Hello, ladies! Today’s post is a collaboration that I wasn’t necessarily excited for when I was first offered the opportunity. HOWEVER, I went from not necessarily excited to FREAKING PUMPED in just a handful of days.
When Soma initially reached out, I wasn’t sure about accepting the post for a couple of reasons. The first reason being that I already had a couple of different bras that I loved, and I already had undies that I was obsessed with. I didn’t think I needed any more options, and I didn’t think there was any way I would like Soma’s options better than the products I already owned and loved. The second reason I was hesitant to accept the post is that I had a preconceived notion that Soma was for older women. More on that in a minute…
But before saying an official “no thank you” to Soma, I headed to one of their stores to check things out. AND LADIES. THAT WAS IT FOR ME. I had a really nice sales associate that explained the different lines to me and got me excited to try some of the products for myself. I hope that is what I do for you today as well!
After trying the items for myself, I obviously accepted the post. And even though I knew Soma was going to be sending me 2 bras and 3 pairs of undies to review, I still walked out of there with 2 different pairs of pajamas, a lounging bra, and a pretty bra and undies set. I couldn’t help myself.
So I’m partnering today with Soma to to educate all of you about their products, and more specifically their Soma Solutions lines! These lines focus on REAL WOMEN with REAL PROBLEMS, and they help to SOLVE THOSE PROBLEMS! THANK YOU, SOMA!!!
Now, before I start highlighting my favorites, I wanted to pass along a promotion that Soma is doing right now (that they have never done before). From now until 04/13, Soma will be offering a Free Vanishing Edge Panty with the purchase of a Vanishing Back Bra (one per transaction)! This is a $16-$19 value! Click HERE to shop all of their Vanishing Back Bras that qualify for a free panty! Use code 36279. I also want to encourage all of you that it’s okay to splurge a little on your bras and undies. These items are the foundation of your outfit, and you wear them every dang day! Once you have some that you love, you will 100% agree that spending a little extra money is worth it!
The Vanishing Back Bra
One of the Soma Solutions lines focuses on bras that work to eliminate back fat. Not that any of us have back fat. #winkwink #coughcough
If you are confused as to what kind of a difference a bra could really make, check out the 15 second video that illustrates the power of the back smoothing Soma Vanishing Back Bra.
I tried on several of the bras in their Vanishing Back line, I liked a lot of them, but there is one that I felt made the most difference as far as a smooth line on my back. This bra totally holds me in without making me feel constricted, and it provides a seamless look in both front and back (with rounded and not pointy cups)! It’s great to wear with a white tee and all types of tops and dresses that hug the body a bit. Click HERE for the front closure Vanishing Back bra seen below (care of Soma Intimates).
I know that all of us have been in a situation where we think we look nice from the front, and then we either purposefully (or accidentally) catch a glimpse of our backs, and we’re like OMG!
Bulges and ripples (especially when wearing a tee or sweater) can totally ruin your look.
And I will tell you this. Back fat does not discriminate. All ages and shapes can have back fat. Even young and thin women (fist bumps to y’all) can have the dreaded back bulge if they are wearing an ill fitting or a poorly made bra!
This bra is awesome. Check out the pictures of the bra directly above and directly below. The cups are rounded and smooth (as seen above) and the closure is a front closure (which allows for a 100% smooth back). I mean, check out the back of this bra! You can see that the amount of surface area it covers would help the dreaded back bulge. #again #notthatanyofushavethat #winkwink #coughcough
I typically prefer a back closure, and they do have several back closure options that are also part of the Vanishing Back line….but I felt like the front closure really enabled the back of the bra to do it’s best work on the back bulge. As far as sizing goes, I got my regular cup size, but I went up a band size. This band really holds you in, so my normal size pushed up some extra skin that I didn’t want pushed up!
Here’s a before and after picture provided by Soma. #byebyebackfat.
The technology and fabric will smooth your back and your sides and just erase all of those pesky little bulges. This bra creates a beautiful and seamless look.
Last week on instagram stories, I asked people to leave me messages if they shopped Soma and had favorite products. And y’all! I got SO MANY MESSAGES! And I’ve gotta say, I kinda feel like y’all have been holding back on me, because YOU LADIES LOVE SOMA! I’m going to share some of what y’all had to say about each of the items I’m highlighting today.
Many of you share my love for this bra line.
