstick) was said first thing before Nick even spoke (as Raven did) and then when Nick started talking she chewed off all her lipstick Really wish the editors would do a better job piecing these together.
Katie Allred says
I DO NOT see them sticking it out… she doesn’t want to compromise and we all know marriage is all about compromise.., I was shocked when Nick said they would live here in the USA!
Rachel meeting the guys was terrible! I wanted to hide for her!
Paula says
Hi there Sheaffer,
I can definitely testify to the ruggedness of the Barrington bags! I can’t find the name of the style I have been carrying for about two years now, but I purchased mine when you first starting introducing Barrington to us in your blog. It is all leather, cognac, and at the time they were also offering the leather initial tag you could tie onto your bag which I also bought. It is about 16 inches wide, and believe me, I can carry a TON of stuff in it. Besides my usual things, I carry bottles of Snapple, several bottles of water at a time to carry into the office with me, heavy items that are bundled together, oranges, small purchases from TJ Maxx or other places like that…I just can’t tell you how sturdy this bag is! I just keep throwing things in, and it handles it all. I too thought the straps were a concern at first, but they have proved me WRONG. This thing is a workhorse, and the longer you keep it, the better it looks! I still get compliments when I carry it. Highly recommend, you can’t go wrong!
GIna Z. says
I’m not sure if someone mentioned this already or not, but I actually appreciated the fact that they were both so real on ATFR and were using words like “hard” and “challenging”… because I can imagine it IS very hard and challenging to take your relationship from TV to real life. I feel like most of the time on ATFR it’s all fairytales and butterflies still… which is nice and happy for us as viewers, but not realistic all of the time. I’m not saying I think they’ll for sure last- they may, they may not… but I just appreciate that they’re being realistic and not being all “we’re so in love and everything has been super easy and it’s perfect and we’re perfect and everything’s perfect.” I think they DO love each other so I hope they’re able to make things work!
April Parrish says
Great recap!!!! So I have a huge question–What happened in the fantasy suite??? Harrison promised that we would find out. Seriously can’t believe that was not mentioned at After the Final Rose! Figured that would have been a big topic discussed and lots of questions for Vanessa about it!
Yes- I was also hoping for Raven!! Thanks for the recaps–always tons of laughs!!
Barbara says
My daughter and I always wonder why the top second or third contestant who has a really good sense of humour never gets chosen. I’m thinking of Sean and Desiree and now Raven. They play a little practical joke at hometown and then poof, their chances vanish.
Yes we definitely DO get the Bachelor in Canada, and we have our own versions as well, I’ve been wishing that you would watch and recap Sheaffer. I’ll let you know when the next season starts!
Watching Nick’s body language during ATFR said it all. While she held his arm or his knee, he hardly touched her. The writing is on the wall.
Ariana says
Glad he picked Vanessa. I love her strong personality. Everyone says she doesn’t want to compromise, but she’s leaving her job, family, and country for Nick. I don’t know if I’d ever do that for any guy!
Thanks for the fun recaps!
Elizabeth says
Hi, Sheaffer! I’m Len’s sister and am in love with your blog and especially your recaps! Just found you fairly recently, toward the beginning of the Bachelor season. 🙂
I was so hoping Nick would pick Raven. I liked Vanessa during their first one on one date but she got on my nerves big time after that, except for seeing her with her students. She shined while visiting with her class.
Does anyone know what was up with them wiping their mouths for a long time after their kiss on ATFR? They greeted each other with a kiss and then both kept wiping their mouths. I was so grossed out. Chris Harrison even was all, “Everything okay?”