- Love the back fat eraser bras. They have a prettier name than that, but I can’t think of it right now. Ha! And I love them because BACK FAT! 😉
- I’m from Canada and when I was in Boston 3 years ago I went into a Soma store for the first time and walked out with 8 bras. Since then I can’t wear any other brand of bras. Definitely worth the trip tot he states for their bras! Comfy, great quality, and worth every penny.
- I’ve been an exclusive Soma girl for 8ish years! The Vanishing Back (front close) bra is my FAVE! Sturdy, comfy, and the shoulder straps don’t hurt and don’t fall off. I tell everyone I know to just try them once…you will never go back…I’m not sure why I’m not on their payroll. Also, the bras and undies wash great. They tell you not to dry them but ain’t nobody got time for hanging undies to dry. They last for years and look like new! I do follow the rules and hang bras to dry.
- Their vanishing back (front closure) and enhancing shape full coverage bras are my life!
To review, out of all of the Vanishing Back bras, the front closure was the one that I preferred. I felt that this one provided the most coverage and shaping on my back, which is what I was going for. I don’t have a huge problem with lumps and bumps, but there are certain tops that I feel could look even smoother, and this bra does the trick for me! If you don’t like a front closure bra, there are several other Vanishing Back bras to choose from. Here are just some, click on the picture(s) you are interested in:
The Vanishing Edge Undies
So, I love the above bra. A LOT. BUT IT’S THE VANISHING UNDIES THAT I’M REALLY FREAKING OUT OVER. (Soma refers to them as “vanishing panties”, but I know many of you take issue with the word “panties”…so we are going to talk about “undies” during this post.) 🙂
Click HERE for all of the vanishing undies options. Click HERE for the hipsters below c/o Soma. Depending on the style of undies, I got either mediums or smalls.
You see the lines there (in the picture below)? Those lines are what makes these undies magical. They grip your body in a way that’s not constricting, it’s just comfortable. AND THEY STAY PUT. Like, I don’t care what you are doing, they will stay put. Chasing your kids around a play ground? #theywillstayput Climbing a ladder? #theywillstayput Walking a tightrope? #theywillstayput
And from the comments I received from readers, I’m not the only one incredibly passionate about this line of undies! Here’s what some of y’all had to say. The first one is my favorite…
- Hey, Sheaffer! I am SO EXCITED to see you talking about Soma. I pretty much do everything you tell me to do ;), but not your underwear posts. Because I KNEW I liked Soma better! I cannot be swayed! I am faithful to their Vanishing Edge line, and over the last few years, I’ve replaced my entire underwear drawer with them. I still own a few thongs for days I’m feeling particularly crazy, but that’s it. Soma EVERY DAY. The Vanishing Edge bikini is what I swear by.
- I wear the vanishing lines bikini. Love that they stay put; no wedgies!
- I love their vanishing edge panties. They have “grippers” that allow them to stay put and no move around. I can wear the bikini cut and not have to wear a thong! They are so comfortable!
- I have loved their bras for a few year. I recently stopped in to Soma to exchange a bra for a different size, and on a whim I purchased 4 pairs of underwear. It took me a few days to get used to to the “no slip grip” in them..and after that, I was HOOKED! They are the best undies ever!
- Vanishing Edge Panty OBSESSED.
- I only wear Soma! Their invisible panty lines are the real deal!
- YES YES YES! I only wear vanishing edge panties FOREVER.
- I absolutely love their vanishing edge panties. They are my favorite. I love them because there really is no panty line. Also because they are full coverage undies without looking like MawMaw undies. I love Soma! Never going back to anything else. Vanishing Edge Panties and Vanishing Back Bras all the way!
- I have 2 of their bras, a pair of their panties that have the grip on the inside so they don’t slip and you can’t see the lines, and 2 tanks…love it all! Soma is fantastic!
- The Vanishing Edge panties are life changing! I threw away all of my underwear and bought all new vanishing edge after I tried them for the first time. I can’t stand a thong and these don’t have a line so they are great!
- Definitely their Vanishing Lines undies. They don’t look matronly, but they fit super well and they DON’T LEAVE PANTY LINES EVER! They stay put like a well-trained hunting dog. 🙂
- Vanishing Edge Undies are the ONLY ones that will stay put and still have virtually zero lines.
- LOVE their undies! A friend introduced me a couple of years ago and it was a game changer!
I was so happy to see that others shared my passion!
And because I know everybody loves a good Before and After. WOW.
Behind the purple polka dots, you can see the one of the pairs of the Vanishing Tummy panties I have peeking out. The other gifted pair of undies (you can find them HERE) were in the wash. I think that they (the microfiber with lace hipsters) are my favorites. However, you should know, since taking these pictures, I’ve already been back to purchase 5 additional pairs of their undies. BECAUSE THEY ARE THAT GOOD. I got all different kinds to try them out including a bikini, a high waisted pair, and a boy short! And if you’ve been reading this blog, you know I already had undies that I loved! Like really REALLY loved. Well. There’s a new pair of undies in town, ladies. Don’t get me wrong, I still love my others and will definitely continue to wear them happily, but these new ones have me PUMPED ABOUT PANTIES. Somebody put that on a t-shirt.
Look at my pretty little underwear drawer with the best bras and undies out there! Also, I want to mention that when you are looking at the undies in the store, when you hold them up, some of them looked a little grandma-ish if you will. Not that there’s anything wrong with that ;), but I’m not a grandma yet, and don’t want grandma panties! WELL. Once you put them on, they are just really pretty! Not grandma-ish at all!
Remember, there are tons of different styles of the Vanishing Edge Undies.
One more look at the drawer.
I’ve mentioned this on the blog once before, but we splurged and had my closet done a couple of years ago. I know this is going to sound dramatic, BUT IT CHANGED MY QUALITY OF LIFE. We were super lucky that the master had 2 closets in this house, but even though my closet was a nice size, it had zero organization and was a complete mess. If y’all are interested, maybe I could swing a closet tour sometime soon!
The Cool Nights Pajamas
Another group of items in their “SOLUTIONS” line are called Cool Nights Pajamas. These pajamas are soft, they drape beautifully, and the fabric is considered “breathable” so it helps keep you cool at night. I have never been one to sleep in pants, so the short set and this little chemise were right up my alley. These were all of the items I purchased on my own just because I fell in love.
I’ll show you the short set on me in just a second, but I want to talk about the other items. The sleep chemise has a built in shelf bra and is so flattering on! AND IT’S ON SALE! The embraceable bra and panties are so pretty, and I just like having a matching set. I wore my regular cup and band size in this bra.
wireless bra / short sleeve pajama tee / pajama shorts / sleep chemise / full coverage lace trim bra / lace trim undies
You can also get to any of the items in the above flat lay by clicking on one of the images below:
Look how cute the pajamas are! When I asked readers for input on Instagram, I got tons of comments about their pajamas as well. Here are just a few:
- They have a “cool nights” jammies line. Never been much of an official jammies person, but these are cute and comfy and wash really well!
- I LOVE their pajamas. I swear, they are so luxurious I feel like I am on Dynasty when I wear them!
- My mom gifts us a pair of pajamas each Christmas from Soma. They are the best! The ones from 5 years ago are still in great shape.
- The Cool Nights line of sleepwear is ridiculously soft and comfy.
- I LOVE their cool nights pajamas. All I wear!
- Anything in their Cool Nights pj line. they are the only pjs I wear and they last a really long time! The best!
They are definitely soft and luxurious, but they are also super cute! I LOVE MINE! For size reference, I’m wearing a small in both the tee and the shorts.
short sleeve pajama tee / pajama shorts
The Wireless Bra
Okay, let’s talk about this wireless bra for a minute. When I’m lounging around the house, I don’t like to let the girls go totally free. #ifyouknowwhatImean HOWEVER, I also don’t want to be wearing a bra all the time when I’m just lounging! WELL. This bra solves my problems. It’s unbelievably comfortable (like you don’t feel like you are wearing a real bra) and it keeps the girls in check. I actually prefer wearing this to not wearing anything at all! I LOVE THIS BRA. I would have thought I was going to be a medium, but I liked the way the large fit better. I do have a large rib cage and a larger band size than most would think.
wireless bra / short sleeve pajama tee / pajama shorts
I wore the set for the first time when I was at a conference a couple of weeks ago, so we staged a photo shoot on the bed. Look at me all casual in my Soma pajamas eating a fruit parfait. #imsoblogger
Don’t you all sit on a bed like this, holding a parfait, and doing a little work on your laptop? 😉
I hope y’all found this post helpful, and I hope I’ve convinced you to at least give one of their SOMA SOLUTIONS lines a try! And don’t forget their current promotion: From now until 04/13, Soma will be offering a Free Vanishing Edge Panty with the purchase of a Vanishing Back Bra (one per transaction)! This is a $16-$19 value! Click HERE to shop all of their Vanishing Back Bras that qualify for a free panty! Use code 36279.