Sheaffer says
Elizabeth! Oh my goodness!!!! HELLO! So fun that you found the blog and are reading!!!! Thank you! And no…I have no idea about the wiping mouth awkwardness on AFTR. It was beyond strange! xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
pam says
I think there are a lot of negative comments regarding Nick and Vanessa as a couple but I think Shay(mixandmatchmama) can verify that there is a ton of editing on the show as well as producer suggested behavior and ideas encouraged to get drama. Therefore watching the season unfold after filming is always hard on the engaged couple, especially the final pick who was unaware of so much of what was filmed. These couples barely know each other when they get engaged and the strain of the public scrutiny and the above mentioned challenges causes too much for most of the couples, hence very few make it to a wedding. Even Sean and Catherine really struggled after their season was over.
Rebecca says
I see farmer Chris and Whitney all over again. Whitney didn’t want to leave her job or move and Chris was on dancing with the stars. Same will happen here Vanessa will not want to move from Canada and Nick will be on dancing with the stars. Does anyone else notice that none of the bachelorettes have gone on to dancing with the stars only the bachelors ? Also, am I the only one that thinks Vanessa looks a lot like Penelope Cruz?
I love your recaps! Especially the slow clap. Lol
Jeanie says
I do not watch the show so have mostly skipped these recaps of yours. But I just finished reading this one and must say, you are hysterical!
Holly Chilek says
I thought Nick was the worst possible pick; he didn’t seem engaged at all during the entire season. ATFR, he and Vanessa were obviously not meant to be. He wants a career in LA….and this was his chance.
ggdall says
I doubt they make it a month. I didn’t think he liked any of the women this season like he did Kaitlyn! Also, why didn’t they give sweet Raven her coat back? Sending a girl to a limo in the snow with no coat is so rude! Also, I think it was still on the hook when Vanessa arrived…… ouch. Love your blog! 🙂
GiGi Turner says
I’m late reading your recap, but always love them! My husband suffered through the finale (He’s not a fan, so he says – LOL!) and immediately noticed that Raven didn’t get her coat when she left. I just knew you would have a comment, Shaeffer. I am all about Raven hooking up with Luke Pell or James Taylor! (Either would be a perfect Southern couple!) In fact, there were some tweets about the very thing, one from James Taylor, himself! She’s a doll! Nick & Vanessa were on Jimmy Kimmel ATFR and Nick commented they want to do everything “right” as far as immigration for Vanessa. Vanessa is going to be starting some type of charity for special needs adults here in the states. I still don’t see her staying away from her family in Canada very much. She made note of how important being with them was far too often. Personally, I’m tired of watching Nick!
Terra Heck says
Of all the shows this season, the only one I didn’t watch was the final show. Now I don’t have to!
I don’t see Nick and Vanessa making it long at all. I’m glad Raven got invited to Paradise. I really like her.
Megan says
Team Raven all the way! When Rachel was meeting her guys I was literally hiding my head under a blanket because I was so embarrassed for all involved. Harrison, you could have done better.
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Rachel S says
I don’t think Nick ever had the intention of actually marrying one of the girls. When it was down to Vanessa and Raven, I think he chose Vanessa because he figured when he called things off, there would be less chance of getting a stiletto to the head.
Ellen Gormley says
I think he made a mistake choosing Vanessa. They don’t click well together. I noticed the untucked bangs too! Commit to the hat Nick!
Poor Rachel, she just said that she was looking forward to the introductions and they go and ruin it for her but parading in only 4 of the guys. (why those four…) How weird and awkward! The introductions are always cringe-y as it is. This was far worse and didn’t live up to Harrison’s excitement. Clearly they were just trying to fill time because the interview with Nick and Vanessa was not going well. #temporary
Jennifer says
Hi! I was wondering if you feel like the savannah is to big for an everyday tote/purse. Or you use it just for your laptop?
Could you do a purse/tote blog one day?!i have so many questions about some of them. I purchased the black with the white inside and love it too! Thanks!!
Sheaffer says
Hi, Jennifer! I really prefer the Savannah to the St. Anne. It’s a little bit smaller, has more structure, AND has a zipper. Let me know if you have any other questions! xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
Y shaped Necklace says
Thanks for great recaps! The 4th one might be good as he know how to be happy.