A huge thank you to Soma for sponsoring this post and for working to solve problems that real women have (like back fat and wedgies)! 😉 I’m so grateful that they reached out to collaborate with me, because I’m not sure I would have been motivated to try their products otherwise, but my goodness I’m glad I did!
Erika Slaughter says
Oh Sheaffer! I’m so glad you shared this! I cannot WAIT to head to Soma and check out ALL THE THINGS!
Shay Shull says
Sheaffer, I am legit online right now ordering some stuff! I loved this post!!
Denise says
LOVE Soma .. only bras i will ever wear (vanishing back)! They also have some very cute dresses and other lounge wear! The only problem with that is they don’t have petite. But If I find a dress that I like I just take it to my tailor. Thanks for the post and featuring SOMA … you won’t be sorry about your purchases!
Cristina says
Closet tour pleaseeeee
Narci Dreffs says
Look at how adorable all of those jammies are!! So cute, friend!
Jenn says
So happy to see this post! I got a gift card to Soma from my mother-in-law for Christmas and I had to work really hard to fake a “so excited” look on my face because I honestly thought it was for older women as well. I thought I’d just use it to buy my mother a gift 😉 And now, I don’t have to fake it! So cute. PS My dad gave me a Chico’s gift card. Seriously??? No offense to Chico’s. Maybe I’m wrong there, too? 😉
Margaret says
Soma is owned by Chico’s. ? I love my vanishing back bra and Soma underwear and pajamas. I’m also kind of old.
Christine says
Thank you for including a wireless bra! I had radiation for breast cancer last year and now am unable to wear bras with wires. I love that Soma has bras that work with women like me (that have large, but less than perfect, breasts?). And gives us some pretty options. I’m a big fan of the wireless plunge lace trim bra!
Sheaffer says
I’ve had a couple of friends that have also been through radiation, and they too love a great wireless bra. So happy to hear your are finished with treatment! xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
E says
A closet tour would be great. I am investigating different ways to organize mine. I love your blog. Thanks for always brightening my day!
Laurie says
Glad you did the post; I had the same reservations about Soma. Please do a closet post!!!!!
Shauna Wilson says
On a whim, I tried the Soma vanishing underwear a year back and now that is the ONLY thing I wear! Everything else got trashed. Now I’m going to have to try the vanishing bra & wireless bra. I do the same thing wear a wireless if I’m just lounging around the house. =)
cassie {Hi Sugarplum} says
I’m convinced….ordering those undies NOW! And YES to a closet tour!!!
Gail W. says
Closet tour for $400, Alex!!
Keisha Dawson says
Because of you, I’m a huge Natori fan. I will have to give these a try next time I’m in need of updating my intimates. I would totally love to see a closet tour!
Ashley says
Thanks for this post! I love Soma bras, undies, and cool nights pj’s. I thought it was for older women, too, but my mom made me go in the store with her one day a couple of years ago, and I’ve been hooked ever since. They have a pretty good semi- annual sale, too, which is when I tend to stock up on stuff.
Diane says
A closet tour please! This is a good post! Thanks for all the details and all the products you critiqued 🙂
Ariana says
I’ve been wearing SOMA bras and undies for years. They are my absolutely favorite.
Kelly says
We need a closet tour for sure!
Is that the correct link for the black with ivory lace undies under the Cool Nights Pajama section? The link is pulling up a lace thong, but the pair in your picture don’t appear to be thongs. I love the look of those and would love the link to that exact pair.
Also, do you have a link to your previous favorite undies. I think I’ve tried the link in the past but it pulled up a bunch of different thong styles. Are the ones you love thongs or another style?
Sheaffer says
Hey, Kelly! Well, I followed the link, and you’re right….it’s not the right link. The front looks the same with the lace design, but mine definitely aren’t the thongs. When I tried to find the same lace design in the front with a full bottom back, I couldn’t. So sorry! 🙁 xoxo, Sheaffer
Amy says
Yes to a closet tour!!!
Libby says
Sheaffer I sent you an email a few years ago telling you about the vanishing edge undies and how amazing they are–but I don’t think you believed me 😉 I’m so glad you finally tried them!!! 🙂
Sheaffer says
Libby, I should have listened to you!!!! 🙂
Libby says
Lol! You’re cute and sweet to so I forgive you ☺️? But seriously aren’t they amazing?! And the cool nights pajamas are soooo comfy!!
Abbey says
I would LOVE a closet tour!! I’ve been begging shay to do one too!
Angie Clark says
I would love to see a closet tour. I’m totally frustrated with my current closet and have been considering some help with mine to get myself organized.
Meredith says
Soma panties and cool night pjs are the best. They also have great dresses and tunic tops. Plus almost all are great because they do not wrinkle. There after Christmas sale is the best. But they also have an outlet in San Marcus
Rene says
OMG…. I too thought Soma was for “older” women and for some reason I always try to pretend like I’m not 50 and a Nana! But seriously, I don’t want to look like that, ya know??? I’m going online immediately to place an order because….well….because you said to!!!
Awesome post!!!!
Closet tour!!! ASAP!!!
Sheaffer says
You are going to LOVE it, Rene!!!!! xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
Peggy Bowes says
I’ve been wearing the vanishing edge undies for years. Love all the pretty colors and how they disappear under clothing. Just be sure not to put them in the dryer or the “sticky” part on the sides will break down. Mine have lasted over 5 years by not drying them. Also, love the cool nights pj’s. I won’t wear anything else to bed.
Sheaffer says
Great tip! Thanks, Peggy!!! xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
Diane says
I have a friend who loves Soma and I have wanted to try! Do you know when they have annual sales?
Sheaffer says
I don’t know, Diane! I’m so sorry! Can anybody else comment on this? xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
Susanne says
Last year their sale was May 31-July 7. I’m guessing it will be around those same dates this year?
Hannah says
I’m having my second c-section soon and I’ve been looking for some not-so-granny looking undies for recovery and after. So glad I saw this post! I feel like there are finally some better options for me other than Hanes 🙂
Alicia says
I need a closet tour please!!! Struggling big over here!!
Amanda says
Yes to a closet tour!!
Kathy L says
So…I purchased a couple of Soma bras about 5 years ago that are a little too big now since I’ve lost weight. After reading this post, I just knew I needed to go back to Soma and check out the Vanishing Back Bra!! I have to say that was the BEST idea I ever had on a Monday night! 🙂 Janice at the Green Hills Mall in Nashville was so incredibly helpful and I purchased three of the vanishing back bras and three matching vanishing edge undies (and received 2 free)!! I also purchased a beautiful cool nights chemise that was on the sales rack–win! I’m so glad you checked out Soma, Sheaffer, and decided to partner with them! My undergarment game is on point now! 🙂
Sheaffer says
LOVE hearing this! Thanks, Kathy!!! xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
Tammy says
Here’s one more reason to love Soma. They will take in gently used bras that may not fit anymore and donate them to be distributed at local women’s shelters and to homeless women. And it doesn’t have to be a Soma bra. They will take any brand as long as it is in good shape. Hats off to them!!
Sheaffer says
That’s AMAZING, Tammy!!!!!! Thanks for letting us know! xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
Raquel Whatley says
Hi Sheaffer,
What color is the vanishing bra in your picture? It looks like navy but I don’t see that as an option. Thanks!
Sheaffer says
Hi Raquel! It is navy, but it looks like navy is sold out. However, that particular bra isn’t in the vanishing back line. It’s the embraceable line and it’s still crazy comfy….but just not vanishing back. Hope this helps! xoxo, Sheaffer 🙂
Bethany says
This was the inspiration I needed! I have been wearing the same bra for waaaaay too long after finishing nursing my son. I went to Soma tonight and was properly sized and left with a new vanishing back bra and 6 pairs of vanishing edge undies. I feel great about this and truly needed it. Thank you!!
Nancy Lee says
I always prefer to wear wireless bras. They likewise have some exceptionally adorable dresses and other loungewear! The main issue with that is they don’t have petite. In any case, If I locate a dress that I like I simply take it to my tailor. I attempted the Soma disappearing clothing a year back and now that is the main thing I wear